merrmeade Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 TWIMC - erratic presence (or none) here for a few days. New grandbaby on the way ... Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 As they say oppressor can forget but the victim never forgets I love this ^ and I will never forget 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lovinDKT3 Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 I love this ^ and I will never forget It is one of the reasons that its so hard for the BS's to let go and forget. The memories of the things we as WS's say and do much of which we don't even remember. I cant begin to wrap my mind around what it must feel like when they identify those acts and words as a result of the affair. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
purplesorrow Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 It is one of the reasons that its so hard for the BS's to let go and forget. The memories of the things we as WS's say and do much of which we don't even remember. I cant begin to wrap my mind around what it must feel like when they identify those acts and words as a result of the affair. This is exactly why I couldn't stay. There were so many little things beyond the lying and the sex. They are like little obstacles that I as a betrayed kept tripping over. It reshaped everything. Our inside joke's weren't ours anymore because he told her. I questioned everything. Nothing was untainted, nothing was special. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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