Sphere Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 I love the chase, but I don't chase too hard. I think it's so sexy when a woman keeps an air of mystery about her in the same way I do, I just want find out more.
jamesum Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 It may also explain why women tend to get much more aggressive when they hit their 30s. . . . It a simple supply vs demand thing really. The same men who complain about women being passive are gonna be passive themselves if attractive women flock to them all the time. Last night, I was at the store and a cute guy looked straight at me, smiled big and followed me around a bit. He stared at me the whole time. Isnt that creepy? LOL Even if a girl follows me around in a store, Im gonna get weirded out. I stopped, smiled back at him several times, and gave him an opening by mentioning the store had been moved around....but no bite....so I walked away....hmmm Do I have to hit a guy over the head? I felt like I was being fairly obvious about my interest. Many people do not have the best social skills. Men especially arent as chatty as women so they can be clueless about what to say or talk about. Or often a guy can be too horny/too attracted that he gets too nervous to talk.
homersheineken Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Instead of giving signals/hints green light etc etc to guys to approach you maybe you should have made a move on that guy if you liked him. Women often think they are being obvious when infact they are very subtle. If you was being obvious then you would have made your intrest clear, which you didn't. She did approach him and talk to him. What more of a green light does he need? She did the hard part for him.
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