Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 A friend of mine who is a bigtime player told me that he can pick any randomn woman with a wedding ring and get her to cheat. He took me out today to try and display it for me since tourist season will be over soon and he kept striking out over and over again. This is a guy who can easily get a woman because I have seen him in action but most of these women seemed offended by the very idea that they would cheat. I did not expect this. Maybe their husband were nearby but I was pleasently surprised.
Author Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 Woogle, you are truly priceless. It's true. Believe it or not I do a lot of soul searching about this and I flip back and forth but this was a good thing to witness.
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 your friends with a guy like this? Its not necesarily the random guy on the street that you have to worry about ur wife cheating with... its her boss or co-worker or the ex-bf she says is just a friend. Plus you can't be SCARED of a woman cheating on you. If it happens it happens what good is being cowardly about it going to do.
Author Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 I have known him since way back and I am loyal to people who were there for me in my roughest times.
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I have known him since way back and I am loyal to people who were there for me in my roughest times. being loyal to your friends and going out to pick up married women are two verry different things. You really are part of the problem.
Author Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 being loyal to your friends and going out to pick up married women are two verry different things. You really are part of the problem. He was going out to pick them up. I was just watching.
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 He was going out to pick them up. I was just watching. I'm just giving you hard time for my humor... but seriously don't make me laugh women still cheat more then ever. If he asked out more then 10 married women that day I'd bet my life that one of those 10 had already cheated or were currently cheating on their husband.
2sunny Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 while i was married for 20 years - i had men proposition me plenty of times... i never cheated - in fact, i would laugh and say "i'm married, ummm, NO" i hope that allows you to understand that some will never toss aside integrity for a moment of pleasure...
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 while i was married for 20 years - i had men proposition me plenty of times... i never cheated - in fact, i would laugh and say "i'm married, ummm, NO" i hope that allows you to understand that some will never toss aside integrity for a moment of pleasure... a cheater would say the exact same thing. Its hard to know the difference when some people lie so good.
Rorschach Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I agree with green, this guy sounds like a totally jerk you probably shouldn't associate with him. Its your own life and you don't have to take advice from anyone but trust me, birds of a feather flock together. If you are one of those people that say 'well my friends are like that but I'm not' I have news for you, if you aren't already like them you will BECOME like them, it's the way the world works. Rednecks have redneck friends, cheaters having cheating friends, players have player friends.
Rorschach Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Oh Emm Gee, he was with a friend who was trying to show off then made himself an ass..... I would have been laughing at him, bought him a beer then said "good try, buddy. It was harmless fun.. Actions speak alot about people's presonality, none of my friends would ever do this, if they did I would stop talking to them (and yes I have had friends who were very close who made some dumb decisions in life who I then cut contact with). To some people it may not be important (it's all opinions after all) to me my friends actions speak VOLUMES.
melodymatters Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Oh Emm Gee, he was with a friend who was trying to show off then made himself an ass..... I would have been laughing at him, bought him a beer then said "good try, buddy. It was harmless fun.. I'm peering out my window as I write this...looking for those flying pigs !!! Good job Wogs AND Bontrager or whatever you are calling yourself nowadays !!! Such progress from the both of you !
Mad Max Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 When you associate with such people, it's a reflection on you. You will get a bad rep because it shows you hang out with slimy people. And yes, people do cheat. For me, cheating is the ultimate slap in the face. And if I get an STD as a result, I suggest you run and run fast.
Author Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 Other than this he is a good guy.
Mad Max Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Other than this he is a good guy. No he's not. If he purposely seeks married women, which is what he's doing, then he's not a good guy. And people are going to think you're just as bad since you associate with him.
Rorschach Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Other than this he is a good guy. I'll take your word for it, but if you honestly feel that him acting like this is out of line (and I mean HONESTLY feel that way) then just don't be around him when he does this sort of thing. If you only are second guessing yourself because of what people on the internet are saying don't worry about it, bet true to yourself and all that.
Mad Max Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I have a friend at work whom I go to the strip club with sometimes after a bitchin day at work(I hate going there, but I enjoy the beer) so I just go along with it. He is married and doesn't hesitate when the ladies of the club pat his ass or whisper things in his ear..I know he had sex one time in the "back room" one time. I wouldn't trust vital secrets of mine to him, but he in no way reflects my personality or suggest that I am a cheater, because I know that I would never cheat..ever. And I don't care about my rep when hanging around him...I have racing buddies and a few geek friends as well. I don't agree with what he does at the bar, but that is not my business..I just like hanging out with him...oh and he tries to set me up all the time lol..he knows I'm a chicken shizz:laugh: Your friend cheating doesn't mean you will, but people will think you do. That's how rumors start. You very well may be 100% faithful to your wife, but when people see you with this guy, they're going to think you do the same and people will think you do the same. And believe me, word gets around fast and I live in a borough with 2 million people.
Author Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 I have known this guy since high school and he has only recently become a player because he is sick of being a nice guy and getting played. He only did this to prove a point that any woman will cheat if given the chance but it backfired. He does sleep with married women but he is not forcing them to. They choose to cheat.
Citizen Erased Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Shocking. People loving their partner and refusing to sleep with some random player. Who would have thought!
Mad Max Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I have known this guy since high school and he has only recently become a player because he is sick of being a nice guy and getting played. He only did this to prove a point that any woman will cheat if given the chance but it backfired. He does sleep with married women but he is not forcing them to. They choose to cheat. They're both at fault. Him for knowingly having sex with married women and the women for cheating. And no, not everyone will cheat. Some men will cheat, some remain faithful. Some women cheat, some remain faithful.
Author Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 They're both at fault. Him for knowingly having sex with married women and the women for cheating. And no, not everyone will cheat. Some men will cheat, some remain faithful. Some women cheat, some remain faithful. He is not the one who made vows to another person and pledged to love and cherish them.
Citizen Erased Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 He is not the one who made vows to another person and pledged to love and cherish them. Perhaps you should go lecture all the MM that belong to the OW's on here about that. Don't see that happening though. Or do their wives deserve it?
Author Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 Shocking. People loving their partner and refusing to sleep with some random player. Who would have thought! It is quite shocking to me. I expected different.
Author Woggle Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 Perhaps you should go lecture all the MM that belong to the OW's on here about that. Don't see that happening though. Or do their wives deserve it? I feel the same way about them but he knows never to fall in love with them.
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