lovestruck234 Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Why do taken men look at porn?? Why do big girls keep shovelling McDonalds down their throats?? Cos it's nice. Link to post Share on other sites
DarkShadows Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Why do taken men look at porn?? Why do big girls keep shovelling McDonalds down their throats?? Cos it's nice. Why do big guys keep shoveling McDonalds down their throats? Why do people always pick on big girls? Is it wrong for a girl to be big but a guy can be the size of a house and nobody gives a flying .... Damn Glamour magazine, again putting bs in peoples heads. Models are NOT real women. P.s. Not picking on you. I just found that statement to be so... nowadays. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 the chicks in the porn... so you only watch lesbian or porn with just women then? no men in them? Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 As I understand it (and for me personally) people who watch porn aren't looking to find porn stars to get a crush on. They watch it to observe acts that they'd either like to participate in with their partners or that are hot to watch. The mistake so many women seem to make is that they think the men are looking for better-looking women to make them horny. That's not the case. It's what the women are doing that's interesting to the watchers. Right. Men get horny when they see a vagina or naked boobs. Just like you might get hungry when you see someone eating a juicy slice of pie. It doesn't mean, you want THEIR piece of pie. You just want another one or something else but delicious. So you buy YOUR piece of pie and hopefully enjoy it if it's tasty. I would worry if my partner actually desired to have sex with an actual woman that has crossed his life without ever seeing her naked. My ex-husband would get off on porn magazines occasionally, but only after he would try it with me and I would say No, e.g. because I was pregnant. I was glad he could take care of himself and never thought of the women on the pictures as my competitors. I've never even asked him to see which woman was his type or exciting him. I simply assumed it's the naked bodies doing the nasty that got him going. If your partner chooses porn and masturbation INSTEAD of sex with you and does it quite often, I would assume that there are problems in the relationship or at least in the sex (sexual attractiveness) department and treat the porn viewing as a consequence of it rather than a cause. Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck234 Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 Why do big guys keep shoveling McDonalds down their throats? Why do people always pick on big girls? Is it wrong for a girl to be big but a guy can be the size of a house and nobody gives a flying .... Damn Glamour magazine, again putting bs in peoples heads. Models are NOT real women. P.s. Not picking on you. I just found that statement to be so... nowadays. It's cool. Sorry. Probably should have thought before I typed... Link to post Share on other sites
megnog Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 i know everyone is probably trying to put this thread behind them because its so overused... but let me just say one last thing.. for guys your dick is small and your out of shape..your a bit insecure about it. you find your SO's porn collection and its allllllll about big dicks and hot men and gorgeous rock hard bodies. and then you find out she masturbates to them everyday. so.. every guy out there is saying they wouldn't get a bit jealous? they wouldn't care at ALL? they would just assume is the actions they are doing? its not at all about their gorgeous bodies and your lack thereof. no no, shes not imagining those hunky guys f*king her, shes imagining you.. the entire time.. yeah right. so its not bad. i'd rather not think about my guy jerking off to other women, but i'm not going to start anything about it. i just want guys to have an insight because its not equal. at all. its really not. and i think guys don't realize how bad it can be and how nowadays its made out to be that every woman should have barbie sized proportions. and while men can say they don't care if shes big or small, the porn they look at reflects otherwise. alright thats it. thank you for your time Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck234 Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 your dick is small and your out of shape..your a bit insecure about it. you find your SO's porn collection and its allllllll about big dicks and hot men and gorgeous rock hard bodies. and then you find out she masturbates to them everyday. so.. every guy out there is saying they wouldn't get a bit jealous? they wouldn't care at ALL? they would just assume is the actions they are doing? its not at all about their gorgeous bodies and your lack thereof. no no, shes not imagining those hunky guys f*king her, shes imagining you.. the entire time.. yeah right. Hmmm...the porn thing has never really been an issue to me and still won't be but meg has made a pretty darn good point I believe... People often look at ti from a guy watching porn perspective, but never really thought about it if the shoe was on the other foot...?? Ay? Ay?? Maybe it's worth thinking about fellas... Link to post Share on other sites
Liebenberg Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 no fence; But me as a guy would rather look at porn, then to get a prostitute .. <-- never Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 no fence; But me as a guy would rather look at porn, then to get a prostitute .. <-- never Would it change things if there was a fence? Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 your dick is small and your out of shape..your a bit insecure about it. you find your SO's porn collection and its allllllll about big dicks and hot men and gorgeous rock hard bodies. and then you find out she masturbates to them everyday. so.. every guy out there is saying they wouldn't get a bit jealous? they wouldn't care at ALL? they would just assume is the actions they are doing? its not at all about their gorgeous bodies and your lack thereof. no no, shes not imagining those hunky guys f*king her, shes imagining you.. the entire time.. yeah right. I love how you put it. I wonder how many guys would be actually feel unconfortable/hurt in such a situation, but I suspect that the number is smaller than I'd like to think. Link to post Share on other sites
Liebenberg Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 Would it change things if there was a fence? probeply yes... I guess the "porn" thing is like when someone is smoking a cigerrete... it stimulates the body "by some ODD occastions" actually wierd Link to post Share on other sites
ceecee Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 Just because he's looking at porn doesnt mean he doesnt love you or love being with you. Its just fantasy, but when youre having sex, its with YOU! I happen to love porn and think it can spice up sex a lot. Looking at beautiful women is okay, he is with you and wants to be! Link to post Share on other sites
stoopid_guy Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 your dick is small and your out of shape..your a bit insecure about it. you find your SO's porn collection and its allllllll about big dicks and hot men and gorgeous rock hard bodies. and then you find out she masturbates to them everyday. so.. every guy out there is saying they wouldn't get a bit jealous? they wouldn't care at ALL? they would just assume is the actions they are doing? its not at all about their gorgeous bodies and your lack thereof. no no, shes not imagining those hunky guys f*king her, shes imagining you.. the entire time.. yeah right. You're assuming men put pride before sex. WE WOULDN'T CARE (as long as we were getting some once in a while.) Link to post Share on other sites
DarkShadows Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 Just because he's looking at porn doesnt mean he doesnt love you or love being with you. Its just fantasy, but when youre having sex, its with YOU! I happen to love porn and think it can spice up sex a lot. Looking at beautiful women is okay, he is with you and wants to be! He might want to be with her but... He also wants to be with the girl in the porn, the girl on tv, the girl in the grocery store.. the girls walking around in mini skirts.. the girls he works with... Right - o.. Link to post Share on other sites
littlepiggy1 Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 your dick is small and your out of shape..your a bit insecure about it. you find your SO's porn collection and its allllllll about big dicks and hot men and gorgeous rock hard bodies. and then you find out she masturbates to them everyday. so.. every guy out there is saying they wouldn't get a bit jealous? they wouldn't care at ALL? they would just assume is the actions they are doing? its not at all about their gorgeous bodies and your lack thereof. no no, shes not imagining those hunky guys f*king her, shes imagining you.. the entire time.. yeah right. I wouldn't care. But then again, my dick isn't small, I'm not out of shape, and I'm not insecure about that. So I really don't qualify for this little experiment. But I can tell you that there was a time when I was insecure. I was always a scrawny kid growing up. Not just skinny, but downright scrawny. I always wanted the stereotypical muscular physique. And I worked out a whole lot trying to get it. But eventually I realized that I simply am who I am. I can never be the big, muscular strong guy. It's just not in my genes. And there are always going to be more attractive people out there. No matter who I am with, chances are she's going to find some of them attractive (my ex used to be big on a few celebrities she liked). In the end, I became more comfortable with myself and who I am and now I just don't care if my g/f wanks to porn. I recognize that it is just fantasy and that just because someone is with someone else, doesn't mean they stop finding others attractive. And IMHO, it's a much better state of mind to have then to be insecure. That's why I keep stressing working on insecurities. Being insecure sucks. I should also note that I did initially cave to my ex's demands that stemmed from her insecurities. But nothing I did made her less insecure. In fact, she seemed to get more and more insecure as our relationship progressed. It was not fun and therefore, I also sympathize with guys with insecure girlfriends. Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 Why do girls constantly question guys looking at porn? Guys will masturbate regardless of how many times you f*ck them. Most like to do it to porn. If you cant accept it then become a lesbian or a nun, it is really that simple. You dont see guys making topics asking why women like to shop. We just accept it. Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 Why do girls constantly question guys looking at porn? Guys will masturbate regardless of how many times you f*ck them. Most like to do it to porn. If you cant accept it then become a lesbian or a nun, it is really that simple. You dont see guys making topics asking why women like to shop. We just accept it. Nope sorry I do not have to accept something I do not find aceptable by becoming a lesbian or a nun. However I will make sure I am with someone who respects me enough understand my feelings on this issue. Just so you know I am a women and I HATE shopping. I can think of 1000 things I would rather do then stand in long lines in hot stores buying stuff I really don't need. Link to post Share on other sites
lily80 Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 I never cease to be astonished at women who have a problem with porn. I am greatly opposed to a pornography industry that exploits women and portrays women simply as objects *****d in every way possible at the same time. But watching of porn itself is about fantasy...it's just one of the elements and expressions of human sexuality. Of course seeing other people naked and having sex is a turn on...but it's FANTASY and it can be fun! I simply cannot fathom how so many women can be so insecure about it. Link to post Share on other sites
megnog Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 hmm.. hasn't anyone ever heard of you take what you can get? to some guys, these girls in porn are unreachable to them except, of course, in a porn. yeah its "just a fantasy" but what if these guys really WANT these girls? theyre girlfriend is so-so because THE MALE is so-so and he can't get any better. blah. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 I can tell you honestly at least for me, the porn has no comparison to my G/F and I would never want to cross that line. Besides, when I view porn my girl is always part of the fantasty. Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 I can tell you honestly at least for me, the porn has no comparison to my G/F and I would never want to cross that line. Besides, when I view porn my girl is always part of the fantasty. Now if only more guys thought like you. Link to post Share on other sites
megnog Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 if only i've got a terrible body and theres no way in hell my bf would imagine me in the fantasy. unless it was like my face on a hot body (funny but sadly true) Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 Besides, when I view porn my girl is always part of the fantasty. Yes, in your fantasy your girl is fully-clothed and stuffed in the closet while you go at it with three hot porn queens Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 Ha ha, but I **it you not. I love porn, and think it's great. But my S/O is always a part of the fantasy. As for Megnog, if you are that uncomfortable about your body, then you can change that. It takes work, but believe me in the end you will be saying "What the hell was I waiting for?". It's not that hard to get comfortable with yourself, but it may take some sacrifice at first. I recommend drinking lot's of caffeine, finding foods that have relatively low fat and cholesterol, and exercise if you can. Personally, I exercise a little but due to my intake I control my weight simply by eating the right food. Contradictory to what you might think, the right food can be just as good or better than not so right food. Regards, Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 Ha ha, but I **it you not. I love porn, and think it's great. But my S/O is always a part of the fantasy. I didn't think this was so uncommon?! Link to post Share on other sites
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