nickelinadime Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 6 hours. We finally sorted out the only issues I needed before the no contact started. I see her every day around campus but I try to avoid her anymore. I'm going for one month before I can start to be civil around her. It gets harder every hour. Link to post Share on other sites
purplepoodle Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 This round of NC is 4 days. Hope I can stick to it this time when he calls. Link to post Share on other sites
nickelinadime Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I saw her online and I feel like caving already... God this sucks. Link to post Share on other sites
seminoles84 Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I saw her online and I feel like caving already... God this sucks. Yeah I used to see my online all the time.. I finally just took her off my friends list on everything. This way I wont be tempted. You should consider doing the same.. Link to post Share on other sites
darnay Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 3 days today. I'm putting the keys to his apartment that for some reason he wanted me to keep in an envelope and posting them back to him today.. He's history Link to post Share on other sites
darnay Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 okay if i'm honest i'm sitting staring at the envelope and his keys, and i'm crying. It's the last piece of him I have. How sad and stupid is that. Link to post Share on other sites
nickelinadime Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 Just broke it because I promised her that I'd help her when she felt the urge to get into bulimia again. She sounded really sad but told me that most of her stress was coming from music (she's in a lot of orchestras and stuff) but I know that a big portion of it was our breakup. I've promised myself to only break it incase she needs serious help. Link to post Share on other sites
BCCA Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 okay if i'm honest i'm sitting staring at the envelope and his keys, and i'm crying. It's the last piece of him I have. How sad and stupid is that. My ex had my keys, but she mailed them. All I got was a plain envelope with my name/address on it, and the key inside. Honestly, it was harsh...no note, nothing. I advise doing the same. Just mail them and get it over with. Link to post Share on other sites
nickelinadime Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I've told myself that I'm not going to do it again unless it's an emergency. I really don't want her getting back into an eating disorder, but I don't want to be losing progress all the time too. Supprisingly, I didn't really lose any today, but it's still hard. Link to post Share on other sites
sultry33 Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 im going be strong... x Link to post Share on other sites
nickelinadime Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 How do I tell her politely when she caves to get away? Link to post Share on other sites
sedgwick Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 2.5 months since we spoke, 1.5 since I sent him a text he ignored. Breaking NC SUCKS, don't do it!! Link to post Share on other sites
sultry33 Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 How do I tell her politely when she caves to get away? just say it will help you both or say nothing.. do what is best for you Link to post Share on other sites
Melrapuo Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 12 days since the goodbye email. I wish I had hugged her goodbye instead. But I'm still moving forward. Link to post Share on other sites
seminoles84 Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 6 days! whore! Link to post Share on other sites
ahhhchooo Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 Day 5. She's a horrible monster. She deserves everything that's coming to her. Kind of. Link to post Share on other sites
nickelinadime Posted September 6, 2008 Share Posted September 6, 2008 Almost done Day 1. I finally told her I need a month or so of no contact. I want to hear her voice so bad. Link to post Share on other sites
wareagle Posted September 6, 2008 Share Posted September 6, 2008 Will be 6 months in 4 day's. Almost made it half a year! WOW! This time next year I hope she is out of my mind completely! NC is my ROCK!!! Link to post Share on other sites
nickelinadime Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 2 days? Needing some SERIOUS support. Link to post Share on other sites
nickelinadime Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 She just caved. I said to not talk to me (but polite). Back to square one. Link to post Share on other sites
tuscansun Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 18 days...wish it was more like....2 thousand and 18.... Link to post Share on other sites
colourithappy Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 Just shy off 4 weeks, longest NC record for me. I feel good about it. Shame he broke his this morning by texting me. I did not reply. I feel okay enough not to break this NC. Keep it up everyone, it does get easier. Link to post Share on other sites
Karma101 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 About 2 hrs... Link to post Share on other sites
Teacher's Pet Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 *puts on coach's uniform* *clap clap* Come on, team, you can do it!! :) -tp 2 years, 2 months, 13 days lol Link to post Share on other sites
tealeafbud Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 okay if i'm honest i'm sitting staring at the envelope and his keys, and i'm crying. It's the last piece of him I have. How sad and stupid is that. 39 days. I mailed my ex some keys and was very sad also. She mailed me some stuff but still retains some of my stuff, which hopefully is in the trash. Link to post Share on other sites
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