Author Ariadne Posted May 18, 2009 Author Share Posted May 18, 2009 Do you still believe in things like fate, astrology and soul mates? I believe what has to happen will, and nothing can change that. Astrology is seemingly a "picture" of the sky and the moment you were born, and since all planets have energy and certain pulls because of their gravity, the energy is seeminlgy affected in a particular way which affects you. I can see that theory behind it and it makes sense. As far a good readers I wouldn't know. And soulmates, definitely. Need to ask? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted May 18, 2009 Author Share Posted May 18, 2009 Btw, I have mentioned before that I consider DG to be my personal guru, out of the many gurus that I follow. That is because he makes breakthroughs in me to make me a better person. No necessarily easy lessons, but so far I'm a different person ever since I met him. The fact that this happened a few days ago, I consider it yet another lesson. Maybe it will be his last lesson, but one nonetheless. And maybe next time something like this happens (with him or anybody else) I won't be so stupid about it. Link to post Share on other sites
JeezLouise Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 On a very practical note amidst all this spirituality, please do NOT email him again. You sound scary, and his next step will be to take out a restraining order on you. And one day he will be famous, and your picture will be plastered on the front page of the Enquirer, with a pot of boiling bunny stew. Link to post Share on other sites
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tinke Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 well, there seems to be a contradiction. IF you truly believe in soulmates, karma, the universe and on and on, then why wouldn't you be living life to the fullest, believing that the universe will provide? How long do you plan on mourning over someone who was never really with you? Doesn't that seem a bit odd? Link to post Share on other sites
era Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 How long do you plan on mourning over someone who was never really with you? Doesn't that seem a bit odd? Because a strong bond can occur with online relationships...I am speaking from experience. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted May 18, 2009 Author Share Posted May 18, 2009 why wouldn't you be living life to the fullest, believing that the universe will provide? How long do you plan on mourning over someone who was never really with you? Doesn't that seem a bit odd? I will. I just won't indulge in anything that is not absolutely necessary for sustenance. The rest will be cut off. And I'll mourn till I'll mourn no more. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 He may be your soulmate, but you aren't his. Sorry A. I feel like I've said this before, in the past on your other threads.. You can't make someone want or fall inlove with you .. Even if the stars/moon/sun are lined up - Doesn't mean that he feels that way for you.. His actions over the years have shown you this - The way he's treated you - The NON actions too.. It's a shame you're wasting your love and energy on a guy who doesn't really care. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted May 18, 2009 Author Share Posted May 18, 2009 Doesn't mean that he feels that way for you.. His actions over the years have shown you this - The way he's treated you - The NON actions too.. It's a shame you're wasting your love and energy on a guy who doesn't really care. I don't know... For what it's worth, I still am confused by the reaction of DG. I just heard from my bff today who said: But DG has known that you are crazy in love with him all this time and he still kept e-mailing. And now because of one phone call he somehow decides that you are too much in love and stops all contact? I mean WTF, I just find it weird. It is a very cruel thing to do. I mean, if he is going to ditch me because I love him so much, he should have done this ages ago. But I guess he just didn't want to talk on the phone and that was it. It is what it is... Btw, I just emailed DG to apologize for the emails of the other day. I don't want him to feel bad for me, especially since he is recovering from surgery. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 A - You need to sit down and re-read EVERY SINGLE post you've made about DG. I think if you do that, you'll see how unhealthy this whole situation is. The best thing you can do for you, and him, is to never contact him again. If you continue to call or even email him, he could charge you with harrassment.. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 A - You need to sit down and re-read EVERY SINGLE post you've made about DG. I think if you do that, you'll see how unhealthy this whole situation is. The best thing you can do for you, and him, is to never contact him again. If you continue to call or even email him, he could charge you with harrassment.. Shouldnt she be by his side while he recovers from surgery? Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Oh Ariadne. I can't believe you are still obsessing over DG. Don't you want someone who doesn't wear their pants around their ears? Link to post Share on other sites
Sibyl Vane Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Shouldnt she be by his side while he recovers from surgery? Do you think I'll end up like Ariadne b4r? Curled up in the foetal position once that certain someone tells me to screw off? Link to post Share on other sites
Land Shark Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Don't you want someone who doesn't wear their pants around their ears? Is that what the surgery was for? Link to post Share on other sites
Sibyl Vane Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Is that what the surgery was for? haha....... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 Well, Totally ditched. I'm almost resigned now not to hear from him perhaps forever. This is just so painful to me that is like walking with a dagger going across my heart. I'll publish his very last email before he dumped me.. As you can see, drastic changes come from out of the blue: ------ Thursday, May 14, 2009 9:56 AM Doing okay--sometimes I just have a lot of pain from the shoulder surgery and that plus having everything off-kilter makes my neck hurt, my back hurt, etc., and any kind of driving around at this point means I'll be pretty sore for a while. But they warned me that this would be the most painful kind of surgery to recover from. Today it's been two weeks, so there's still a long ways to go. Still swamped with contracts, negotiations, and having all the necessary materials built and prepped. Lots to do whether I'm feeling sore or not. Glad you're feeling better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 Oh, And the "Glad you're feeling better" comment... Refers to me being rushed to the nearest hospital on an ambulance after a 911 call, because I got food poisoning. Once I got to the hospital, sick as a dog, soaked in sweat and shivering, I was hooked to an IV and morphine. Then I got sent to the house in pijamas in a taxi. Link to post Share on other sites
DJMarky Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 I don't think I have ever met someone as strange as you. No hobbies? Aspirations? Anything? You email this guy, that's it. You haven't heard his voice in 4 years? This whole relationship is in your head. I seriously believe you need professional help. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 I'm almost resigned now not to hear from him perhaps forever. Good. Now just get past the "almost" part, and you're home free and on the road to recovery. Link to post Share on other sites
DJMarky Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Good. Now just get past the "almost" part, and you're home free and on the road to recovery. Have you read her posts? She is no way near recovering. It's as if this guy is the only thing keeping her living. Did you see how she is describing her life? No hobbies, works in a cubicle 9 hours a day, no socialising. This is seriously not a healthy way to live. Imagine going through a serious break up (serious in this case because of the effect it has on the individuals involved - I do not think a relationship based on emails can ever be considered serious but that is my opinion) without any friends to talk about it with? The best course of action is to seek professional help, join a club (some activity - soccer?), maybe start surfing (I find the ocean very therapeutic), ANYTHING so that there is something more in her life than this dude who emails her. Where is the physical gratification in emails? Is she happy never being held by someone she loves so much? I am sure he is out there with other women and considers her a bit of fun. I hate to be pessimistic but I am wondering if she is past the point of help. She seems dead keen on this guy no matter what and will probably spend the rest of her life writing him endless emails and begging for him back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Have you read her posts? She is no way near recovering. It's as if this guy is the only thing keeping her living. Did you see how she is describing her life? No hobbies, works in a cubicle 9 hours a day, no socialising. This is seriously not a healthy way to live. Imagine going through a serious break up (serious in this case because of the effect it has on the individuals involved - I do not think a relationship based on emails can ever be considered serious but that is my opinion) without any friends to talk about it with? The best course of action is to seek professional help, join a club (some activity - soccer?), maybe start surfing (I find the ocean very therapeutic), ANYTHING so that there is something more in her life than this dude who emails her. Where is the physical gratification in emails? Is she happy never being held by someone she loves so much? I am sure he is out there with other women and considers her a bit of fun. I hate to be pessimistic but I am wondering if she is past the point of help. She seems dead keen on this guy no matter what and will probably spend the rest of her life writing him endless emails and begging for him back. I said, "...on the road," not "recovered." I completely agree, but at least she is using a phrase that makes me believe she's beginning to see the reality of her situation, at least as regards him. Ariadne, you are nothing more to him than a way to pass the time when he's nothing else to do. Please let this go and start getting emotionally healthy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 No hobbies? Aspirations? Anything? No. Everything is stupid for me. I think that if I could and didn't have a son, I'd want to be exactly like this guy: (pic) Living in the forest or in the desert, or to live like an Australian aborigin. I think those are the coolest. The only thing I'd care about otherwise is to be with my soulmate, and do good for other people. Nothing else that relates to this world I care about. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 (Btw, I'm about to get fired from work because the hours that I spend there, are spent reading spiritual scriptures, soulmate recounts, and listening to Mantras. I do anything I can not to do any work and ditch everything they give me to do). Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 (Oh, and every single day at lunch time I go to walk and run on the beach because it's nearby. I really enjoy that! And I enjoy it even more because it's deserted. People go to restaurants instead. I change in the back of my car and put on a dress so that I can get in the water). Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 (Btw, I'm about to get fired from work because the hours that I spend there, are spent reading spiritual scriptures, soulmate recounts, and listening to Mantras. I do anything I can not to do any work and ditch everything they give me to do). I'm trying very hard not to be angry or come across as angry, but if your son is a minor and living with you, you need to get your head screwed on straight, forget about mantras and yogis and finger cymbals and soulmates, and do what you need to do to provide for him. Link to post Share on other sites
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