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Yeah seems that way alot. This is also someone who wanted to be friends with me on social media. At first I accepted his request and was friends with him there but I later I decided to remove him because I don't really know him that well like that and I did remove him and explained that I only was friends with people that I actually connected with, was friends with and network with in real life, you know people that I hang out with. He then went on this lonnnnng rant about how he is just only trying to make friendships and nothing else. Mind you I never said that I wanted anything else from th

I would not bother trying to make conversation with him anymore. He sounds bored and totally uninterested.

yeah something is off. today we had to pick a monologue and when he asked how i was doing i said that i was doing good and then told him i was working on my monologue and kind of told him what inspired me to work on it just making some small talk. i mentioned a friend of mine in the conversation and all this guy did was just sit there and stare and didn't even respond or anything. yeah it was weird.

This isn't something "guys" do. It's something this guy is doing. He sounds socially awkward, or possibly just rude. It's strange to not respond and just stare when someone is speaking. I would keep my distance.

Hi so I have a class with this guy and I try to remain polite and friendly with everyone and I try to make small talk with people just to keep things friendly. I don't hang out with any of them outside of class or anything like that. I just mainly keep the interaction between us at school. There is a guy who comes into class and he speaks to me and says "hey how are you" I always respond back and says I'm doing good and then I began to just have some random small talk about stuff related to class or other relateable topics that is related to the career field we all are either working in or hop

Closure is the gift you give yourself. He’s been rude and disrespectful - that’s really all you need to know. There was no relationship here - he doesn’t owe you any explanation and you have nothing to be upset or sad about. Walk away knowing that you made a smart decision - that’s your closure.

She is manufacturing conflict and making you responsible for her happiness. She certainly has not resolved her own issues to the extent that she needs to. This isn't just down to communication differences. This seems to be someone who has attached all her value to how much attention she gets from a partner.

Closure...from what? You have never even been on a date with him. Whoa, girl. Zoom out here. You have nowhere near enough information about this man to conclude he is a narcissist. He sounds like your averge creep. But a personality disorder? You're taking it a bit far. Why do you feel the need to diagnose him? Or yourself? You aren't trauma-bonded to this stranger. You got overly-excited (and it sounds like overly-invested, yes) but you barely know him. There is no bond. I do think you need to dig deeper with yourself to figure out why this run-of-the-mill tool has got you thi

This sounds like worn-out leggings. Wearing panythose without anything else on the bottom would just be...bizarre. She might not realize you can see through them when she bends in certain ways, OP. I had a pair like that and wasn't aware they became quite transparen if I bent over until my parner pointed it out (i never wore them outside the house anyway) Do you like her as more than a friend?

This should not be happening in a relationship of only FOUR months. This is a sign that this relationship isn't working and this will only get worse. She sounds very immature.

If this was your feeling about her behavior on a first date, (I assume it was only a first date) then why bother reaching out to her again? I would just leave this in the past and not contact her again. It sounds like her personality is not a match for you.

You can't "make" someone want you. It sounds like this guy isn't interested. Just accept that and move on. You sent him very mixed messages in the beginning so that might be what messed this up. Or maybe it never would have went anywhere no matter what you did.

What age group are you looking to date? Looking for someone who's not your race AND who's about a decade younger, is going to make your search take that much longer.

I can't think of any. This is why I suggested singles nights and getting to know people at your local pub. Perhaps get your feelers out for joining trivia group, or advertise in your local FB group for trivia partners. DO NOT HIT ON ANY FEMALE FRIENDS. This is about improving your social life, not romance. But through a better social life, you may meet someone. Honestly, you have no idea how much women get fed up with going to something social and getting hit on. This is the consequence of fishing from such a small pool. Could it also be that you're punching above your we

Time waster, block/delete move on.

Asking to be seduced: cringe

There are a bunch of these dating activities now. That's where I met this one who turned out to be a problem I posted about before. So once I'm healed up I'm definitely going to try those. You don't think there are any other social activities where I could meet someone? There are a lot of women I'm interested in on these apps, but they never reciprocate. The other problem is a lot are just visiting and want a free meal. This one I matched with yesterday said she's here with some friends and wants me to buy them all lunch and take them shopping for makeup. What in the world is going

Its definitely something I will take into consideration. Cheers.

No fortunately she isn't racist. She was bantering throughout the date, which I didn't mind. but the mimicking irked me as my instant feeling at that moment was she took me for a joke. But as you said teasing and bantering is ingrained in a lot of peoples personality. And I should have taken a dig at her American accent instead of storming out. I should have handled the situation differently. As her personality was out of my comfort zone and my response was rather immature. Americans are more socially open than us Brits.

Teasing is playful banter, which might not be meant as mockery. …and it’s totally fair to feel thrown off by that. Accents are personal, and having yours mimicked—even playfully—can feel like a jab at something that’s part of your identity. But here’s the thing: intent matters. Is she racist? Some people flirt by mirroring quirks (clumsily, sure), or she might’ve thought it was harmless banter across the “British vs. American” trope. Doesn’t make it okay, but it could be a misunderstanding.

Well, mocking someone’s accent isn’t dark humor. Dark humor is making jokes about genocide or pedophilia or stuff like that. Make sure you are fine with that if you want to date this girl, dark humor isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.

What a weird comment to make. She doesn’t let you walk her to the door but wants you to seduce her? Which tells me that maybe there’s a disconnect between her words and actions—or she’s sending mixed signals. Like, wanting romance but needing space? Ambiguity is part of dating, sure, but it’s confusing AF.

I haven't been in the dating scene for nearly 20 years. It's all new to me again. I don't know what I'm doing. It is so obvious, that that is what he is looking for. I just didn't realize he would be someone that would do that.

You are right, she did compliment my accent at the start. And even said that she has a weird and dark sense of humour prior to our date. So I should have taken that into consideration. I have just never experienced this type of mockery before. Especially on a date. It will grow on me. I'll call and apologise to her.

Yes, you are correct. I don't know what I was thinking. I felt like I knew him from talking in the store but now I see I obviously didn't. I agree inviting himself over like that is inappropriate. .