Taramere Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Why would I feel sympathy for a woman that just wanted to be snotty and nasty to men like her friends? I don't lack empathy for all women but I do think most women lack empathy for men in general. Exactly. Nobody would expect you to feel sympathy for a woman who only wanted an opportunity to behave in a snotty and nasty manner. Which is exactly why you choose to perceive her behaviour like that. It's not just you who does that. People do it all the time. It's the blaming the victim thing. "They're a bad person, so they deserve to be ignored/treated badly/laughed at." It's a lot easier to go through life like that than it is to feel compassion for other people, but it's not particularly honest. It would be more honest to simply laugh at people who are rejected and depressed, and confess that you're doing it out of schadenfreude.
Author Woggle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 I have a feeling you have been rejected a lot and thats why you are so hostile...just a thought.. The only time I really got a nasty reaction from a woman was when I wasn't even looking at her. I sarcasticly apologized for breathing the same air as her and moved on.
Author Woggle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 Exactly. Nobody would expect you to feel sympathy for a woman who only wanted an opportunity to behave in a snotty and nasty manner. Which is exactly why you choose to perceive her behaviour like that. It's not just you who does that. People do it all the time. It's the blaming the victim thing. "They're a bad person, so they deserve to be ignored/treated badly/laughed at." It's a lot easier to go through life like that than it is to feel compassion for other people, but it's not particularly honest. It would be more honest to simply laugh at people who are rejected and depressed, and confess that you're doing it out of schadenfreude. I feel compassion for people that deserve it. I don't feel sympathy for a woman who did not get her ego stroked and learned that maybe she wasn't the hotty she thought she was. If as person treats people like garbage she does not deserve sympathy when some of that karma comes blowing back in her face.
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 The only time I really got a nasty reaction from a woman was when I wasn't even looking at her. I sarcasticly apologized for breathing the same air as her and moved on. I'm far from a snob but if I don't want to talk to a guy at a club , than I won't. some of them don't get the word "no".
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 I feel compassion for people that deserve it. I don't feel sympathy for a woman who did not get her ego stroked and learned that maybe she wasn't the hotty she thought she was. If as person treats people like garbage she does not deserve sympathy when some of that karma comes blowing back in her face. why are you so bothered by someone you dont even know? is it because you know she might have given you the time of day?
Taramere Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 I feel compassion for people that deserve it. I don't feel sympathy for a woman who did not get her ego stroked and learned that maybe she wasn't the hotty she thought she was. If as person treats people like garbage she does not deserve sympathy when some of that karma comes blowing back in her face. But from what you've said, she wasn't treating anybody like garbage. She was just standing there looking depressed. Do you know this woman? Had you seen her around before, being rude and hostile to men who were speaking to her? If not, you're just making assumptions that support you in going down a misogynistic "it's her fault - she's a bitch" path of thinking. If you're still going to counselling, ask your counsellor for his take on it.
jamesum Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 I don't dress up only for attention and do in fact wear cute things around the house, alone, sometimes. I buy cute pajamas too, and they never leave the house. And I wear them sleeping alone. So? I like cute stuff. There are certain things I do to look good to others (Honestly, mostly other women, rather than men), but there are also things I do for myself. Many women are the same way. Actually, I know men who have fun with fashion too and actually dress for themselves. It really depends. Also, you can dress for other women or for a general feeling of "Wow, I look good" rather than to have men throw themselves all over you. That happens a lot. I rarely dress for male attention, unless I'm going on a date. I myself like to wear certain Calvin Klein underwear and white t-shirts that are very comfortable and make me looking clean and fresh. I even wear them while by myself at home. But I dont wear them when I go out with my friends. Im sure you dont wear your cute pajamas when you go out either because you wanna look better than that to others. I agree that women often dress up for other women just like men buying nice cars to show off to other men. But lets not kid ourselves that most of the times we all dress up in order to present a special perception of ourselves to people around us.
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 I myself like to wear certain Calvin Klein underwear and white t-shirts that are very comfortable and make me looking clean and fresh. I even wear them while by myself at home. But I dont wear them when I go out with my friends. Im sure you dont wear your cute pajamas when you go out either because you wanna look better than that to others. I agree that women often dress up for other women just like men buying nice cars to show off to other men. But lets not kid ourselves that most of the times we all dress up in order to present a special perception of ourselves to people around us. So what? why does that bother you?
Author Woggle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 But from what you've said, she wasn't treating anybody like garbage. She was just standing there looking depressed. Do you know this woman? Had you seen her around before, being rude and hostile to men who were speaking to her? If not, you're just making assumptions that support you in going down a misogynistic "it's her fault - she's a bitch" path of thinking. If you're still going to counselling, ask your counsellor for his take on it. Anybody who was there could tell plus I overheard comments from her on being ignored plus she was high fiving her friends and saying you go girl every time they shot a guy down. It was glaringly obvious.
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Anybody who was there could tell plus I overheard comments from her on being ignored plus she was high fiving her friends and saying you go girl every time they shot a guy down. It was glaringly obvious. so what if she was? I don't see the big deal. than the guys that were bothered by that, won't approach them, thats all. I have had many times I had to be rude, to make a guy "go away".
Author Woggle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 so what if she was? I don't see the big deal. than the guys that were bothered by that, won't approach them, thats all. I have had many times I had to be rude, to make a guy "go away". Then why should I have sympathy for her if men left her alone? If that is what she wanted why was her ego so bruised by it not happening?
Taramere Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Anybody who was there could tell plus I overheard comments from her on being ignored plus she was high fiving her friends and saying you go girl every time they shot a guy down. It was glaringly obvious. You forgot to mention about how she was grabbing men by the shirt and yelling "why aren't you talking to me? ME? So that I can feel pretty as I rebuff you??" Before collapsing on a heap on the floor and yelling "Daddy says I'm pretty!" Or are you keeping that for the next revelation in this "what Katy did next" serialisation? Kudos, though. Your bullsh*t is entertaining, and this board has been severely short of entertainment lately.
Author Woggle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 You forgot to mention about how she was grabbing men by the shirt and yelling "why aren't you talking to me? ME? So that I can feel pretty as I rebuff you??" Before collapsing on a heap on the floor and yelling "Daddy says I'm pretty." Or are you keeping that for the next revelation in this "what Katy did next" serialisation. Kudos, though. Your bullsh*t is entertaining, and this board has been severely short of entertainment lately. She wasn't blatant about it but it is obvious. Maybe I should have taken a video so people would understand how it happened.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Is this thread still going? lol... Ok ill say the blanetly oblivious people are giving you a hard time because of your issues with women woogle they see this as another one of your attempts to discount most women in general. I honestly don't think it is lets face it people some chicks are hot and they use said hotness as a licence to be raving bitch queens simply because allot people will tolerate it from them.
Author Woggle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Posted August 10, 2010 Is this thread still going? lol... Ok ill say the blanetly oblivious people are giving you a hard time because of your issues with women woogle they see this as another one of your attempts to discount most women in general. I honestly don't think it is lets face it people some chicks are hot and they use said hotness as a licence to be raving bitch queens simply because allot people will tolerate it from them. Maybe it is a Jersey thing since you actually seem to get what I am talking about.
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Then why should I have sympathy for her if men left her alone? If that is what she wanted why was her ego so bruised by it not happening? I was just talking about your post, not everything that has gone on after you posted it. you post, I feel was pointless.
Taramere Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 She wasn't blatant about it but it is obvious. Maybe I should have taken a video so people would understand how it happened. I think so. You can have a youtube name we'll all recognise. Wogglewatches. With a bit of luck, you'll end up posting one a video involving a freak out like . If you could get a video of a girl jabbing a beer bottle at her backside and yelling "I'm gonna run away and never come back" because she wasn't getting enough attention, I think you'd garner a few more laughs from your story.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Maybe it is a Jersey thing since you actually seem to get what I am talking about. Eh maybe so my friends sister was just like those chicks total raveing bitch queen to every one. But also very popular go figure I never bought into it not my thing take it else weres sweety I just don't care how hot you think you are..
Pyro Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Anybody who was there could tell plus I overheard comments from her on being ignored plus she was high fiving her friends and saying you go girl every time they shot a guy down. It was glaringly obvious. funny that you never mentioned this part in the first post. Did you just remember this all of a sudden? You are a terrible liar. I'd believe you if you didn't hate women so much.
jamesum Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 So what? why does that bother you? So why are you intruding if you dont even know what we were talking about?
Sphere Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 I can well believe that a woman who wasn't getting hit on at a club while her friends were would be upset and frustrated. She got what she deserved at the end of the day, women who like to act like b*tches deserve to become spinsters with sixty cats. Of course that will never happen as there are too many stupid men looking for a lay who will go all out to try and get a woman to sleep with him. I never ever go a club or a bar with the intention of scoring. I always go to social with friends, have a few drinks, listen to some music, or in a club dance the night away. I've never understood the mentality of actively going to a bar to score with women.
TheWatcher Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 I go out once a week to a club to dance with friends. I could care less if someone thinks I'm a "snob" I'm there to dance and hang with the girls. Some guys can't take a hint, and take a walk. If I have to get nasty to make a clinger go away, I do. Plain and simple. I have never been to a bar/club but I think that I understand the dynamics that come into play in such places.I think that men (in general) should really think twice about approaching women in clubs or bars.Some women are there to relax with friends and not to be talked to or interact with men.
jamesum Posted August 10, 2010 Posted August 10, 2010 Yeah, I go to bars to hang out with my buds and check out pretty ladies. But I never went to a bar with the intention of finding a woman.
RecordProducer Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 (edited) She got what she deserved at the end of the day, women who like to act like b*tches deserve to become spinsters with sixty cats. I agree and also think the worst women deserve to be married and deal with their husbands' crap! I never ever go a club or a bar with the intention of scoring. I always go to social with friends, have a few drinks, listen to some music, or in a club dance the night away. I've never understood the mentality of actively going to a bar to score with women.... which makes you officially the kind of person who shouldn't have a problem with being rejected because you never hit on anyone. Yeah, I go to bars to hang out with my buds and check out pretty ladies. But I never went to a bar with the intention of finding a woman. Yes, the difference between checking out and finding a woman is in your looks or other quailities. Edited August 13, 2010 by RecordProducer
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