carhill Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 60 days in, pleasant convo, clarified some things and now back to day 2. NC has worked well for me Link to post Share on other sites
Mending1985 Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Wow 60 days! I can't imagine going 60 days without talking to my ex...it's a dream! Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Long story, not ex. Would have no problem going 60 not talking to wife j/k Link to post Share on other sites
nowhereman82 Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Funny I am only a couple days in again....but I haven't kept count....so I hope that means that this is it this time. Wish me luck! Link to post Share on other sites
badnewsbeers Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 I'm at day 20, and we broke up probably 30 days ago. Things were going fairly well, I was sad of course but capable of doing other things (I erased her from Facebook, MSN the whole business). Howeever this morning I posted on a friend's wall to see about going out and noticed a message left by her just below it... reading that was like a punch in the gut. Wasn't prepared at all to see her picture or read what she wrote... Anyway, that happened and I feel like I've taken a significant step back. Link to post Share on other sites
Hopelessly_Devoted Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 8 days! Link to post Share on other sites
SnowWhite924 Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Day 17 of NC. Feeling sad today. He's back from vacation. My heart is making me miss him and part of me wants him to reach out to me. My head's telling me not to break NC and I won't. I know it's the best thing for me. Still not sure if it was love or infatuation but I miss my buddy. Link to post Share on other sites
tealeafbud Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 17 days and I'm wonderin if she'll send me a bday message today. I'm hoping she doesn't but a sick part of me hopes that she does. Link to post Share on other sites
nowhereman82 Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 feel you on that tealeafbud...my bday is at the end of the month and hers is 11 days after mine. I just want it to pass. Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 Not counting anymore! Link to post Share on other sites
The_411 Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 5 1/2 months NC Link to post Share on other sites
BackonTrack Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 5.5 Months. I stop counting though. Things are starting to slow down, time is not flying by anymore. Another 6 months & I'm free. Link to post Share on other sites
tealeafbud Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 feel you on that tealeafbud...my bday is at the end of the month and hers is 11 days after mine. I just want it to pass. well nowhereman, she didn't call. I'm very glad, and I enjoyed my bday to the fullest without worrying about whether she'd text or call. I didn't call her on her bday so maybe it was a message. Not sure. Don't care. Shouldn't care.. Anyhoo, 20 days, but who's counting. Not me. I use my previous post and just add the appropriate amount of days. Link to post Share on other sites
LateBloomer Posted August 19, 2008 Share Posted August 19, 2008 5 weeks since the breakup, to the day -1 day NC after that 2nd conversation -2 weeks of NC after that (hell) 3rd conversation -2 weeks of NC after that ... then a phone call about whether or not to meet for lunch as friends ... I caved and tried to convince her again. -1 week of NC since. So I guess I'm back at 1 week NC. Wish me luck! Link to post Share on other sites
tealeafbud Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 23 days and the only way I knew was from this thread. I guess people aren't counting the NC days like they used to given how far back this thread was pushed back. anyway, I won't bump it next time it gets that old. I just had to pass the 3 week mark Link to post Share on other sites
RogueAC Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 1 week NC! This will be weekend number 1. I can do it! I know I will be strong so next week it will be 2 weeks! Link to post Share on other sites
Tripped up Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 Day 6 NC. Hardest thing to do ever. Give support please!! We can do it! Link to post Share on other sites
Ingenue Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 60 days since being dumped 48 days NC. Though today for some reason, NC seems especially hard. I'm not sure if it's because on Sunday it'll be my 2 month "dumpversary" and I have these thoughts about my ex and how he is. Link to post Share on other sites
tealeafbud Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 i consider this thread my "counter". so, based on that, I'm 28 days into NC, but I really am caring less and less what it is. Link to post Share on other sites
LateBloomer Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Two weeks and one day. Seem to hit a bit of a brick wall this week. Ugh. Link to post Share on other sites
tuscansun Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 8 days and counting...... Link to post Share on other sites
sunshinegirl Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Over 90 days NC. Almost 4 months post-breakup. Link to post Share on other sites
motive2002 Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 About 2 hours... after nearly a 5 month sweep. I'm still a little shaky. Link to post Share on other sites
orangehose Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 About 2 hours... after nearly a 5 month sweep. I'm still a little shaky. WHOA!! What happened, motive? (if you care to tell us) Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I know what you mean, motive2002....it's kinda like uncontrollable tremors. I'm back to 8 days again. Had a little transference action over the weekend (see my latest journal) which backfired a bit, but solitary heals all wounds Link to post Share on other sites
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