Author LisaUk Posted July 10, 2009 Author Share Posted July 10, 2009 Let it out, Lis...and then you and me and toj and everyone else has to do something together: Start taking our steps away from it all. You are so right Lupa, I just wish I knew how to do it. I've not had a good day today, very down. I go to see the counsellor next week, so I'm hopiing this will help. Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 I have no idea how to become an established member etc? The established member just comes with time. Me and Lupa just got them. All i think it means is that you can use the PM. You should be any day now i think. If you click my username on one of my posts you can add me as a contact. Then you can see my profile and pics. Just one now but I'll put more up as I get time. Your already in my contacts. TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 You are so right Lupa, I just wish I knew how to do it. I've not had a good day today, very down. I go to see the counsellor next week, so I'm hopiing this will help. Just give yourself a break Lisa. Do something you enjoy or talk to someone about something other then this. Shoot me an E-mail if you like, I'll send you some jokes or something. [email protected] Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted July 10, 2009 Author Share Posted July 10, 2009 Thanks. I am doing other things, have been out all day today off road with my dad again, had driving lesson last night and out with a friend tomorrow, going swimming then back here for dinner. I think like PW said I can't escape it, I just have to feel it. Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 Thanks. I am doing other things, have been out all day today off road with my dad again, had driving lesson last night and out with a friend tomorrow, going swimming then back here for dinner. I think like PW said I can't escape it, I just have to feel it. That's very true, but you can't let it rule you either. (Look whos talking:rolleyes:) If you need to have a cry, go and do it and get it out of your system. I've wasted to many days feeling bad and lonely, and to accomplish what. Nothing more then making me miserable. TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted July 10, 2009 Author Share Posted July 10, 2009 Hey, it's Friday and you got off work early Tojaz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yay! Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 Actually got fired today:( Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 Because I was offer a better paying job down the street........Yay! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted July 10, 2009 Author Share Posted July 10, 2009 My heart nearly stopped! I thought, how much more does this man have to suffer! Well, that's good news!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 My heart nearly stopped! I thought, how much more does this man have to suffer! Well, that's good news!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D Awwwwww, thats awfully sweet of you to worry about little old me.:love: No it's a great opportunity and can lead to much more money if I play my cards right. Only bad part is the hours are long so i won't be able to play tag with you like this during the week . TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 Swimming and driving lessons are great ways to get him out of your system. I'm more of the , I'll have another beer, not good!!! Click my name and view my profile. Get some piccies up Lisa, ur an established member with that many posts!!! Tojaz, you are a handsome one, and I had seen Dereks pic as well, both handsome devils. It's great putting a face on those you care about. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted July 10, 2009 Author Share Posted July 10, 2009 Awwwwww, thats awfully sweet of you to worry about little old me.:love: No it's a great opportunity and can lead to much more money if I play my cards right. Only bad part is the hours are long so i won't be able to play tag with you like this during the week . TOJAZ No worries. The long hours may even be a blessing in disguise, keep your mind occupied? Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 Swimming and driving lessons are great ways to get him out of your system. I'm more of the , I'll have another beer, not good!!! Click my name and view my profile. Get some piccies up Lisa, ur an established member with that many posts!!! Tojaz, you are a handsome one, and I had seen Dereks pic as well, both handsome devils. It's great putting a face on those you care about. I think I've had my share of beer for the year, not to mention wine, whisky, mouthwash, kerosene, what else you got? What are the rules for being established, Lisa has way more posts then i do but I'm established and she isn't. Your a bit of a qutie too H&D, never would have guessed you as a grandmother. No worries. The long hours may even be a blessing in disguise, keep your mind occupied? Didn't really think about it like that, but a 12 hour day is going to be a bit much for awhile. TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted July 10, 2009 Author Share Posted July 10, 2009 Swimming and driving lessons are great ways to get him out of your system. I'm more of the , I'll have another beer, not good!!! Click my name and view my profile. Get some piccies up Lisa, ur an established member with that many posts!!! Tojaz, you are a handsome one, and I had seen Dereks pic as well, both handsome devils. It's great putting a face on those you care about. Nice to put a face to your name H&D. If I do put pics on, is it only people in my contacts that can view them? Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 Nice to put a face to your name H&D. If I do put pics on, is it only people in my contacts that can view them? Yep! Not even an option unless you both have added each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted July 10, 2009 Author Share Posted July 10, 2009 Yep! Not even an option unless you both have added each other. Thanks Tojaz, well I'm off to bed. Night all. Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 10, 2009 Share Posted July 10, 2009 Your welcome, sleep well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted July 11, 2009 Author Share Posted July 11, 2009 Well, I had a good day, it was fun seeing my friend and swimming, I think she is sick of hearing me go on about things though! Thank goodness for you guys here on LS, if it weren't for you I would have no one to talk to about this. Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 Thats OK, were here for ya. Turned into a nice day here, cleaned the house and cut the grass. Yay. Went to see my counselor too. I think even she's getting sick of hearing me whine about the ex. TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
lupa Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 The three of us should just get a place together and b*tch all the time. lol. Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 You have someplace in mind? I'm IN!! Link to post Share on other sites
lupa Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 We're all going to move to Hilton Head Island, SC. We'll get a decent place a couple of blocks off the beach, split the rent/mortgage, and become locals. Screw this place... Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 I do love southern hospitality, How are the ladies down there? Link to post Share on other sites
lupa Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 I do love southern hospitality, How are the ladies down there? Thursday night at the Big Bamboo was enough to give a guy who just had his teeth bashed in some hope. They were everywhere, it was awesome. ...I just have no game right now. lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted July 11, 2009 Author Share Posted July 11, 2009 The three of us should just get a place together and b*tch all the time. lol. Yeah that would be good. I just don't understand why everyone expects me to just get over this quickly. I mean I was with the guy for longer in my life than I have been without him in my life, since 15 years old, I've never been a single adult! (I am dreading dating, scared witless). I mean 18 years, think of a child you knew when they were born till their 18 th b'day, it's one hell of along time and they expect me to shut up about things and get over it in 4 months! I can't help how I feel. Link to post Share on other sites
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