Woggle Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 A couple friends from New York came in today and we were hanging out at this club having drinks and enjoying some good music. I saw a groupe of three women come in and two of them were getting a lot of male attention and pretty being snotty to any man that even look their way. You could tell they were getting a kick out of being as rude as possible to these guys. The 3rd one was getting ignored and it was just burning at her soul. She looked depressed the entire night. She wanted the chance to have men fawn over and reject them in a snotty matter like her two friends. My friends and I were just cracking up over this. Even the bartender looked like he was holding back laughter. I
Author Woggle Posted August 8, 2010 Author Posted August 8, 2010 I am just explaining a situation I found funny and so did many other people.
Crazy Magnet Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 For all you know they had both recently been cheated on by a man and were ticked off at all men in general. lol Who cares what they were doing and why are you obsessing over it?
sugarmomma Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 I used to have a rude friend like that and had to stop hanging out with her since I'm friendly and don't see anything wrong with talking to guys if we're in a social setting. Some women have no class.
Author Woggle Posted August 8, 2010 Author Posted August 8, 2010 For all you know they had both recently been cheated on by a man and were ticked off at all men in general. lol Who cares what they were doing and why are you obsessing over it? I am not obsessing over it. I just happened to witness it and thought it was funny.
zengirl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 A couple friends from New York came in today and we were hanging out at this club having drinks and enjoying some good music. I saw a groupe of three women come in and two of them were getting a lot of male attention and pretty being snotty to any man that even look their way. You could tell they were getting a kick out of being as rude as possible to these guys. The 3rd one was getting ignored and it was just burning at her soul. She looked depressed the entire night. She wanted the chance to have men fawn over and reject them in a snotty matter like her two friends. My friends and I were just cracking up over this. Even the bartender looked like he was holding back laughter. I Well, it's silly if they were being rude to every fellow who looked their way (I mean, I've had to be rude to a fellow who literally wouldn't leave me alone, but generally I try to be sociable), but why assume the 3rd friend just wanted to be rude and reject fellows? Maybe she was getting annoyed by their behavior as well.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 A couple friends from New York came in today and we were hanging out at this club having drinks and enjoying some good music. I saw a groupe of three women come in and two of them were getting a lot of male attention and pretty being snotty to any man that even look their way. You could tell they were getting a kick out of being as rude as possible to these guys. The 3rd one was getting ignored and it was just burning at her soul. She looked depressed the entire night. She wanted the chance to have men fawn over and reject them in a snotty matter like her two friends. My friends and I were just cracking up over this. Even the bartender looked like he was holding back laughter. I It wouldn't have happed to be at the Bamboo would it? I prob know them lmao
Crazy Magnet Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 I am not obsessing over it. I just happened to witness it and thought it was funny. I was hoping for something really funny. Like milk squirting out some dude's nose. Or a complete face plant move on the dance floor. Someone belting out the worst karaoke on the planet. I guess I fail to see humor where you see humor. But then I tend to completely ignore people like you described as I don't find their behavior entertaining or amusing in any way. I prefer my happy bubble.
Author Woggle Posted August 8, 2010 Author Posted August 8, 2010 It wouldn't have happed to be at the Bamboo would it? I prob know them lmao It was actually at the Aztec. I don't hang out at those high priced trendy places too much. The buildings look real cool but my favorite spots are usually on the boardwalk.
Author Woggle Posted August 8, 2010 Author Posted August 8, 2010 I was hoping for something really funny. Like milk squirting out some dude's nose. Or a complete face plant move on the dance floor. Someone belting out the worst karaoke on the planet. I guess I fail to see humor where you see humor. But then I tend to completely ignore people like you described as I don't find their behavior entertaining or amusing in any way. I prefer my happy bubble. Maybe it was one of those things where you had to have been there. The bartender was biting his lip to keep from laughing.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 It was actually at the Aztec. I don't hang out at those high priced trendy places too much. The buildings look real cool but my favorite spots are usually on the boardwalk. Oh ok I know this chick who has a hot as sister who usually hangs out with other snott queens. But the girl I knew is a little on the larger side and usualy gets little attention so it totally fit the description prob not them tho last I herd bamboo is their fav spot. Those chicks hate every one equally not just men must be hard being so utterly perfect lol
Enchanted Girl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Well, it's silly if they were being rude to every fellow who looked their way (I mean, I've had to be rude to a fellow who literally wouldn't leave me alone, but generally I try to be sociable), but why assume the 3rd friend just wanted to be rude and reject fellows? Maybe she was getting annoyed by their behavior as well. LOL. For some reason, you're always thinking along the same wave length as me because I was thinking the same thing. She might have been depressed because she was being ignored. I had a friend who would flirt with guys a lot and guys would even come up to me sometimes and ask me how to talk to her. (This was back in high school.) It used to make me depressed because she'd reject them all and it made me sad that no one noticed me because I wouldn't have acted the same way. It's presumptuous to think you know exactly what someone is thinking, especially when they're a stranger.
Sphere Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 To be fair to these girls, I bet everytime they walk into a club they are endlessly hit on throughout the night. I'd imagine this would annoy most women and of course the dreaded b*tch shield goes up. Everytime I go into a club it's the same old thing with most people. The men all want to get laid and most women just aren't interested, so the b*tch shield goes up. I used to go into clubs looking to score, but a lot of the women in these clubs were low calibre women and not what I want. So, now when I rarely go to a club, I just go to have a few drinks and a boogie on the dance floor, but thing to do.
jamesum Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Maybe she was getting annoyed by their behavior as well. Yeah right. If she didnt like her friends behaviors, she wouldnt be hanging out with them in the first place, would she?
zengirl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Yeah right. If she didnt like her friends behaviors, she wouldnt be hanging out with them in the first place, would she? You really don't know how good of friends they are. Or how they know each other. Besides, I don't love all my friends' behaviors all the time (I wouldn't sit and scowl at them, because that seems un-fun and needlessly angsty, but I know folks who would). Plenty of my friends have failings that annoy me at times, but I care about them more than I dislike those failings. People are complex creatures, usually a mix of good and bad.
Raderick Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Well, it's silly if they were being rude to every fellow who looked their way (I mean, I've had to be rude to a fellow who literally wouldn't leave me alone, but generally I try to be sociable), but why assume the 3rd friend just wanted to be rude and reject fellows? Maybe she was getting annoyed by their behavior as well. It's also quite possible she was upset she wasn't getting the attention the other two were getting.
GordonDarkfoot Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 C'mon dude, anyone who would pay $8 for a drink (or whatever it costs at one of those places) if it's not on an expense account is shallow, or else they wouldn't be there in the first place. (Except for you and your buddies of course!) "Look at me, I'm so cool, my vodka appletini costs $15."
zengirl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 It's also quite possible she was upset she wasn't getting the attention the other two were getting. Well, sure, but what made him leap to the assumption, was my question. Assumptions always say as much about the one who assumes, if not MORE about them, than the person who has been assumed about. And not only did he assume this, he then took it a step farther and assumed she'd act just as the other women had.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 You really don't know how good of friends they are. Or how they know each other. Besides, I don't love all my friends' behaviors all the time (I wouldn't sit and scowl at them, because that seems un-fun and needlessly angsty, but I know folks who would). Plenty of my friends have failings that annoy me at times, but I care about them more than I dislike those failings. People are complex creatures, usually a mix of good and bad. Agreed and I knew someone was probably going to bring this up. My boyfriend has some friends that are *******s, but that doesn't mean he's an ******* for instance. I also never get pissed at him or insist that just because he's friends with them that he's obviously the same as them or insist that he stops being friends with them to stop condoning their behavior. I think that's controlling and a little insane to insist that you can't date someone unless you approve of all their friends because they're obviously a bad catch if you don't. I mean, what happens if they make friends with someone you hate later? Do you have to dump them? XD Because they wouldn't be friends with that person unless they were suddenly bad people themselves? I don't get this logic. Because people's friends aren't them. I've had a variety of friends as well. Friends that drink and do drugs, when I've never even touched either of those things before (never had a sip of alcohol) and things like that. People connect with other people for all different kinds of reasons.
jamesum Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Yes it is an assumption, but I think it is a plausible assumption. If the girl got the same amount of attention as her misbehaving' friends and still acted differently, then the assumption might be wrong. But if a guy threw a beer bottle into a trash can and looked drunk, he probably did get drunk from drinking the beer from the bottle he just threw away. Highly plausible correlation.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Yes it is an assumption, but I think it is a plausible assumption. If the girl got the same amount of attention as her misbehaving' friends and still acted differently, then the assumption might be wrong. But if a guy threw a beer bottle into a trash can and looked drunk, he probably did get drunk from drinking the beer from the bottle he just threw away. Highly plausible correlation. That comparison has nothing to do with what you are saying. Alcohol makes people drunk. People's friends don't control their actions. People are not defined and controlled by their friends.
jamesum Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 That comparison has nothing to do with what you are saying. Alcohol makes people drunk. People's friends don't control their actions. People are not defined and controlled by their friends. The fact that she was sulking and received no attention unlike her friends is a plausible correlation. If you think its not you are lying. Im a guy and even I have been there before. When that happened to me I just felt like I wanna get the hell out of the place.
zengirl Posted August 8, 2010 Posted August 8, 2010 Yes it is an assumption, but I think it is a plausible assumption. If the girl got the same amount of attention as her misbehaving' friends and still acted differently, then the assumption might be wrong. But if a guy threw a beer bottle into a trash can and looked drunk, he probably did get drunk from drinking the beer from the bottle he just threw away. Highly plausible correlation. I think it's a less plausible correlation than the one you made. The beer example has some pretty strong logic going for it (the fellow was holding the beer, looked drunk, etc). Also, it's a correlation that doesn't rely on assuming the worst of people. Would you assume he was an alcoholic? That would be a similar logic to the logic used in the assumption by the OP here. The scenario allows for the possibility, sure, but it doesn't preclude many others.
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