Star Gazer Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Interesting I thought you were turning into the horniest woman alive not the pickiest woman alive. I could tell he worked out. I still have standards! I dunno, I just really like active guys...
Green Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I still have standards! I dunno, I just really like active guys... what ever I know I could get you if that was my goal in life.
Mad Max Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 A VERY small percentage of football players have that "six pack" look... The only ones that do are the wide receivers, cornerbacks, and safeties. If you've ever seen Terrell Owens, he looks like a sculpture. Damn freakish. I have the swimmers body. Muscular upper body, wide shoulders, and tiny waist. I'm 6'1" 165, so I'm never going to be big.
Star Gazer Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 what ever I know I could get you if that was my goal in life. Doubtful, Kermie.
USMCHokie Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 The only ones that do are the wide receivers, cornerbacks, and safeties. If you've ever seen Terrell Owens, he looks like a sculpture. Damn freakish. Another freak is Vernon Davis...tight end for the 49ers...simply insane...
USMCHokie Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 what ever I know I could get you if that was my goal in life. Sorry, Green...but no.
Mad Max Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Another freak is Vernon Davis...tight end for the 49ers...simply insane... Must be a 49ers thing. IMO, blacks have better bodybuilding genetics.
Green Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Sorry, Green...but no. There was a time where I too used to put up shirtless pics of myself... in fact I went so far as to post a few shirtless videos on here a while back. She was always very complimentary when ever she saw any of my pictures. Always...
Star Gazer Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Sorry, Green...but no. Territorial! I think I like it! :love:
Star Gazer Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 There was a time where I too used to put up shirtless pics of myself... in fact I went so far as to post a few shirtless videos on here a while back. She was always very complimentary when ever she saw any of my pictures. Always... Huh??? Not even!!!
Philetus Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 +1,000,000. Those who work out for themselves and not for other people are the ones who end up being successful with fitness in the long run. Bingo. It's the same with all aspects of self improvement. Do it for yourself and let the opposite sex come to you. Here has been my experience.... I'm 44 and dated mostly 35-45 year old women. I'm fairly ripped with good muscle definition and a clear 4-pack (the bottom two are obscured by some belly fat). I found that most women could not keep their hands off me. It seemed to me to be something outside what they were used to (dating a man wish a muscular body) and they loved the novelty of it. This isn't to say these women wouldn't have dated fat (or fatter) guys but having been skinny, fat, and now muscular, this is definitely the way to go.
USMCHokie Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Territorial! I think I like it! :love: Heheh... :love: But there's something about that word territorial...just sounds like it has such a negative connotation...
jamesum Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Labster, I care about you man and honestly you need help.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 There was a time where I too used to put up shirtless pics of myself... in fact I went so far as to post a few shirtless videos on here a while back. She was always very complimentary when ever she saw any of my pictures. Always... Ahahaha Green, I remember this....
Star Gazer Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Ahahaha Green, I remember this.... ??? Please, remind me, because I have no recollection of such thing. Really.
SteveC80 Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Women will say the face is more important and body is not but its a lie,women appreciate and gawk over hot bodies and are more creepy about it then Men are with women The only ones who donwplay do it because they are insecure about theyre own bodies and being with a guy with a great body would make them feel insecure about their own physique or they dont think they are attractive enough to land a hunk so they try to downplay how attractive a hot body and a 6 pack is when deep down they desire it Believe me when i was young and immoral i had affairs with numerous married women goign out with average built guys,women will cheat with a hot body they desire it more then you will ever know So start working out or fidn your wife/girlfriend with the pool boy
CLC2008 Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 A little belly fat is fine and perfectly normal. The ex was 6 foot 4 inches (around that, it's getting hard to remember ) and his stomach area never bothered me at all. He was a hairy guy though .
SteveC80 Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Now that i think about it Men have to work much harder then women to get to the upper echeleon When i had a six pack [got about a 4 and a half now] i went out with some hot women but some of em hardly ever worked out they had skinny physiques and hot face but werent work out fiends like i was Its not fair as long as you have the face you broads have it easy:laugh:
Gattica Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I care more about the hair and the face as far as looks go. The last guy I was seeing had small moobs and a bit of a gut....but I didn't care. I was turned on my his face and hair. I will admit, his small hands and feet kind of weirded me out!
Gattica Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Women will say the face is more important and body is not but its a lie,women appreciate and gawk over hot bodies and are more creepy about it then Men are with women Not true. I am going to see the man's face more often than his body. A good looking face trumps a hot body, IMO.
zengirl Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 (edited) Does the guy have to have a six pack in order for you to date him? Is a little bit of belly fat okay or what. Basically, in your book, how fat is TOO FAT? Actually, I don't think I've ever seriously dated a fellow with a 6 pack. Aesthetically, I don't have a problem with it (though I don't see the massive appeal), but that guy has to spend a lot of time in the gym, and since I like fellows with different interests, this isn't generally my type. I did date a fellow in AMAZING shape who was a yoga instructor (part time at the time; also an engineer; weird combination of skills, I suppose, but he quit the engineering gig to open his own yoga studio and seems really happy now). But he didn't have a 6 pack really. He was toned and strong though. I have dated a fellow with a teensy bit of flab in the tummy, I guess. Not a full blown beer gut or anything. Mostly I date fellows who are thin/average/mildly athletic but not uber serious about it. I know a lot of girls who care about fitness in a fellow. I'd guess that generally, if you want to date a girl who works out a lot. . . she will care about your athleticism as well. I am pretty fit, but I hate gyms. (I do yoga. I climb mountains. I bike. I play intramural sports. I do pilates. I kickbox. I walk up and down extra stairs. I eat healthy. But I try to stay away from gyms or exercise equipment.) But I am a weird exception here. There aren't that many fit gals who don't need an EVEN MORE fit fellow from what I see. Meaning if you want a girl who works out at all, she probably expects to work out more. So, it probably depends on what kind of girl you want to date. I care about some kinds of physical fitness -- good diet, healthy lifestyle, high energy, enough strength to live freely, etc -- but because of my view of gyms/weight lifting/etc, I don't care much about abs. In fact, if a fellow regularly spends an hour plus in a gym every single day, we probably aren't compatible. Part of "too fat" for me would be diet/energy level. Part of it would be aesthetic. Aesthetically. . . I don't know -- probably around where it seems to actually be a bulge and noticeably stick out from his body. None of the guys I've dated have ever been REALLY out of shape, but only the yoga instructor was REALLY in shape. Somewhere middling. They understand that their body is something to be cared for/treated well without being vain or obsessive about it. Edited August 31, 2010 by zengirl
SteveC80 Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 I care more about the hair and the face as far as looks go. The last guy I was seeing had small moobs and a bit of a gut....but I didn't care. I was turned on my his face and hair. I will admit, his small hands and feet kind of weirded me out! Youre the excpetion not the norm judging by reactions i got Ever see clips of how women act in Male Strip clubs? not pretty
Green Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 Heheh... :love: But there's something about that word territorial...just sounds like it has such a negative connotation... Women like men who are protective of them. And yes territorial. good luck Ahahaha Green, I remember this.... hahah is right I must have been out of my mind. ??? Please, remind me, because I have no recollection of such thing. Really. All you need to be reminded of is you saw and there were no complaints as you unfairly put on somedude81 who imo does look like he works out. you liked what you saw
SteveC80 Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 Somedude isnt a physical speicmen but hes not in bad shape at all Thast my point as long as a women is somewhat skinny evne if shes not in great shape and doesnt workout allot she thinks she desrves a ripped dude
meerkat stew Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 work out and get to a strong 210 you'll like it. and every one has a six pack hiding under their fat. This is not the case, wrestled all the way through high school, and you see lots of guys with extremely low body fat percentages in wrestling who merely have "flat" stomachs, or a "two pack" despite immense amounts of core work (wrestling is mostly core and leg work). Lots of men can not ever develop a six pack.
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