Woggle Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 Believe me you would not succeed with me. If that woman last night couldn't succeed no woman can. You don't want anything beyond sex so you are an easy side dish for a man in a sexless marriage. I am sorry but it is the truth. You are drama free side action. Link to post Share on other sites
PandorasBox Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I just don't get why it is, some people want to gloat and brag about their sexual shanagins with MM. What's the point of it? You can say its not bragging , but it is. Why would someone be proud of helping destroy someone's marriage? Now before I get grilled for it. I did NOT say you held a gun to a MM's head and say. "You're going to have sex with me you know you want too." You're right its the man's choice to seek it elsewhere to begin with, but I don't get why someone wants to relish in HELPING that happen and brag about it. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 why the need to send an e-mail? you said he has your number - i guess if wants to pursue it - then he will call... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 6, 2007 Author Share Posted August 6, 2007 why the need to send an e-mail? you said he has your number - i guess if wants to pursue it - then he will call... I said this would be some kind of 'testing' of my theory...that every man would cheat given the opportunity. Link to post Share on other sites
directx Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I said this would be some kind of 'testing' of my theory...that every man would cheat given the opportunity. Oh I totally disagree with that Lizzie. And this is coming from someone that is probably a step away from a sexual addiction porn wise. I think you might be right on some level, but you may be making too much of a blanket statement. Plus, I don't think men and women are that much different cheating wise. And if I am wrong here, what is the difference between the sexes in this regard? I think much has to do with someone's current state-of-mind, to be honest. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I said this would be some kind of 'testing' of my theory...that every man would cheat given the opportunity. Why do you need to test a theory? Does it make you feel justified in your lifestyle to prove this theory? I disagree that every man would cheat if given the opportunity. Plus if you really wanted a "theory", instead of saying "every man" what about "every person". If you are happy with your lifestyle and you have no problem with laying your head down on your pillow at night, then you don't really need to test a theory. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 This isn't about whether a man will cheat or not, it's about the needy affirmation of personal attraction. This type of attitude is normal for an aging man or woman who has always used physical attraction as a way to get what they want in life, instead of being secure about what they have to offer from within. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 It's really all about picking SURE things.. Instead of it being about every man.. it is every man that Lizzie wants to cheat.. So she picks the sure things.. She doesn't want the guys who won't cheat.. I liken this to my years growing up.. I never once asked a girl out on a date till after I was divorced and in my late 30's. I was always asked out by women.. I also never went out with a woman unless sex on the first date was a sure thing.. That way my chances of being rejected were almost nill... I grew up.. I hope at 54 Lizzie isn't too old to grow up Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 i suppose you could call him and ask him if he saw anything else he would like to purchase - then give him your price... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 6, 2007 Author Share Posted August 6, 2007 It's really all about picking SURE things.. Instead of it being about every man.. it is every man that Lizzie wants to cheat.. So she picks the sure things.. She doesn't want the guys who won't cheat.. I liken this to my years growing up.. I never once asked a girl out on a date till after I was divorced and in my late 30's. I was always asked out by women.. I also never went out with a woman unless sex on the first date was a sure thing.. That way my chances of being rejected were almost nill... I grew up.. I hope at 54 Lizzie isn't too old to grow up I have to disagree with that... I have sometimes no idea if the guy would cheat or not... hence the challenge. I already tested that theory before...once on vacation and to be honest with you... I was surprised he said yes, almost at the last moment... this one was a real surprise... Link to post Share on other sites
PoshPrincess Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I think much has to do with someone's current state-of-mind, to be honest. Good point! So does that mean therefore that the theory should be changed to "Every PERSON would cheat AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIFE given the opportunity?" Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I have to disagree with that... I have sometimes no idea if the guy would cheat or not... hence the challenge. Yes you do.. you are a pro.. you know either by his words or his body language.. you know Lizzie... Almost all women know when a guy wants her.. you just pick the sure things.. same thing I used to do... The guys that you don't get the vibes from you don't even consider as part of your challenge Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 6, 2007 Author Share Posted August 6, 2007 Oh I totally disagree with that Lizzie. And this is coming from someone that is probably a step away from a sexual addiction porn wise. I think you might be right on some level, but you may be making too much of a blanket statement. Plus, I don't think men and women are that much different cheating wise. And if I am wrong here, what is the difference between the sexes in this regard? I think much has to do with someone's current state-of-mind, to be honest. I still see a huge difference... Men cheat a lot more than women... eventhough more and more women cheat... there is still a big difference. I know a lot of miserable women who are stuck in a M because of the kids, and they would NOT cheat on their H. Women, eventhough it is very slowly changing, are still the ones who are in charge of the household, kids, finances, etc.... Do they have time to cheat? Not as much as men do. In many cases, men are still 'BABYSITTING' their children when their wife is going out.. LOL so that says a lot about the difference. (I never understood that one)... Men have a lot more 'opportunities' to cheat than women because they do have more time on their hands... Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 No.. it wouldn't explode...cause I know that if I make a move... I always succeed...never had a 'no' for an answer... Well if thats the way you feel, and you know you will always succeed, then no need to test a theory then do you? If you know he will cheat on his wife with you, then what are you testing? Just wanting to spread 'em for another married man....sigh. I'm starting to lose faith in human decency. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 6, 2007 Author Share Posted August 6, 2007 Yes you do.. you are a pro.. you know either by his words or his body language.. you know Lizzie... Almost all women know when a guy wants her.. you just pick the sure things.. same thing I used to do... The guys that you don't get the vibes from you don't even consider as part of your challenge You can argue with me all day about this one.. but I will keep saying that, not all the time, but in some cases, I have absolutely no idea if the guy would cheat or not.. If I know he is a 'sure' thing...it's not a challenge... it would be too easy... then my theory wouldn't stand... that MOST, if not ALL men would cheat given the opportunity. Like this guy, yesterday... I have absolutely no clue... he could say no... who knows... but I am just curious about it... LOL Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 Believe me you would not succeed with me. Nor I if I am in a committed relationship. There isn't a woman alive that can draw me away from a woman that I am in love with. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I know a lot of miserable women who are stuck in a M because of the kids, and they would NOT cheat on their H. Change this some, and in the place of "women" and "H, put "men" and "W." Now if you change that, it will read; I know alot of miserable MEN, who are stuck in a M because of the kids, and they would not cheat on their W. You said you wanted to test a theory that every man would cheat if given the opportunity, but you can make a statement about you know that some women would NOT cheat, but if you change it around why do you think every man would cheat if given the opportunity? I would imagine there are some men who are in unhappy marriages and, stay for other reasons, and NOT cheat. Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 You can argue with me all day about this one.. but I will keep saying that, not all the time, but in some cases, I have absolutely no idea if the guy would cheat or not.. If I know he is a 'sure' thing...it's not a challenge... it would be too easy... then my theory wouldn't stand... that MOST, if not ALL men would cheat given the opportunity. Like this guy, yesterday... I have absolutely no clue... he could say no... who knows... but I am just curious about it... LOL Just out of MY curiosity, Lizzie - how would you go about finding out if a MM would cheat? Do you ask these guys directly, "Hey you wanna get it on with me?" Or just flirt with them until they pounce? DISCLAIMER (TO LIZZIE): If you think this is too off-topic, my apologies. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 6, 2007 Author Share Posted August 6, 2007 I know a lot of miserable women who are stuck in a M because of the kids, and they would NOT cheat on their H. Change this some, and in the place of "women" and "H, put "men" and "W." Now if you change that, it will read; I know alot of miserable MEN, who are stuck in a M because of the kids, and they would not cheat on their W. You said you wanted to test a theory that every man would cheat if given the opportunity, but you can make a statement about you know that some women would NOT cheat, but if you change it around why do you think every man would cheat if given the opportunity? I would imagine there are some men who are in unhappy marriages and, stay for other reasons, and NOT cheat. There are men out there who are stuck in miserable M and stay for the kids or for financial reasons... I know that...but there are still more men than women who cheat and that the fact... Just check the stats... most of them say it's about 60/40... so a LOT more men cheat still... It is slowly changing though... but I doubt it will ever come to 50/50.. because I think women tend to 'sacrifice' themselves for their families more than men do... most women do need some emotional connection to have sex... most men don't. That's a reality... I didn't just invent that...it's been there for centuries... it was even worst decades ago... but women are slowly getting less and less taken advantage of... because now they have career and can financially survive... etc... etc... Link to post Share on other sites
directx Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I still see a huge difference... Men cheat a lot more than women... eventhough more and more women cheat... there is still a big difference. I know a lot of miserable women who are stuck in a M because of the kids, and they would NOT cheat on their H. Women, eventhough it is very slowly changing, are still the ones who are in charge of the household, kids, finances, etc.... Do they have time to cheat? Not as much as men do. In many cases, men are still 'BABYSITTING' their children when their wife is going out.. LOL so that says a lot about the difference. (I never understood that one)... Men have a lot more 'opportunities' to cheat than women because they do have more time on their hands... So what you are saying above is that it's the SITUATION that women and men are in that makes the difference, not the make up of men and women. Meaning, if men were 'stuck' with the kids and women had more time on their hands and as many opportunies as men currently have (referring to your statement above), more women would be cheating than men. There might be something to that. So men and women really aren't that different cheating wise: its just where opportunity is? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 6, 2007 Author Share Posted August 6, 2007 Just out of MY curiosity, Lizzie - how would you go about finding out if a MM would cheat? Do you ask these guys directly, "Hey you wanna get it on with me?" Or just flirt with them until they pounce? DISCLAIMER (TO LIZZIE): If you think this is too off-topic, my apologies. I will pm you the answer OK... Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 Anyone else notice a pattern here with ol Lizzie? She constantly has to pat herself on the back about how desirable she is. Case in point with this thread...she wants everyone here to know that this guys eyes lit up when he saw her. She is very desperate to have people believe this about her. Or it could be that guys can tell by looking at her that she is an easy piece with "big tits". Some guys will just f#ck anything. And some guys will f#ck any woman simply because she has "big tits". The rest of her is negligible. so whaddya think? Think she is overcompensating and really hoping that she is as desirable as she thinks she is? Or are these guys seeing an easy piece from someone who puts out the tramp-like vibe? thing that make you go hmmmmm........ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 6, 2007 Author Share Posted August 6, 2007 So what you are saying above is that it's the SITUATION that women and men are in that makes the difference, not the make up of men and women. Meaning, if men were 'stuck' with the kids and women had more time on their hands and as many opportunies as men currently have (referring to your statement above), more women would be cheating than men. There might be something to that. So men and women really aren't that different cheating wise: its just where opportunity is? No.. I would still maintain that women still remain more faithful than men even if the situation was turned around. I still think that women have more control than men on that matter. It's just the female nature I guess... not sure what it is exactly...but my feeling is that women will always be more faithful than men... in general. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I don't think Lizzy will ever be happy until she's screwed every MM and was pernounced Queen. I don't know Lizzy. I think one of these days your going to meet the wrong person if you keep up with this. Especially if your doing this for money. I'm just saying. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 6, 2007 Share Posted August 6, 2007 I hope one day we can meet just so I can turn her down. I would love to see the look on her face when a man says no to her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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