The Other Man / Woman

17,727 topics in this forum

1. Coping as an OW after a D day 1 2

   By spiritedaway2003, July 24, 2019
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   • pepperbird
   • July 26, 2019

2. Should have known better, should have ended it a long time ago.... 1 2 3 4

   By Shock2019, July 21, 2019
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   • Shock2019
   • July 23, 2019

3. Feelings of shame..discuss

   By Hope71, July 10, 2019
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   • Prudence V
   • July 18, 2019

4. This affair almost ruined my life!!! 1 2 3 4 24

   By Naivewomen, January 15, 2019
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   • pepperbird
   • July 16, 2019

5. Never thought I'd be an OW (long post) 1 2 3 4 55

   By PhoenixRising8, October 19, 2018
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   • BTDT2012
   • July 15, 2019

6. Trying to move on 1 2

   By NotCloseEnough, June 3, 2019
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   • spiritedaway2003
   • July 11, 2019

7. Healing Ideas after breakups

   By Hope71, July 9, 2019
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   • SpiceCat
   • July 10, 2019

8. NC Starts Today

   By I Should Know Better, July 9, 2019
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   • Orokotikki
   • July 9, 2019

9. In a rough place - thoughts appreciated 1 2 3 4 47

   By finna, June 2, 2019
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   • CautiouslyOptimistic
   • July 7, 2019

10. A short rant - dreamed about xMM 1 2 3

    By HadMeOverABarrel, June 22, 2019
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    • HadMeOverABarrel
    • July 6, 2019

11. Words and Support to all here. Would love you’re responses too. 1 2 3 4

    By Secretgal34, June 26, 2019
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    • DKT3
    • June 29, 2019

12. Newly starting on this journey of being "the other woman" 1 2

    By lenny72, June 23, 2019
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    • SpiceCat
    • June 26, 2019

13. Why is this so hard to survive? 1 2 3 4

    By ExhaustedOW, June 18, 2019
    • 78 replies
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    • mark clemson
    • June 24, 2019

14. Quitting my job while having an emotional affair?

    By PashkaAnastinakis, June 23, 2019
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    • PashkaAnastinakis
    • June 24, 2019

15. tell me I’m doing the right thing and I will get over it.

    By Secretgal34, June 20, 2019
    • 23 replies
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    • mark clemson
    • June 22, 2019

16. Need direction- feel like I can't focus

    By TammyFLA, June 22, 2019
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    • heartwhole2
    • June 22, 2019

17. So many clichés, so obvious... how come I cant stop it? 1 2 3 4 14

    By ManMar, January 31, 2019
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    • TammyFLA
    • June 22, 2019

18. Getting attached to the OM 1 2 3 4 6

    By RoseGold18, May 29, 2019
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    • mark clemson
    • June 20, 2019

19. His lowest priority 1 2 3

    By OWch, June 7, 2019
    • 74 replies
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    • ABernie
    • June 19, 2019

20. Here to admit you cannot remain friends with xMM

    By Daisy2013, June 14, 2019
    • 19 replies
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    • LIRR88
    • June 17, 2019

21. Had an affair. Wife found out. I am terrified

    By Stupidandsorry, May 9, 2019
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    • darkmoon
    • June 12, 2019

22. When the fog wears off

    By wookiewookie, June 7, 2019
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    • somanymistakes
    • June 7, 2019

23. We're both the "other" but she doesn't think I am

    By David33, May 24, 2019
    • 15 replies
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    • Miss Clavel
    • June 3, 2019

24. Sad Lonely and and Don't Even Know if I'm an OW!

    By Juliet1985, May 13, 2019
    • 18 replies
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    • adna89
    • May 31, 2019

25. im pregnant to a married man again 1 2 3 4

    By misspalmy, September 19, 2018
    • 78 replies
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    • anika99
    • May 29, 2019