darnay Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 15 days and I feel like i'm wading through treacle... I wanted to call him last night but I didn't. I just sat and cried a little instead.
sedgwick Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Two months -- before that I had gone 10 months. Of course, by "contact" I mean I sent him a text message which he ignored.
Intergalactic Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 saw him last night, spent 7 hours with him, so back to less than a day. no more though, that was our goodbye. it was good, don't regret it. not going to contact him til i feel ready, and i've asked him not to contact me. it's very hard.
ahhhchooo Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Today is the first day I've managed to reach double digits on NC... 10 days. I remember turning 10. The years flew by after that
BleuStar Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Today is my 9th day. It's been rough at times, but I've done it.
sugahoney Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Talked to him today at work. Back to the beginning. About 3hrs now:(
tealeafbud Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 48 days but i'm DYYYYYIIIINNNGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG to contact her...........ok.... stick to your guns Me. remember your inner peace....... oooooooooooohhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm oooooooooooohhhhhhhhmmmmmmm oooooooohhhhhmmmmmm
watermeloncandy Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 as of 5pm today i officially started NO CONTACT this is gonna be a cinch. he's now made it easy for me.
BackonTrack Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 180+ days its been so long i have stop counting.
Intergalactic Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 2 days! i can't believe how well i'm doing. i've kept away from msn, facebook, the chatroom we both go to, not txtd, not called. he hasn't tried contacting me and i'm so grateful. i know it's not because he doesn't want to, but i asked him not to and he's finally respecting that i can't be his friend right now. i don't even feel that sad anymore! sometimes when i think too much, or think of what we might have been doing on the weekend if we were still together, or think of him having a social life, but other than that, nothing. maybe because after 2 months of it being "over" i finally feel like it IS over. feelin' good.
watermeloncandy Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 mailed my goodbye letter today so that's it. now NC officially starts...
Ingenue Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 76 days for me. I don't know if anybody else feels this way, but it almost now seems like a matter of pride to rack up the days. Silly
SarahRose Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Broke up with him around 9pm Wednesday so a little less than 48 hours for me.
scrumpyfil Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 3 months and 6 days....still feels like theres a huge hole in my life that can't be filled
Intergalactic Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 3 days. felt a bit emotional today, kept having flashbacks of memories but forced myself to think of other things. miss him, but getting used to that feeling.
tealeafbud Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 51 days. ARE YOU KIDDING ME???????????? I totally missed the 50th day. Oh well. Guess I'll catch 100 when it comes around.
RogueAC Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Five days. I won't break contact the next time you call me. It hurts way too much after.
EmperorR Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 1 and its so hard, but then i have to tell myself she doesnt care, if she cared she would call me or txt me
Intergalactic Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 4 days. moving day is in 2 days, getting nervous. there will be NO accidental run-ins when i live across the ocean.
nickelinadime Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 I don't know how I can see the screen through my tears.. We just said our final goodbyes. It's for real this time, I promise. 1 minute.
EmperorR Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 day 2 so hard but then if they cared they would contact me
nickelinadime Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 Day 1, almost done. Feeling better.
Intergalactic Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 day 5, feeling a bit blue. did send a facebook email yesterday, but only with the name of a song in it. that was our agreement - when either of us thought we had a good song to share, we could email the name and artist to the other. but nothing else can be said.
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