Second Chances

18,515 topics in this forum

1. Did I end a relationship too quickly, or did we simply have incompatible expectations about communication?

   By Chilla, September 20
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   • Alpacalia
   • September 24

2. 11 month relationship ended - she lost romantic feelings / depression / overwhelm

   By lgoando, July 2
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   • Sanch62
   • July 4

3. Broke up with boyfriend of 9 years 2 days ago-No Contact is really hard

   By Lauriebell82, June 24
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   • Lauriebell82
   • June 28

4. How to move on from someone when the love and connection will likely never fade?

   By Anonymous, June 11
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   • Anonymous
   • June 14

5. My ex broke contact and now I’ve fallen in love again

   By Yannis, June 1
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   • ExpatInItaly
   • June 1

6. My ex broke contact and I’ve fallen back in love

   By Yannis, June 1
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   • Yannis
   • June 1

7. Me ‘M/47’ and Her ‘F/40’ TLDR Reconnected with my ex after a decade during her divorce. Things went from high-energy to total silence after a vulnerable letter. Need perspective from women/moms.

   By Im_So_Randomly_Awesome, May 17
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   • flitzanu
   • May 19

8. Semi-breakup after 6 years together, moved out because of disagreement about second child. I feel stuck between reconciliation and separation.

   By Kaito1279, February 19
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   • Gebidozo
   • February 25

9. Difficult relationship with my girlfriend because of a bad mistake

   By ExchangeStudent05, February 13
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   • Lotsgoingon
   • February 16

10. Ex-gf there in moment of need

    By Grant25, December 28, 2025
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    • Sanch62
    • December 28, 2025

11. An ex who I've reconnected with for 6 months might be stalking the local coffee shop manager. What do I do?

    By gwen7sons, December 16, 2025
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    • Sanch62
    • December 25, 2025

12. I still love her, but I feel resentment and have kind of toxic thoughts...

    By Anonymous, October 18, 2025
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    • Anonymous
    • October 18, 2025

13. I want my wife back

    By arandomguy123, September 2, 2025
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    • MsJayne
    • September 5, 2025

14. Ex wants to get back with me after loving someone else.

    By freddiefree, August 22, 2025
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    • freddiefree
    • August 22, 2025

15. Saw Old Fling, How to Proceed

    By Cricket4, July 29, 2025
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    • Cricket4
    • August 5, 2025

16. Reconnected with an ex after 13 years… now I’m questioning everything

    By Sunrise1234, July 13, 2025
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    • flitzanu
    • July 14, 2025

17. Should give this a chance, I see love as ups and downs thick and thin.

    By Danny D, April 29, 2025
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    • MsJayne
    • May 9, 2025

18. A sad, recent break-up

    By please123, November 16, 2024
    • 17 replies
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    • flitzanu
    • March 17, 2025

19. She thinks I ghosted her! 1 2

    By seth1337, February 19, 2025
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    • ExpatInItaly
    • February 24, 2025

20. Ex left me, wants to come back, I already have someone new

    By ONECHIEFROCKA, February 19, 2025
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    • basil67
    • February 20, 2025

21. The person I fell in love with might be going to jail

    By Fixhikso, February 20, 2025
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    • NuevoYorko
    • February 20, 2025

22. Fiancee is talking to her ex

    By Zimm, February 7, 2025
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    • ExpatInItaly
    • February 10, 2025

23. do we have a second chance to reconnect in the future? or should I move on?

    By Matthew1331, January 24, 2025
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    • NuevoYorko
    • January 26, 2025

24. She thought about it after break up, decided to stick with it, but seeing each other tomorrow last time 1 2

    By Dash23, October 15, 2024
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    • flitzanu
    • January 21, 2025

25. Is this discourse effective for my avoidant ex partner?

    By biscuitsss, December 27, 2024
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    • ExpatInItaly
    • December 28, 2024