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MyNameIsJane
Are you suggesting that all of the women here are as overweight as you are? Because I'm fully honest, and I look nothing like you do. I've got some softness going on, but it's more like fat Britney than the picture you posted.

 

Lol Apparently... because I posted an actual photo of myself - but I am still dishonest....dotdotdot

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Ihavenoidea

I disagree about its ok for a guy to be fat and not a girl. I train and go to the gym to stay healthy for myself and attactive to women and I expect the same in return.

 

Its guys like that , that give real nice guys a bad name.

 

I meet all those qualities of a nice guy according to you, the difference is I dont go around bitching about it, i go out and get a date

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harmfulsweetz
Absolutely!! Scotts are great, the best sense of humour. I loved him in The Ugly Truth, SO cheeky but so lovable at the same time. :love:

 

 

:D Yep they do. I live near the Scottish border so a lot of scott humor here!

 

:lmao::lmao: :love::love: I bought 300 just for the pleasure of seeing him.

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I agree, it's ok for a man to be overweight, but it's not ok for a woman.

 

There are exceptions of course, but to generalize what we all know: Men are attracted to looks, women are attracted to power.

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Thanks!

 

Haha... It's just that I keep getting told lately that I look like her. I don't see it, but... ;)

 

Let's see you! She has such a wide eyed beauty, very natural. I love it and am envious.

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harmfulsweetz
Are you suggesting that all of the women here are as overweight as you are? Because I'm fully honest, and I look nothing like you do. I've got some softness going on, but it's more like fat Britney than the picture you posted.

 

 

 

Get a tailor. Seriously. Well made/fitting clothes will only make you appear slimmer. I have to buy most dresses and suit jackets 2 sizes too big, and get it altered to fit my waist. I also have to buy pants one size too big, and have them tailored as well.

 

 

 

Sure, but you don't have to look like the picture you posted to be a "real" woman.

 

woah...with the bitchiness...woah. I don't think she was suggesting that at all, and there's certainly no need to have digs at each other. Claws away. Meow. Honestly, because I am, I don't care if a person is overweight, or whatnot, not a big deal to me, and I'm not going to call someone out on it over the internet, after assuming that they suggested we all look like that. She didn't once suggest it.

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Ihavenoidea

To be honest , a lot of the pics I have seen from users, such as Jane and Marsle and my assumtion of stargazer, we have a fairly attractive user base. lol

 

to name a few

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harmfulsweetz
I agree, it's ok for a man to be overweight, but it's not ok for a woman.

 

There are exceptions of course, but to generalize what we all know: Men are attracted to looks, women are attracted to power.

 

True. It just seems sort of unfair if you think about it, but I suppose it's the way of the world.

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brainygirl
What if the woman is after the same thing? Does that make her not-nice too?

 

^ then both people need to have been upfront about what they were after. Don't advertise yourself as looking for a LTR when you want a hookup.

 

And I don't mean to insult people for what they like, but lets face it, there have been three days of fat girl bashing and there are people of both genders who've said things like "gross" and "lazy" in reguards to people who are over weight, and aside from myself no one has said, wait a minute, I'm over weigt and I'm not lazy and I resent being called gross.

 

So yeah, it hits a freakin nerve. And no, no one is knocking down doors to take me out on a date. And yeah, if I had hours to spend in a gym and didn't mind flaunting my chest I'd probably be able to change that. But I don't have hours to spend in a gym and I tend to dislike flaunting my assets.

 

So forgive me.

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Um good for you?

 

I also like the way men with lean, slightly muscular bodies, and a 6-pack of abs look. Like this... ;)

 

http://www.ab-core-and-stomach-exercises.com/images/6-pack-abs-2.jpg

 

Well since we're posting men's pics, my choices would have to be based on their face, physical attributes and acting ability:

 

http://craignj.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/ryan6.jpg

 

http://fotos0.mundofotos.net/2010/09_01_2010/cinemastars1263040030/sam-worthington.jpg

 

From what I've read, seen in interviews, they seem pretty swell off-camera too. :)

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Twenty-ten

There are exceptions of course, but to generalize what we all know: Men are attracted to looks, women are attracted to power.

 

 

Don't kid yourself, we are attracted to looks as well. There ain't enough money or power in this world that would make me even touch a man I don't find physically attractive. But of course men tell themselves this huge lie in order to feel better about themselves. Women judge men on looks just as harshly, so unless you have a zillions dollars you ain't got a chance in hell to attract a good looking woman unless you look equally as good.

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MyNameIsJane
^ then both people need to have been upfront about what they were after. Don't advertise yourself as looking for a LTR when you want a hookup.

 

And I don't mean to insult people for what they like, but lets face it, there have been three days of fat girl bashing and there are people of both genders who've said things like "gross" and "lazy" in reguards to people who are over weight, and aside from myself no one has said, wait a minute, I'm over weigt and I'm not lazy and I resent being called gross.

 

So yeah, it hits a freakin nerve. And no, no one is knocking down doors to take me out on a date. And yeah, if I had hours to spend in a gym and didn't mind flaunting my chest I'd probably be able to change that. But I don't have hours to spend in a gym and I tend to dislike flaunting my assets.

 

So forgive me.

 

Just in here you make assumptions about skinny girls like others make assumptions about overweight girls... you are doing the same thing you are complaining about.

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Twenty-ten

And for the record I have seen plenty overweight women with really hot boyfriends, look through a bride catalogue and tell me all those women getting married are exclusively skinny.

Not a hope.

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harmfulsweetz

Let's not have this thread turning into a bashing thread...god, I get sick of those as do many. This thread and the others has a simple resolution...find the type of person you find attractive, be with them, forget about the ones you don't, and live your life. Simples.

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brainygirl
Are you suggesting that all of the women here are as overweight as you are? Because I'm fully honest, and I look nothing like you do. I've got some softness going on, but it's more like fat Britney than the picture you posted.

 

 

 

Get a tailor. Seriously. Well made/fitting clothes will only make you appear slimmer. I have to buy most dresses and suit jackets 2 sizes too big, and get it altered to fit my waist. I also have to buy pants one size too big, and have them tailored as well.

 

 

 

Sure, but you don't have to look like the picture you posted to be a "real" woman.

 

Riight, on my 1400 a month I'll have my clothes taylored.

 

And no, I don't think everyone here is plus sized, but I do think that there is an awful lot of self righteous "I'm in shape and you should be too" going on.

 

The picture was an example of an attractive plus sized woman. The question was how is she so disgutsting? Apparently because she's fat and lazy. . . .

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Twenty-ten
Good choice Ruby, good choice.

 

Guy sitting down on left...:D

 

 

We have the same taste, I picked him too plus the one in the middle. Also LOVE Ryan Reynolds he is SO funny in interviews, totally cool guy!

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We have the same taste, I picked him too plus the one in the middle. Also LOVE Ryan Reynolds he is SO funny in interviews, totally cool guy!

 

:)

 

I'm torn now between surfing for more pics of Ryan, or going back to watching the Karate Kid on TV. :laugh:

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Twenty-ten
Riight, on my 1400 a month I'll have my clothes taylored.

 

And no, I don't think everyone here is plus sized, but I do think that there is an awful lot of self righteous "I'm in shape and you should be too" going on.

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Not only that but if you have to buy clothes a few sizes bigger than yours and have them tailored to fit, you definitely have some big problem areas going on. I picture a very disproportionate body, not very attractive at all. That is possibly worse than being overall overweight.

 

I agree, I think people should start posting pics of their bodies and then was can talk.

 

:)

 

I'm torn now between surfing for more pics of Ryan, or going back to watching the Karate Kid on TV. :laugh:

Pics, pics pics!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
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brainygirl
Not only that but if you have to buy clothes a few sizes bigger than yours and have them tailored to fit, you definitely have some big problem areas going on. I picture a very disproportionate body, not very attractive at all. That is possibly worse than being overall overweight.

 

I agree, I think people should start posting pics of their bodies and then was can talk.

 

Pics, pics pics!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

 

I have a small waste in proportion to my hips and very large boobs for my frame. That isn't something working out will ever be able to change. But thanks for the much worse than being overweight. This is making me feel worse and worse.

 

 

This should link to a pic of me. It isn't fancy, but it shows my shape.

 

<a href="http://s230.photobucket.com/albums/ee172/alycegawlas/?action=view&current=isaiahbdayandassortedhappycrappy050.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i230.photobucket.com/albums/ee172/alycegawlas/isaiahbdayandassortedhappycrappy050.jpg" border="0" alt="Mom"></a>

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