The Other Man / Woman

17,704 topics in this forum

1. When do you stop being the OW/OM? 1 2 3 4 5

   By niteandfog, August 9, 2018
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   • niteandfog
   • September 6, 2018

2. I fell off the wagon

   By AngelLove, September 3, 2018
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   • Vivir
   • September 5, 2018

3. thoughts? ?

   By james53sj, September 3, 2018
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   • Vivir
   • September 4, 2018

4. modus operandi

   By jah526, August 21, 2018
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   • NomiMalone
   • September 1, 2018

5. Battling multiple addictions/compulsive behaviors with affair

   By Ravensglen, August 24, 2018
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   • jah526
   • August 26, 2018

6. Going through a affair break up

   By Heartwoman, August 20, 2018
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   • Heartwoman
   • August 22, 2018

7. Why is it hard to let go of affair

   By grass-hopper, August 18, 2018
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   • Chica80
   • August 21, 2018

8. Just found out my MM passed away yesterday..

   By Cocochai, August 7, 2018
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   • MissBee
   • August 20, 2018

9. Anxiety

   By Ashamedandguilty, March 25, 2018
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   • Ashamedandguilty
   • August 19, 2018

10. As an OW when did you finally have the strength to leave?

    By AngelLove, August 12, 2018
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    • AngelLove
    • August 16, 2018

11. Should I take the pain early and run, or give her more time

    By jenc, August 15, 2018
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    • kick_theleaves
    • August 16, 2018

12. Addicted to Love 10 months later Recovery

    By Willow Woman, August 14, 2018
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    • Victoria
    • August 16, 2018

13. Reflecting after final NC

    By sadwithouthim, January 31, 2018
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    • sadwithouthim
    • August 15, 2018

14. My weekend

    By pa2k, July 9, 2018
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    • pa2k
    • August 12, 2018

15. MM ending affair for another affair, etc

    By goldengirl11, July 3, 2018
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    • goldengirl11
    • August 11, 2018

16. Was I just used? 1 2

    By LikeMeforME, July 31, 2018
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    • LikeMeforME
    • August 9, 2018

17. 1.5 years later...

    By Bbz106, August 8, 2018
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    • Hazyhead
    • August 9, 2018

18. I chose the other path. I got revenge. 1 2 3 4 8

    By flubberghaster, July 4, 2018
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    • seren
    • August 8, 2018

19. I'm more Angry than Hurt now

    By imnid10t, August 5, 2018
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    • Miss Clavel
    • August 8, 2018

20. I stopped myself from having an affair 1 2

    By NomiMalone, July 22, 2018
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    • NomiMalone
    • August 8, 2018

21. Long time

    By Ronnie33, August 3, 2018
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    • Ronnie33
    • August 8, 2018

22. Love shack is back! I’m still in, coming up on 6 years

    By AutumnMoon, August 6, 2018
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    • BaileyB
    • August 6, 2018

23. I didn't know he was married

    By ailyro, July 28, 2018
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    • sandylee1
    • August 4, 2018

24. once a cheater always a cheater OW

    By misspalmy, August 3, 2018
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    • misspalmy
    • August 3, 2018

25. I’m struggling because it’s ended suddenly.

    By CherrycolaUK, August 1, 2018
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    • BaileyB
    • August 1, 2018