Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 Where are you chiquita? Sorry luv, disappeared and all.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 An identical twin?? Otherwise it just wouldn't be fair... for her I mean. Ah, Lyssa, someone has a crush;) You are very pretty though Lyssa, so, you know, I get dibs!
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 Dibs on Lyssa guys, that's what that means, so everyone back off!
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Sorry luv, disappeared and all. I read some of your story chiquita and i'm sorry about your problem. The porn thing is bad in my opinion. I think porn is destructive to a person and of course a relationship. I have always known the value of spirituality but let this get away from me and now i'm "reaping what i have sown". I wish you the best in the future and if you i think you'll do fine.
jdeedee Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I read some of your story chiquita and i'm sorry about your problem. The porn thing is bad in my opinion. I think porn is destructive to a person and of course a relationship. I have always known the value of spirituality but let this get away from me and now i'm "reaping what i have sown". I wish you the best in the future and if you i think you'll do fine. Do you guys think masturbation is wrong or just porn?
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 Do you guys think masturbation is wrong or just porn? I hope this isn't out of line but I think masturbating to your girl is hot. Fantasizing about the one you're with is flattering. Maybe she's on her time of the month, asleep, or just not there when you need alleviation. I don't think that's wrong at all. I just think porn doesn't belong in a relationship, and that's one of my personal morales. I find it empty, and dirty as many others are seeing the same thing. Do I understand more of its use when some one is single? Yes. Is masturbating wrong? No.
jdeedee Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I don't have the strongest sex drive in the world. I haven't had sex in two months or more now but I only masturbate like 3-5 times a week. So in a relationship I really avoid masturbation all together. If I'm with someone I'd rather save all my energy for them rather than waste it on porno.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 I don't have the strongest sex drive in the world. I haven't had sex in two months or more now but I only masturbate like 3-5 times a week. So in a relationship I really avoid masturbation all together. If I'm with someone I'd rather save all my energy for them rather than waste it on porno. My kinda guy. So can you instill that to other guys? You know, power of mind control or something?
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I don't have the strongest sex drive in the world. I haven't had sex in two months or more now but I only masturbate like 3-5 times a week. So in a relationship I really avoid masturbation all together. If I'm with someone I'd rather save all my energy for them rather than waste it on porno. I have to say that in this sex crazed world it's very tough to remain"celibate". Porn though i think just strips a person of their soul over a long period of time. It's very insidious and addictiveThe trend seems that people eventually spiral down to more and more deviant fetishes and preferences. Their spirituality and personality suffer!
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I have to say that in this sex crazed world it's very tough to remain"celibate". Porn though i think just strips a person of their soul over a long period of time. It's very insidious and addictiveThe trend seems that people eventually spiral down to more and more deviant fetishes and preferences. Their spirituality and personality suffer! As far as sex drive goes, i could masturbate 3 or 4 times a day and still please my wife. When i must remain celibate the tension is unbelievable!!!
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 I have to say that in this sex crazed world it's very tough to remain"celibate". Porn though i think just strips a person of their soul over a long period of time. It's very insidious and addictiveThe trend seems that people eventually spiral down to more and more deviant fetishes and preferences. Their spirituality and personality suffer! And love life suffers too. It does turn into an addiction, but that most people can't see that or won't own up to it.
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 And love life suffers too. It does turn into an addiction, but that most people can't see that or won't own up to it. BINGO! Also when i'm celibate the only good thing besides self esteem building is the dreams i have are incredibly erotic! Last night was awesome.
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I ran into an old school friend and her friend and was standing between them talking while they just started feeling me up:rolleyes:
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 I ran into an old school friend and her friend and was standing between them talking while they just started feeling me up:rolleyes: I never dream like that anymore. I only have weird dreams that make no logical sense. Sounds like you have some hot ones though, congrats;)
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I never dream like that anymore. I only have weird dreams that make no logical sense. Sounds like you have some hot ones though, congrats;)Well those are usually my dreams too but i guess my brain is more focused on 1 thing right now and doesn't have space for the crazy abstact dreams i normally have.
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I'm going to Mexico next week for 7 nights and i can only imagine what i'll be like down there. I'll keep lots of ice with me at all times.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 I see. What happened to jdeedee? You know I only watched porn once? And it wasn't what you might think, it wasn't for me, or a guy, just a group of friends and they put one in. But other than that I've steered clear.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 I'm going to Mexico next week for 7 nights and i can only imagine what i'll be like down there. I'll keep lots of ice with me at all times. Time to get crazy, just be careful:)
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I see. What happened to jdeedee? You know I only watched porn once? And it wasn't what you might think, it wasn't for me, or a guy, just a group of friends and they put one in. But other than that I've steered clear. Good for you, unfortunately whoever you date is likely to have some issues with it. Don't compromise your stand on it Elven, you'll be sorry.
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Time to get crazy, just be careful:) I have to say i'm a little concerned in my current state of being hurt by my wife and sexually charged not to mention my love of Spanish women, my flirtatious nature and well everything else....
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 Good for you, unfortunately whoever you date is likely to have some issues with it. Don't compromise your stand on it Elven, you'll be sorry. I do believe that's how I ended up sexless and all that. Not compromising my morales. But you're right, it would be near impossible to not have to deal with that, no matter who I could possibly date. Sigh. Single it is;)
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 I have to say i'm a little concerned in my current state of being hurt by my wife and sexually charged not to mention my love of Spanish women, my flirtatious nature and well everything else.... So are you afraid you'll do something you'll regret? Cheat on your wife perhaps?
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 So are you afraid you'll do something you'll regret? Cheat on your wife perhaps? I have been to Mexico many times without my wife and i've always been faithful. That said i have always hit it off with women and make friends quickly. The feelings i had for my wife always protected me but i'm going to really have to watch it this time.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 I have been to Mexico many times without my wife and i've always been faithful. That said i have always hit it off with women and make friends quickly. The feelings i had for my wife always protected me but i'm going to really have to watch it this time. Wear your ring, and when in doubt look at it, remind yourself that no matter how hurt you feel, you are STILL married. That should help hopefully.
cracked1 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Wear your ring, and when in doubt look at it, remind yourself that no matter how hurt you feel, you are STILL married. That should help hopefully. Got to go, talk later.
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