The Other Man / Woman

17,727 topics in this forum

1. Finding out he was married

   By leyateresa, January 27, 2017
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   • FoundMyStrength
   • January 28, 2017

2. NC-related question

   By jah526, January 27, 2017
   • 6 replies
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   • jennifernyc84
   • January 28, 2017

3. My Story With a MW (long post) 1 2 3 4 7

   By betweenthesheets, January 19, 2017
   • 170 replies
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   • BuddyX
   • January 27, 2017

4. Improbable Romance [UPDATE: Is "Stop" the Only Response?] 1 2 3 4 6

   By CuriousQD, November 28, 2016
   • 134 replies
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   • CuriousQD
   • January 26, 2017

5. My story as the OW 1 2 3 4

   By drypuddle, November 28, 2016
   • 93 replies
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   • drypuddle
   • January 26, 2017

6. I am the OM [UPDATED] 1 2 3 4 9

   By GoldenAxe, October 4, 2014
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   • GoldenAxe
   • January 26, 2017

7. The withdrawal of an affair..

   By luckylibra89, January 24, 2017
   • 15 replies
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   • HeartbrokenDec29
   • January 25, 2017

8. Will I ever be his #1? 1 2 3 4 33

   By jennifernyc84, December 11, 2016
   • 802 replies
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   • HeCantBreakMe
   • January 25, 2017

9. It's really all about Our Selves

   By confusingme, January 24, 2017
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   • confusingme
   • January 25, 2017

10. New Here, curious about the aftermath...

    By Marshmallows1981, January 24, 2017
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    • Marshmallows1981
    • January 24, 2017

11. Is my BIL attracted to me? 1 2 3 4

    By Relentless1, October 26, 2016
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    • stillafool
    • January 24, 2017

12. Too sad to function [UPDATED: Ebbs and Flows] 1 2 3 4 5

    By FortyandForlorn, November 16, 2016
    • 115 replies
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    • BoaConstrictor
    • January 24, 2017

13. Married Woman & Single Man

    By personalhero, January 19, 2017
    • 4 replies
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    • Jj66
    • January 23, 2017

14. Staying Friends

    By gypsilady, January 21, 2017
    • 10 replies
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    • jennifernyc84
    • January 23, 2017

15. Here's my story....

    By Libragal2017, January 17, 2017
    • 20 replies
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    • Libragal2017
    • January 21, 2017

16. Ending on good terms and going NC 1 2 3 4 6

    By OWAmy, December 30, 2013
    • 138 replies
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    • OWAmy
    • January 21, 2017

17. In so much pain

    By cloche, December 18, 2016
    • 21 replies
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    • minimariah
    • January 19, 2017

18. Lighter Note: Nickname used for the W and H in the affair 1 2

    By Otherist, January 18, 2017
    • 30 replies
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    • Robert
    • January 19, 2017

19. Will xMM try to talk to me after I exposed the affair to his BW? 1 2

    By Capabletoheal, January 15, 2017
    • 32 replies
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    • HeCantBreakMe
    • January 18, 2017

20. Can a Woman be a Happy Other? 1 2 3 4 5

    By msoptimistic, November 23, 2016
    • 107 replies
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    • Jersey born raised
    • January 18, 2017

21. Should I use our affair as blackmail? 1 2

    By whoiamnow, January 8, 2017
    • 40 replies
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    • Cali408
    • January 18, 2017

22. When does this so called "affair fog" lift?

    By Rorocher, January 17, 2017
    • 24 replies
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    • ShatteredLady
    • January 18, 2017

23. You will survive . . . .

    By CloudyHead, January 17, 2017
    • 4 replies
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    • freengreen
    • January 18, 2017

24. I miss him so much 1 2 3 4

    By moana, January 9, 2017
    • 78 replies
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    • ladydesigner
    • January 17, 2017

25. My totally messed up story 1 2

    By CrazyCoach, January 3, 2017
    • 45 replies
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    • trailrunner1975
    • January 16, 2017