Author one goal Posted April 6, 2011 Author Posted April 6, 2011 So it's her fault that she doesn't find you attractive? So it's her fault that you're creeping her out? So it's her fault that you're acting like a borderline psychopath? Dude...stop. Just, stop. Leave this poor woman alone. I commented about the hot teacher I found out was married. Did I pursue her after I found out she was married? Hell no! She was taken! It doesn't matter that she was one of the hottest girls I've ever laid my eyes on, she wasn't going to date me. She wasn't interested in me. You need to realize that A.) she's not interested in you, B.) she's probably pretty freaked out that you're all obsessed with her, and C.) she probably will file a restraining order against you, because you're acting like a serial killer or something. I'd like to know how she's being mean. Is she just not treating you with attention? Dude, that's what ALL women do when they're not interested in you. And if your intention is to scare her enough to give you a good grade, you've already succeeded. Just because a girl is hot, doesn't mean she has to go out with you. She actually has to find you attractive first. Aim for girls that you know want you, not one that you know doesn't. What is mean is that she was being harsher when grading me since I asked her out. That is what I mean.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Just an addendum to your suggestion, I think he should include naked pictures of himself in that email to wet her appetite. That is perfect! That will really get her body moving... To the nearest police station, to file a complaint!
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 What is mean is that she was being harsher when grading me since I asked her out. That is what I mean. How do you know this? Do you know someone who grades her papers for her? Are you aware of her grading system, regarding you vs. someone else? How do you know she's not just a hard teacher? Was this before, or after you sent the 7th email asking her out? How do you know that she's not under pressure, too? Dude, you act like a prepubescent boy having his first sexual fantasy. Women are people, some will like you, some will not. However, it is against policy to fail someone because you don't like them. That is, unless someone higher up is aware of the situation, and is trying to get you canned. Oh, and if she's such a bitch, why do you want to date her? Oh, wait, it's because she's HOT...have you ever thought that maybe your sexual fantasies are coming across to her, and that's why she's such a bitch to you? Maybe she's trying to tell you to piss off?
Author one goal Posted April 6, 2011 Author Posted April 6, 2011 How do you know this? Do you know someone who grades her papers for her? Are you aware of her grading system, regarding you vs. someone else? How do you know she's not just a hard teacher? Was this before, or after you sent the 7th email asking her out? How do you know that she's not under pressure, too? Dude, you act like a prepubescent boy having his first sexual fantasy. Women are people, some will like you, some will not. However, it is against policy to fail someone because you don't like them. That is, unless someone higher up is aware of the situation, and is trying to get you canned. Oh, and if she's such a bitch, why do you want to date her? Oh, wait, it's because she's HOT...have you ever thought that maybe your sexual fantasies are coming across to her, and that's why she's such a bitch to you? Maybe she's trying to tell you to piss off? How the heck would she know if I was only asking her out because she was hot and wanting to get it on? How would she be able to know that for sure if you were just asking her out because she seems like a nice gal?
oaks Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 What is mean is that she was being harsher when grading me since I asked her out. That is what I mean. Maybe you're right. Perhaps she was previously giving you the benefit of the doubt over some grading issues on account of you being a nice student, but now that you've gone and creeped her out with your silly infatuation she's now taking care to grade your work more accurately according to the grading scheme. But I gave you the real reason several posts ago.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 How the heck would she know if I was only asking her out because she was hot and wanting to get it on? How would she be able to know that for sure if you were just asking her out because she seems like a nice gal? You give off a player vibe. Everyone on here can smell it. If you come across in real life the way you post on here, then it's clear to everyone that you only value women for sex. And you just said that you only asked her out because she was hot! You can't state that, and then later retract it. Are you bipolar? It sounds like you're bi-losing.
Author one goal Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 You give off a player vibe. Everyone on here can smell it. If you come across in real life the way you post on here, then it's clear to everyone that you only value women for sex. And you just said that you only asked her out because she was hot! You can't state that, and then later retract it. Are you bipolar? It sounds like you're bi-losing. Well of course being attractive is a reason why you ask a girl out. I mean if she was 300lbs I wouldn't be asking her out. How do women sense this kinda of stuff in a guy? Also being she is like 11 years older than me, can that be a factor she doesn't want to date guys that young?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Well of course being attractive is a reason why you ask a girl out. I mean if she was 300lbs I wouldn't be asking her out. How do women sense this kinda of stuff in a guy? Also being she is like 11 years older than me, can that be a factor she doesn't want to date guys that young? Who gives a crap WHY she doesn't want to date you? She doesn't want to date you. You are harassing her. Move on, before you get arrested. You are someone who needs to be institutionalized. You are sick.
Cracker Jack Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I know a lack of companionship is bad for the psyche, but you're taking it too far. Let it go, dude. She doesn't want you. The reasons why is irrelevant; it's just pointless speculation at this point. It's like you're just talking and not listening at this point.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 11 pages, and the OP is ignoring all advice. He might as well be talking to a wall.
Author one goal Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 I know a lack of companionship is bad for the psyche, but you're taking it too far. Let it go, dude. She doesn't want you. The reasons why is irrelevant; it's just pointless speculation at this point. It's like you're just talking and not listening at this point. So when I go to a university in the fall how can I have better luck with girls?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 So when I go to a university in the fall how can I have better luck with girls? Get on an anti-anxiety medication Work out Get better clothes Get a nice haircut Stop treating women like porn actresses, and like actual human beings That pretty much covers it.
Author one goal Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 Get on an anti-anxiety medication Work out Get better clothes Get a nice haircut Stop treating women like porn actresses, and like actual human beings That pretty much covers it. I'm in good shape. I work out. I wear t shirt and jeans, and i get normal haircuts. What do you mean by how I treat girls? I mean when interacting with them.
Lilmisus Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I'm in good shape. I work out. I wear t shirt and jeans, and i get normal haircuts. What do you mean by how I treat girls? I mean when interacting with them. Don't just go for girls who are hot. That's a horrible thing to do, and if a guy only asked me out because of my looks, I would decline in an instant, no hesitation at all. Maybe if you downgraded your expectations for how you want your potential gal to look like, then you'd have much better luck. Go for someone who you can connect with, who you think is a nice person, and look for inner beauty and not just someone who you declare is "hot!" Just be a charming, nice guy, who thinks with his head, and not with his penis, it will take you far...at least farther than it has now. And whatever you do..never ask out another teacher, ever again. If you feel you must, wait until a few months after the semester is over or after you graduate. Not a single teacher will say yes to your asking (even if they do dig younger guys and find you attractive), I guarantee it.
Cracker Jack Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I'm in good shape. I work out. I wear t shirt and jeans, and i get normal haircuts. What do you mean by how I treat girls? I mean when interacting with them. Don't put them on a pedestal. If a woman's hot, yet ends up rejecting you, life goes on. Just try to be more chill about women in general.
Author one goal Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 Don't just go for girls who are hot. That's a horrible thing to do, and if a guy only asked me out because of my looks, I would decline in an instant, no hesitation at all. Maybe if you downgraded your expectations for how you want your potential gal to look like, then you'd have much better luck. Go for someone who you can connect with, who you think is a nice person, and look for inner beauty and not just someone who you declare is "hot!" Just be a charming, nice guy, who thinks with his head, and not with his penis, it will take you far...at least farther than it has now. And whatever you do..never ask out another teacher, ever again. If you feel you must, wait until a few months after the semester is over or after you graduate. Not a single teacher will say yes to your asking (even if they do dig younger guys and find you attractive), I guarantee it. So you're saying that I'm not worthy of having an attractive girl? That's kinda degrading me. The thing is also about the teacher is that she's liberal. She knows I'm right wing, I've told her I'm conservative before. Could that be also why she didn't really dig me? Like I said in class I'm always respectful towards her.
Lucky_One Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Not only is she thinking you are a creeper, she is thinking that you are stupid enough that you believe that you could take her out, buy her dinner, and sweet talk her into an A. You really sent her an email saying how important it was that you get straight A's AND you talk about asking her to "hang out" with you?? She's a grown women. We don't "hang out"; we date. Your mail makes it sound like you just wanted "a lay for an A". I am seeing a C in your approaching future.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Actually you know what? She may grade you harder to show this she isn't interested because you keep after her.
Dust Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 You don’t ask some one you know in person out in an email, and even worse you don’t talk to some one about how you asked them out. You didn’t just do a doubly wrong move, you did a wrong move squared. Just to recap ask them out in person, and if things don’t go as hoped either ask them out again or move on, you don’t talk them about how it went wrong.
thatdog Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 So you're saying that I'm not worthy of having an attractive girl? That's kinda degrading me. ROFL. By this you are also essentially implying that 99% of the female population isn't worthy of having you, which is degrading for all those nice girls out there looking for a good bf. One of your problems is you are way too superficial about attractiveness. If you treat girls properly you will get to know them better and realize there is more to them than looks just like there is more to any healthy relationship than just sex. Try to think about what you would value in a girl that you dated besides a hot body and focus on looking for and getting to know other girls who have those traits. Also I think remember you saying on one of your posts that you've ask out 3 girls this year. For someone desperate to get into the dating game this is incredibly low. You should be trying 3 a week or thereabouts. Unless you are looking for something serious. But in that case you have to be a lot more serious about considering what you want besides looks.
Author one goal Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 You don’t ask some one you know in person out in an email, and even worse you don’t talk to some one about how you asked them out. You didn’t just do a doubly wrong move, you did a wrong move squared. Just to recap ask them out in person, and if things don’t go as hoped either ask them out again or move on, you don’t talk them about how it went wrong. No, I didn't ask her out again in that email. Noticed I referred to the past in it. Saying if I didn't like her, then I wouldn't have asked her out. Again I didn't think it was appropriate to ask her out during school, so that is why I asked her outside of school to be respectful. Also when I go to a university should I try going after women in their 20s, instead of ones nearing 40? I mean would the chances be better?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Also when I go to a university should I try going after women in their 20s, instead of ones nearing 40? I mean would the chances be better? Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! As far as the rest of the post, and your most recent posts, how is that wall responding to you?
dreamingoftigers Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Did a little sliver of light slip through?!?!?
Author one goal Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! Is it because older girls are looking for different things in a guy?
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