The Other Man / Woman

17,723 topics in this forum

1. My story as the OW 1 2 3 4

   By drypuddle, November 28, 2016
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   • drypuddle
   • January 26, 2017

2. I am the OM [UPDATED] 1 2 3 4 9

   By GoldenAxe, October 4, 2014
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   • GoldenAxe
   • January 26, 2017

3. The withdrawal of an affair..

   By luckylibra89, January 24, 2017
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   • HeartbrokenDec29
   • January 25, 2017

4. Will I ever be his #1? 1 2 3 4 33

   By jennifernyc84, December 11, 2016
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   • HeCantBreakMe
   • January 25, 2017

5. It's really all about Our Selves

   By confusingme, January 24, 2017
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   • confusingme
   • January 25, 2017

6. New Here, curious about the aftermath...

   By Marshmallows1981, January 24, 2017
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   • Marshmallows1981
   • January 24, 2017

7. Is my BIL attracted to me? 1 2 3 4

   By Relentless1, October 26, 2016
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   • stillafool
   • January 24, 2017

8. Too sad to function [UPDATED: Ebbs and Flows] 1 2 3 4 5

   By FortyandForlorn, November 16, 2016
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   • BoaConstrictor
   • January 24, 2017

9. Married Woman & Single Man

   By personalhero, January 19, 2017
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   • Jj66
   • January 23, 2017

10. Staying Friends

    By gypsilady, January 21, 2017
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    • jennifernyc84
    • January 23, 2017

11. Here's my story....

    By Libragal2017, January 17, 2017
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    • Libragal2017
    • January 21, 2017

12. Ending on good terms and going NC 1 2 3 4 6

    By OWAmy, December 30, 2013
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    • OWAmy
    • January 21, 2017

13. In so much pain

    By cloche, December 18, 2016
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    • minimariah
    • January 19, 2017

14. Lighter Note: Nickname used for the W and H in the affair 1 2

    By Otherist, January 18, 2017
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    • Robert
    • January 19, 2017

15. Will xMM try to talk to me after I exposed the affair to his BW? 1 2

    By Capabletoheal, January 15, 2017
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    • HeCantBreakMe
    • January 18, 2017

16. Can a Woman be a Happy Other? 1 2 3 4 5

    By msoptimistic, November 23, 2016
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    • Jersey born raised
    • January 18, 2017

17. Should I use our affair as blackmail? 1 2

    By whoiamnow, January 8, 2017
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    • Cali408
    • January 18, 2017

18. When does this so called "affair fog" lift?

    By Rorocher, January 17, 2017
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    • ShatteredLady
    • January 18, 2017

19. You will survive . . . .

    By CloudyHead, January 17, 2017
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    • freengreen
    • January 18, 2017

20. I miss him so much 1 2 3 4

    By moana, January 9, 2017
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    • ladydesigner
    • January 17, 2017

21. My totally messed up story 1 2

    By CrazyCoach, January 3, 2017
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    • trailrunner1975
    • January 16, 2017

22. Know what I need to do but can't bring myself to do it

    By smoked velveteen, January 15, 2017
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    • sandylee1
    • January 16, 2017

23. My EA partner of 3.5 years has been distant with me lately... 1 2

    By GuessWho36, January 4, 2017
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    • Hopefuleddie
    • January 16, 2017

24. Had enough 1 2

    By Holly., November 20, 2016
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    • Lady2163
    • January 16, 2017

25. Destabilization Phase - part II 1 2 3 4 9

    By Lostgirl186, November 28, 2016
    • 206 replies
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    • William
    • January 15, 2017