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They own nothing together. She is completely broke and he lives paycheck to paycheck. He lives with his two daughters with his 89 year old father. He has no savings, no pension, nothing that she could claim. They were together for 4 years while married, and now married but separated for 10 years, going on the 11th year. I know she is out of her mind and unstable. I have witnessed her behavior. I just don't understand how he can allow his marriage to this woman destroy every good and healthy relationship he can have with another woman like me. I think his ex girlfriend was pretty decent t

What things is he complaining about? Isn’t he just being careful and cautious because you are complaining about things?

No, it’s not weird. It is a normal thing, nothing special. You really should stop controlling him and bothering him about his social interactions.

It depends on the man and on the woman and on the circumstances. But it is very rare and unusual to know so soon that the woman is “the one”. Also, not everyone believes that there is such a thing as “the one”.

You can’t gain confidence from paying for sex. On the contrary, it’s more likely to damage your confidence. You should stay away from sex workers, you obviously don’t understand how they operate, don’t know how to interact with them properly, and appear to have some anger issues.

No, you haven’t committed a crime, and yes, you’re overthinking. I understand your worry about making your partner sexually uncomfortable, I also worry about that. But you shouldn’t be worrying about it after the act. If she was uncomfortable, she’ll tell you. You should make sure that she is comfortable and fully agrees to something before you start that something, and stop if she tells you to. Constantly asking questions about it afterwards would just annoy her.

Something tells me a lot of this is just going on in the OP's mind.

Sorry it didn’t work out. It is probably for the best, since you had different views and boundaries and it would’ve been tough to find a satisfying solution anyway.

My advice is, never trust someone who makes stupid decisions. He's making a decision not to divorce his toxic wife, he doesn't care that this diminishes you and undermines your relationship, he doesn't care that his daughters deserve the stability that you could offer them as a step-parent. He's still the same loser that you dated years ago, and he's lying about his reasons, he knows very well why he doesn't want to divorce. That's how he ended up married to another loser, they're both full of s**t. I think if you keep this guy in your life you'll end up regretting it when his toxic BS overflo

A guy dated you for 6 months and then broke up with you for no other reason but because his friend distanced himself from him. He didn’t regret his decision. He didn’t say sorry. He didn’t try to get back together with you. He very obviously doesn’t have romantic feelings for you and doesn’t want to be with you. Why on Earth would you want to contact him now, hoping to get together again? There is no such hope. What does this have to do with his friend? If he wants to reconnect with your ex, then let him just do that. You should move on.

She told you clearly that you made her feel uncomfortable. She told you she didn’t date colleagues. She blocked your number. She either isn’t interested in you at all or perhaps she likes you but doesn’t want to date someone from work so she can’t take this further. What, exactly, are you feeling lost about? I don’t quite understand why you’re dwelling so much on which part of her touched you or what kind of pictures she showed you. Some women just like physical touch during conversation, it doesn’t mean they like you or want to sleep with you. Some women have a very flirty beha

Do they own a home? Does he have any savings or pension? These assets would be considered joint - he may owe her more than alimony…

How many years has he had to file for divorce now? At least eight -

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You need to hash this out in MC. It's hard to offer suggestions without knowing more, but some very common reasons are your wife feeling "touched out" by the kids, the loss of romance, and the lack of dating. Do you get any time to yourselves without the kids around? When was the last time you went out on a date, just you and your wife? Getting a babysitter once a week so you can have date night might be a good idea. Is your wife doing the majority of the childcare? Is there anything you can do to ease that? Generally speaking, when it comes to dead bedrooms, talking about your needs

I'm assuming that you mean you want "biological" kids, since if you got married her kids would technically be yours as well. I'm of two minds here. On the one hand, if you strongly think this is a complete dealbreaker, then there's no point in stringing her along. Better to do a clean break now. On the other hand, you need to really look back at your life and decide how much of this decision is truly yours, and not influenced by your friend. Let's be totally honest here: As a man, unless you want to go down the very expensive and legally fraught surrogate route, your ability to

Zoom has desktop version as does Meta Messenger. I video-chat to people on Messenger all the time. Dude, I guarantee you in that six months, you will have found an app that works for you and your grief over losing skype will have vanished.

Of course, you're cool with her coming. It's no effort on your part! Why do you think it's too late to ask her on a date in her own city?

Max, have you considered that IF she's insecure about her height, there's nothing you could do or say to fix it. Just present your best self and let the chips fall where they may

they will always be her priority also, so it is important that you do not get bogged down by the notion of committing to her and all that, Id keep her onside but I would also be leaving the door open to other possibilities.

Long distance is better than nothing perhaps- it gives a glimmer of hope to hold onto, I still hold out she will marry me and that the continuance of long range contact will eventually lead to us meeting and living happily ever after.

I think over all your right. Also im cool with her coming as I only invited/ brought it up to her once and she was the one always bringing up coming up with a time to come. Either way im skipping the game and think it might be too late to date her in her city. Thank you for the response

23 and she is 24

So the title might make you say "no" right away but hear me out first for my specific situation. So 2 years ago I met the most amazing guy and we dated for 6 months. During the end of those 6 months so within the 5 month mark, his BEST friend decided to distance himself from him because he believed he depended too much on him. This caused a lot of stress on my ex. And that stress was taking a toll on and started wandering if he is in the right mindset to be in a relationship now etc etc. Then because he was so stressed out I told him he could take a break because my dumbass wanted what w

May I ask how old you are?