The Other Man / Woman

17,733 topics in this forum

1. Turns out the woman I'm dating is married 1 2

   By Reltubsirch0412, July 14, 2019
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   • gettinoverit
   • August 6, 2019

2. Almost 7 years in 1 2 3 4 5

   By AutumnMoon, June 21, 2019
   • 106 replies
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   • Turning point
   • August 2, 2019

3. Just Ended a 1.5 year affair and am devastated

   By Beautylife, July 18, 2019
   • 23 replies
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   • Beautylife
   • August 1, 2019

4. To those currently in NC or been in NC...

   By HowToQuit, July 16, 2019
   • 19 replies
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   • Beautylife
   • July 30, 2019

5. 6th breakup 1 2

   By Scarlet86, June 24, 2019
   • 30 replies
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   • mark clemson
   • July 28, 2019

6. Wake up call - need to walk away from this

   By Maria1956, July 25, 2019
   • 18 replies
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   • whichwayisup
   • July 26, 2019

7. Coping as an OW after a D day 1 2

   By spiritedaway2003, July 24, 2019
   • 25 replies
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   • pepperbird
   • July 26, 2019

8. Should have known better, should have ended it a long time ago.... 1 2 3 4

   By Shock2019, July 21, 2019
   • 76 replies
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   • Shock2019
   • July 23, 2019

9. Feelings of shame..discuss

   By Hope71, July 10, 2019
   • 7 replies
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   • Prudence V
   • July 18, 2019

10. This affair almost ruined my life!!! 1 2 3 4 24

    By Naivewomen, January 15, 2019
    • 579 replies
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    • pepperbird
    • July 16, 2019

11. Never thought I'd be an OW (long post) 1 2 3 4 55

    By PhoenixRising8, October 19, 2018
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    • BTDT2012
    • July 15, 2019

12. Trying to move on 1 2

    By NotCloseEnough, June 3, 2019
    • 41 replies
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    • spiritedaway2003
    • July 11, 2019

13. Healing Ideas after breakups

    By Hope71, July 9, 2019
    • 6 replies
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    • SpiceCat
    • July 10, 2019

14. NC Starts Today

    By I Should Know Better, July 9, 2019
    • 7 replies
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    • Orokotikki
    • July 9, 2019

15. In a rough place - thoughts appreciated 1 2 3 4 47

    By finna, June 2, 2019
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    • CautiouslyOptimistic
    • July 7, 2019

16. A short rant - dreamed about xMM 1 2 3

    By HadMeOverABarrel, June 22, 2019
    • 53 replies
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    • HadMeOverABarrel
    • July 6, 2019

17. Words and Support to all here. Would love you’re responses too. 1 2 3 4

    By Secretgal34, June 26, 2019
    • 86 replies
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    • DKT3
    • June 29, 2019

18. Newly starting on this journey of being "the other woman" 1 2

    By lenny72, June 23, 2019
    • 46 replies
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    • SpiceCat
    • June 26, 2019

19. Why is this so hard to survive? 1 2 3 4

    By ExhaustedOW, June 18, 2019
    • 78 replies
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    • mark clemson
    • June 24, 2019

20. Quitting my job while having an emotional affair?

    By PashkaAnastinakis, June 23, 2019
    • 13 replies
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    • PashkaAnastinakis
    • June 24, 2019

21. tell me I’m doing the right thing and I will get over it.

    By Secretgal34, June 20, 2019
    • 23 replies
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    • mark clemson
    • June 22, 2019

22. Need direction- feel like I can't focus

    By TammyFLA, June 22, 2019
    • 11 replies
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    • heartwhole2
    • June 22, 2019

23. So many clichés, so obvious... how come I cant stop it? 1 2 3 4 14

    By ManMar, January 31, 2019
    • 330 replies
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    • TammyFLA
    • June 22, 2019

24. Getting attached to the OM 1 2 3 4 6

    By RoseGold18, May 29, 2019
    • 137 replies
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    • mark clemson
    • June 20, 2019

25. His lowest priority 1 2 3

    By OWch, June 7, 2019
    • 74 replies
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    • ABernie
    • June 19, 2019