2sunny Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 If you get rid of the MM - then the W will NO LONGER get on your nerves! Simple logic honey!
herenow Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 2sunny, that would be 2easy. This OW wants the MM and she doesn't want to hear that she is doing anything wrong. She just wants it her way and everyone else should support her or shut up.
2sunny Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 2sunny, that would be 2easy. This OW wants the MM and she doesn't want to hear that she is doing anything wrong. She just wants it her way and everyone else should support her or shut up. oooooh I know... her attitude sounds vaguely familiar... I just wanted to point out an obvious solution to see what her response would be...
yousaveme Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Until he leaves and even then your going to hear stuff about her. Especially if children are involved. Learn to deal with it. Or move on.
herenow Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 oooooh I know... her attitude sounds vaguely familiar... I just wanted to point out an obvious solution to see what her response would be... And it was a good one!
Trialbyfire Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Here's an idea. Why don't you draw the line in the sand right now with the MM and say, leave now or I'm gone? No matter which way it goes, you will be rid of the wife...
herenow Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Here's an idea. Why don't you draw the line in the sand right now with the MM and say, leave now or I'm gone? No matter which way it goes, you will be rid of the wife... Probably because she knows who he will choose and then there will be no amount of swimming that will prevent her sinking.
shellys-trying Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 So I should just over look her comments. About me. Someone she really doesnt even know First of all, you don't know her but you're have sex with her H. I'd suck it up like another poster says. You might open your mouth one time and find out MM doesn't want to hear your insults about his wife. I guess you'll be up the creek without a MM. If you want to get your man in 2 yrs ( ) you better watch your p's and q's.
pelagicsands Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Probably because she knows who he will choose and then there will be no amount of swimming that will prevent her sinking. Now the truth comes out. You really care about her. How sweet.
Trialbyfire Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Probably because she knows who he will choose and then there will be no amount of swimming that will prevent her sinking. Well, either way, it gets rid of the wife, doesn't it.
Izzar Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Here's an idea. Why don't you draw the line in the sand right now with the MM and say, leave now or I'm gone? No matter which way it goes, you will be rid of the wife... Trial, That would be a vague line drawn ya know. He'd give her another vague answer, vague lie, excuse etc... Enough to keep her around a little longer.
herenow Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Well, either way, it gets rid of the wife, doesn't it. Sure does, but she doesn't have the guts to do it. This MM has her hook, line and sinker. She still doesn't realize that it's him who's upsetting her and telling her what his wife supposedly said. How sick is that? The MM tells the OW things that he knows will upset her and sits back and enjoys the fact that he has two women willing to take crap from him. And this OP blames the wife.
shellys-trying Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 I've made several comments on this thread and I'm still confused. Why does this woman think she has the right to be mad because her MM's W is saying bad stuff about her? Call me crazy but if she's gonna swap bodily fluids with the W's H, then she might wanna deal with the insults. She should feel blessed the W hasn't made her eat a few of her own teeth. But, ya know, I'm jus' sayin'.
Trialbyfire Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Trial, That would be a vague line drawn ya know. He'd give her another vague answer, vague lie, excuse etc... Enough to keep her around a little longer. Then, she needs to corner him to the point that he has no recourse but to take the plunge. No decision or action, no relationship. I mean honestly, who in their right mind wants a MM who sets a two year d-day deadline? How naive can you get?
herenow Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Now the truth comes out. You really care about her. How sweet. Yes the truth comes out. Do you disagree?
Trialbyfire Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Sure does, but she doesn't have the guts to do it. This MM has her hook, line and sinker. She still doesn't realize that it's him who's upsetting her and telling her what his wife supposedly said. How sick is that? The MM tells the OW things that he knows will upset her and sits back and enjoys the fact that he has two women willing to take crap from him. And this OP blames the wife. A perfect setup for the MM. No wonder he continues to do this. Technically, he lives a swingers life and the two women are there to serve his needs.
shellys-trying Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Sure does, but she doesn't have the guts to do it. This MM has her hook, line and sinker. She still doesn't realize that it's him who's upsetting her and telling her what his wife supposedly said. How sick is that? The MM tells the OW things that he knows will upset her and sits back and enjoys the fact that he has two women willing to take crap from him. And this OP blames the wife. We don't even know for sure if this MM's W even really knows her H is cheating with someone. OW is getting this from MM. This guy's W may not even have a clue he's cheating. He could be doing what herenow said above, tells the OW things that he knows will upset her and sits back and enjoys the show. Of course, MMs don't lie to their OWs now do they? Unless this OW says she's personally heard the W say some things about her, I wouldn't believe it.
Izzar Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Then, she needs to corner him to the point that he has no recourse but to take the plunge. No decision or action, no relationship. I mean honestly, who in their right mind wants a MM who sets a two year d-day deadline? How naive can you get? Again he'll say 'BUT I CAN'T LEAVE BECAUSE OF MY CHILD/CHILDREN"
Trialbyfire Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Again he'll say 'BUT I CAN'T LEAVE BECAUSE OF MY CHILD/CHILDREN" No action, no relationship. Take a stance so she's not trying to hit a moving target. Some of these MM are so adept at lying. You have to pin them down.
Izzar Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 I need to go back & read through all the threads. How long have OD & his ow been togehter? The longer this goes on (him staying supposedly for the kids) the lazier he'll get. He'll stay forever. Who knows? It's just a shame all the way around.
Izzar Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 And another thing, If/when he leaves his wife, she's still in the picture. Forever in the picture. What will OD's ow do then???
Izzar Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 I think I'm having a senior moment here. Wrong thread I think.
herenow Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 And another thing, If/when he leaves his wife, she's still in the picture. Forever in the picture. What will OD's ow do then??? I just went back and read the first post and she said he's "playing" the move in two years. I read it wrong the first time and thought he was planning, but if he's just playing well then, maybe his wife is just playing with ya too. You're playing a game, so can't everyone play? Or are you going to take your ball and go home.
Izzar Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Oh, don't put me in this whole mess with the h, w & ow. I was just commenting here. And my comments were meant for OD's thread not sinkorswim's.
herenow Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Oh, don't put me in this whole mess with the h, w & ow. I was just commenting here. And my comments were meant for OD's thread not sinkorswim's. Sorry, I didn't mean to quote you. That should have been a stand alone post.
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