OMG... I am...e v i l

[GreenEyedLady]

Also...look at it this way. If 2 guys are sitting at a bar, one being single, one being married, which one do you think will get the most attention and the best pick of the lot?

 

The majority of the hot young single chicks will be out for the single guy. The competition pool is expansive compared to the MM's.

 

Most women know the MM's game,(quick sex, go home to W) but with the single guy, they have a chance of a relationship. Maybe even M and children.

 

Men lie, honey...You think all the MM are out there with their rings on? And quite frankly the single guys who are single at this age, are single for a reason...They're either committment phobes or just got out of a marriage or R and are ready to take it out on the rebound girl...This fairy tale story of all the Prince Charming single guys out there are just that-a fairy tale...

 

Of course someone wants someone unattached-but it's the connection that matters...

 

It has to do with the attraction, not the marital status...

[lonelybird]

It is still emptyness if you prove this theory is true for some men

 

you gain here and lose there.

 

nothing is for sure in life, vanity, vanity, vanity

 

only God has the answer:love:

[directx]

It is still emptyness if you prove this theory is true for some men

 

you gain here and lose there.

 

nothing is for sure in life, vanity, vanity, vanity

 

only God has the answer:love:

 

Hey wait. If 'nothing is for sure in life', then is that saying God is not for sure, because he is your life, right?

[bish]

It is still emptyness if you prove this theory is true for some men

 

Theory schmeory.

 

She just wants the conquest of bedding down another married man and wrecking a home.

 

She gets off on it. She has no regard for anyone but herself and could care less for the people, even the children, who are negatively affected due to the MM's actions and HERS.

 

Truly sleazy.

[lonelybird]

It has to do with the attraction, not the marital status...

Didn't they marry based on the attraction? It is about newess

[Hazy]

I got to tell you... you are amazing at reading people here...

Amazing!!!

 

You're always right on! I also have 'hot flashes' when I read the 'it-will-never-happen-with-my-SO' ha-hem... *cough* *cough*... yeah right!

 

I've seen and heard those before... LOL... but you know, if that makes them happy to think that it will NEVER EVER happen to them... good for them... until ... not D-Day, but C-Day comes... (Crash Day).

 

Thanks, I don't see why we can't have an intelligent discussion without getting personal and bashing. I am sure you have had men fall in love with you, she acts like you need her pity or something, that is ridiculous. People can disagree without the nastiness.

[Woggle]

There are some sad sad people in this thread. I thought I was cynical but this is a whole new level.

[Trialbyfire]

Didn't they marry based on the attraction? It is about newess

lonelybird, your insight sometimes is amazing.

[lonelybird]

There are some sad sad people in this thread. I thought I was cynical but this is a whole new level.

Who is sad?

 

my relative just told me that people are NOT necessary to marry the one they really love, NOW, that's sad

[luvmy2ns]

There's someone in this thread obviously using two screen names. Can anyone besides me pick 'em out? LMAO Too transparent, honey, with the over-the-top brown-nosing going on.

[whichwayisup]

my relative just told me that people are NOT necessary to marry the one they really love, NOW, that's sad

 

So, why not just divorce and move on? Why stay together and cheat on the spouse that you don't love anymore. THAT is just pure selfishness...

[Tomcat33]

So, why not just divorce and move on? Why stay together and cheat on the spouse that you don't love anymore. THAT is just pure selfishness...

 

 

Too many comforts to give up.

 

And people are selfish? Gees that's a shocker!!!

[directx]

Who is sad?

 

my relative just told me that people are NOT necessary to marry the one they really love, NOW, that's sad

 

I am glad your relative is the be-all end-all authority! Get your relative on LS, would ya?

[EnigmaXOXO]

I also have 'hot flashes' when I read the 'it-will-never-happen-with-my-SO' ha-hem... *cough* *cough*... yeah right!

 

I don’t know what it is that has made you so bitter, angry and vindictive, Lizzie. I imagine it comes from somewhere, and probably for a very good reason.

 

The bigger question for me when I read your posts is ... who does she really resent more? Men or married women??

 

Most of the time, you seem equally hostile and cynical towards both. Almost as if “sex” has become some kind of a weapon you use to validate your negative opinions about people, love and relationships. After all, if your personal experiences with such things has led to constant disappointment, than I can absolutely understand how believing that it’s also unachievable for everyone else can help restore some sense of normalcy for you.

 

However, you must also stop and ask yourself: Is it really “everyone” ... or perhaps just me and the particular types of men I attract and/or make myself available to? Remember, we all play a bigger part in all our failed relationships than we like to think. And most often, it starts with the kinds of people we choose to involve ourselves with in the first place.

 

I hope you wish for your daughter and grandchild something bigger and better from Love than what it has obviously handed you.

[luvmy2ns]

I don’t know what it is that has made you so bitter, angry and vindictive, Lizzie. I imagine it comes from somewhere, and probably for a very good reason.

 

The bigger question for me when I read your posts is ... who does she really resent more? Men or married women??

 

Most of the time, you seem equally hostile and cynical towards both. Almost as if “sex” has become some kind of a weapon you use to validate your negative opinions about people, love and relationships. After all, if your personal experiences with such things has led to constant disappointment, than I can absolutely understand how believing that it’s also unachievable for everyone else can help restore some sense of normalcy for you.

 

However, you must also stop and ask yourself: Is it really “everyone” ... or perhaps just me and the particular types of men I attract and/or make myself available to? Remember, we all play a bigger part in all our failed relationships than we like to think. And most often, it starts with the kinds of people we choose to involve ourselves with in the first place.

 

I hope you wish for your daughter and grandchild something bigger and better from Love than what it has obviously handed you.

 

Enigma, YOU ROCK!!! Very insightful!

[whichwayisup]

I hope you wish for your daughter and grandchild something bigger and better from Love than what it has obviously handed you

 

Sadly, I don't think Lizzie is going to encourage either her daughter nor grandchildren to get married, let alone teach them respect, loyality, and committment to one person as she just doesn't believe in it.

[NoIDidn't]

Sadly, I don't think Lizzie is going to encourage either her daughter nor grandchildren to get married, let alone teach them respect, loyality, and committment to one person as she just doesn't believe in it.

 

WWIU

 

The person that I have in mind doesn't even have sex anymore, but didn't encourage me and mine to get married due to her own bitterness from failed relationships that she projected on to other people as well.

 

Enigma said what has been said about Lizzie by other wise and insightful posters too.

 

The hatred towards anyone married is all that sticks out in her posts. Unless she is keeping a little black book like Wilt Chamberlin, I doubt very seriously that she has slept with THAT many men and can make her outlandish claims. Has she verifiably slept with 10,000 men? Doubt it.

 

I don't pay much attention to Lizzie's claims. They're baseless, unverifiable, too trumped up to be anywhere near true.

 

I am totally with Enigma, though. I can't tell who she hates more - married men, married women, or the family unit that they have formed and she loves to attack?

[Tomcat33]

I don't pay much attention to Lizzie's claims. They're baseless, unverifiable, too trumped up to be anywhere near true.

 

yeah no one pays attention to what Lizzie says but the minute she posts a thread, all those very people are piping in to argue with her on every sinlge one of her views. :lmao:

 

some people crack me up! I guess some people don't see the irony in their own actions.

 

I don't know why some have the need to take things SO to heart, everyone has an opinion...who cares!

[Lizzie60]

:lmao: :lmao:

TC you're hilarious! I like you so much...

[underpants]

yeah no one pays attention to what Lizzie says but the minute she posts a thread, all those very people are piping in to argue with her on every sinlge one of her views. :lmao:

 

some people crack me up! I guess some people don't see the irony in their own actions.

 

I don't know why some have the need to take things SO to heart, everyone has an opinion...who cares!

 

Hilarious,

 

I agree.

[directx]

Lizzie is good entertainment! Thats for sure! Plus her avatars are interesting!

[Tomcat33]

:lmao: :lmao:

TC you're hilarious! I like you so much...

 

 

Well seriously :laugh: people spend hours arguing views with you and then they claim what you have to say is not taken into account at all!!?!?

 

I guess some people think that irony is a small hot object that little people use to iron their tiny shirties, and skirties, and pantsies.

[luvmy2ns]

yeah no one pays attention to what Lizzie says but the minute she posts a thread, all those very people are piping in to argue with her on every sinlge one of her views. :lmao:

 

I think some of us just feel this inexorable need to grab the nearest shovel when 'it' gets too deep to wade through.

[OpenBook]

I think some of us just feel this inexorable need to grab the nearest shovel when 'it' gets too deep to wade through.

 

She certainly gets under YOUR skin, Luv.

[bish]

Men lie

 

 

and women don't?