harmfulsweetz Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 well done for this post I seriously hope this guy is a troll otherwise I'm worried about the sort of men there are out there
LondonS Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Exactly. A person with standards also has the decency to see the error in their ways and does their best to rectify the situation not continue it until it rectifies itself. A person with standards has a moral compass which dictates that it is selfish to lead someone on and use them until something better comes along. Also, we would all be grateful if you could actually type real words rather than 'dan' 'dat' 'd'. I believe we are not children on this forum, and have the right to read sentences with actual words in them. Only a real time loser will create a thread like this- Look at the title.. He is "falling" for a woman with a sad face as if "DAT" is a bad thing and she is flawed in some big way... Bloody iliterate loser..
harmfulsweetz Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Only a real time loser will create a thread like this- Look at the title.. He is "falling" for a woman with a sad face as if "DAT" is a bad thing and she is flawed in some big way... Bloody iliterate loser.. 'Dat' is so true. It's like he has 'dis' checklist of her good points and her bad points and he's weighing it up, until someone better who scores higher comes along. That is the sad fact, he'd happily waste someone's time and emotions because he wants to kill time and get some nookie, knowing he doesn't really want her at all. It saddens me that people have the mentality that it is acceptable to do such a thing, because she is deemed 'overweight'. It's not about her weight, it's about how selfish he is. Most women and men can hack their physical appearance being knocked by someone, being rejected because of it, but to have sex with someone and then find out that they loathe your body, is too much to handle.
jthorne Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 OP- I think I saw your new girl on another board saying that you're a nice enough guy, but your d*ck really isn't big enough... turnabout's fair play, right?
Twenty-ten Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 My issue is that this could very much be a concerning topic to discuss maturely and openly. Some people do end up falling for others who they would not dream of finding attractive and they need to understand it. I don't have issue with that or the fact that a person might want to explore all angles in order to understand an attraction. My issue is with the smug and terribly rude comments the OP has made since posting his situation. He portrays this air of entitlement which most of us can see right through. I guess we should all take his comments with a grain of salt, this is somewhat of a reality check for him. He thought he could do much better but surprisingly this is the best he can do and he is sort of liking it too. I can see why this would cause him a lot of anxiety. It's a rude awakening.
LondonS Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 'Dat' is so true. It's like he has 'dis' checklist of her good points and her bad points and he's weighing it up, until someone better who scores higher comes along. That is the sad fact, he'd happily waste someone's time and emotions because he wants to kill time and get some nookie, knowing he doesn't really want her at all. It saddens me that people have the mentality that it is acceptable to do such a thing, because she is deemed 'overweight'. It's not about her weight, it's about how selfish he is. Most women and men can hack their physical appearance being knocked by someone, being rejected because of it, but to have sex with someone and then find out that they loathe your body, is too much to handle. I see so many couples where one of them isnt physically perfect..who bloody cares?? .. since when relationships are based upon these shallow things? I wonder how old this loser is..sounds like 14 to me..
Twenty-ten Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 I see so many couples where one of them isnt physically perfect..who bloody cares?? .. since when relationships are based upon these shallow things? I wonder how old this loser is..sounds like 14 to me.. They have always been LondonS and they will continue to be based on the same superficial things. We all do it. What all of us do not do, is use someone who we don't find satisfying until something better comes along. Some of us are much more discerning than that.
jthorne Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Since you're so dissatisfied with her appearance, you're probably giving her signs as such. I could totally see her wiseing up and dumping your immature shallow a$$. Just because she has a few extra pounds doesn't mean she's desperate and can't do better than you.
SilentVoice Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Are mad that you actually fell someone you say is below your standard?Or you worried what people may think?Since you are sleeping with this girl .... so i assume you are some kind of attraction .. are you just ashamed?
SarahRose Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 These two statements contradict themselves. And yes, you are an ass. Please leave my internet. +1 This post made me laugh. Great post.
marsle85 Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 I'm have to call foul on this Marsle. The guys were asked to evaluate photo-shopped images of professional models. Even size 12-14 models are photoshopped to still create an ideal image. They often smooth out lumps on models and clip in the indentation of their waists to give them a more hour-glass form. All this proves is that men like photoshopped images of size 12-14 models, not that they appreciate real women and their natural bodies. I expected such a limitation, my intention was to show that even heavier set girls (should they work out and invest in their bodies) may find more luck than they would believe. Hooray! Just throwing it out there.
SarahRose Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 It sounds like she has body image issues if she has already had a boob job and is going to get a tummy tuck soon. Imagine that!
marsle85 Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Imagine that! And i'm assuming he has shown more than one red flag - suggesting his post is nothing new. Poor girl.
Jersey Shortie Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 I expected such a limitation, my intention was to show that even heavier set girls (should they work out and invest in their bodies) may find more luck than they would believe. Hooray! Just throwing it out there But I don't think you can take that from studies done of model women with photoshopped pictures. I don't believe that's what is really being said in that study you posted.
dreamingoftigers Posted May 6, 2010 Posted May 6, 2010 I can't believe this guy came back to whine about his "standards," I do think it is just being ashamed about actually being attracted to this girl. Guess what dude? Bodies change after having babies. The older you get and the older they get (unless you want to be a perv) the more changed bodies you are going to see.
Author alexlakeman Posted May 6, 2010 Author Posted May 6, 2010 wow, alot of fat asses backing up other fat asses, lol I just realized this board is not based in the US, hence your standards for women are lower than ours in the US... bunch of foreigners, go figure.. :eek:
USMCHokie Posted May 6, 2010 Posted May 6, 2010 wow, alot of fat asses backing up other fat asses, lol I just realized this board is not based in the US, hence your standards for women are lower than ours in the US... bunch of foreigners, go figure.. :eek: Actually, the majority of members are from the US, Canada, and the UK...hardly what I would call foreigners by any stretch of the imagination...and it's more like good people backing up other good people... Now I haven't read every post in this crazy thread, but I wonder...why are you still with this woman if she's so "undesirable" to you...? Is it because you are equally, if not more so, undesirable to women and finally got someone to actually date you...?
carhill Posted May 6, 2010 Posted May 6, 2010 wow, alot of fat asses backing up other fat asses, lol I just realized this board is not based in the US, hence your standards for women are lower than ours in the US... bunch of foreigners, go figure.. :eek: LOL... loveshack.org 67.18.234.70 Record Type: IP Address OrgName: ThePlanet.com Internet Services, Inc. OrgID: TPCM Address: 315 Capitol Address: Suite 205 City: Houston StateProv: TX PostalCode: 77002 Country: US ReferralServer: rwhois://rwhois.theplanet.com:4321 NetRange: 67.18.0.0 - 67.19.255.255 CIDR: 67.18.0.0/15 OriginAS: AS13749, AS21844, AS30315, AS36420 NetName: NETBLK-THEPLANET-BLK-11 NetHandle: NET-67-18-0-0-1 Parent: NET-67-0-0-0-0 NetType: Direct Allocation NameServer: NS1.THEPLANET.COM NameServer: NS2.THEPLANET.COM Comment: RegDate: 2004-03-15 Updated: 2009-02-24 The domain name resolves to Levitown, PA, home of bevies of hot and not so hot-bodied women.
jthorne Posted May 6, 2010 Posted May 6, 2010 yes you do suck OP, I don't know if you suck or not, but you are coming off as very shallow. And immature with the "fat ass" comment. Love, JThorne size 4 from deep in the heart of Texas
Author alexlakeman Posted May 6, 2010 Author Posted May 6, 2010 yes you do suck Talking about sucking... the last few g/fs claim they cum unbelievably when I eat them... Is oral sex on women not that popular with guys or am I just gifted in that department ? Thanks for the bump, we're almost at 3K views!!!!
dreamingoftigers Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 LOL at for not having the "standards" that Americans do For a guy who is complaining about a few extra pounds you do live in the fattest or second fattest country in the world. Maybe you should work on your personal standards (like not using people).
Pink Cupcakes Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 She can't be that fat if she can hide it from you on the first date. So she was slim on the first date, then suddenly the 2nd date you start realizing she's fat? Makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.
Engadget Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 Talking about sucking... the last few g/fs claim they cum unbelievably when I eat them... Is oral sex on women not that popular with guys or am I just gifted in that department ? Thanks for the bump, we're almost at 3K views!!!! Wow, I pride myself on being an insufferable idiot on purpose but you sir, take the cake. You have to be young, really just not smart or a professional troll. Who acts happy when they get views for a stupid thread? You apparently.
Author alexlakeman Posted August 3, 2010 Author Posted August 3, 2010 Newsflash, I dumped her a.s.s. lol... Hopefully the bunch of you who post next read the whole thread and not respond based on the first post, lol :laugh: Another woman called me while I was with the girl in question, she questioned me, and that made it easy for me just to walk out... FYI... fat women, over weight, "curvy", anything over size 5?? LOOSE weight, lol....
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