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Old 27th August 2004, 9:53 AM   #151
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I can completely relate to your fantasy. I have had the same fantasy about my wife for quite sometime now. I have never mentioned it to her though, and maybe one day I will, but I do know that if it bothers her I won't push it.
Hi nutz, sometimes if I come up with a fantasy that I'm afraid to mention to my wife, what I'll do is, I'll tell her I dreamt about it the night before while sleeping. That way, even if she was totally repulsed by the idea, I can always say, "It was only a dream!" Completely honest? No. Better than getting slapped and thought of as a perv? Yes.
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Old 1st September 2004, 12:54 PM   #152
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Why cant all men be that trusting. I would go for it if I was her.
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Old 1st September 2004, 1:06 PM   #153
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Why cant all men be that trusting. I would go for it if I was her.
Helllloooooooo oooooannamarie!

Thatta girl! How convenient, you live in Md ... too.
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Old 1st September 2004, 1:13 PM   #154
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This thread is way too long to read through so forgive me if this question has been asked already but I have to know...has she ever done it? Is this a control thing for you (that you can convince her to do another man just to please you)??
What is it about her having sex with another man in front of you that excites you? Is it like your own private porn type a deal?
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Old 1st September 2004, 1:39 PM   #155
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This thread is way too long to read through so forgive me if this question has been asked already but I have to know...has she ever done it? Is this a control thing for you (that you can convince her to do another man just to please you)??
The only time she's ever done it was 2 years ago before we got married. I can't imagine it being a control issue because she is such a strong willed woman. She wouldn't do somehting she really didn't want to do. Over the course of her 2 month stay in Florida, she had sex with the guy on 16 different days, sometimes 2 or 3 times in one day. It seemed like every time I'd call her to see how she was, she'd be on her way to his house to have sex with him again. To me, this really doesn't sound like a person that was being forced to do anything.

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What is it about her having sex with another man in front of you that excites you? Is it like your own private porn type a deal?
I wish I could answer this one but I can't. The idea that another man is finding out firsthand how sexy and hot my wife is, could possibly be one of the reasons. For example, in another thread, moose posted a link to his beautiful wife's picture. You can tell he's extremely proud of the way she looks and wanted to share her beauty with others. This could in some ways be the same way I feel except I take it a step further. I don't have sexual or jealousy hangups when it comes to my wife being with another man. I'm not a religious person so there aren't any ties between religion and sex to me. To me, a man having sex with my wife would be no different than another man shaking her hand, giving her a friendly hug or a peck on the cheek. I am excited by seeing things you're not supposed to see and watching another man have sex with your wife isn't something one generally sees. That's the best explanation I can give you.
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Old 14th September 2004, 4:16 PM   #156
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my wife wants me to watch her with another woman and I am totally for it
 
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my wife wants me to watch her with another woman and I am totally for it
Wow! Ya gotta love a wife like that! Let me know if her wish comes true.
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Old 15th September 2004, 1:01 PM   #158
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Same here luckyman.. She also wants to watch me with another woman. Though something like this might never happen, or at least I don't see it in the near future. It's just a 'fantasy' of hers that she speaks of.
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Old 17th September 2004, 1:29 PM   #159
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Same here luckyman.. She also wants to watch me with another woman. Though something like this might never happen, or at least I don't see it in the near future. It's just a 'fantasy' of hers that she speaks of.
jm, I'm just curious, why would you not want to give it a try? What if she gave you a no strings attached opportunity to try another woman?

I love my wife dearly and when we have sex, it's really good but if she offered that to me, I'd be on it like a big dog! I don't want to eat at the same restaurant every day. I like trying new ones from time to time. That doesn't mean that I like the original restaurant any less. Variety.
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Old 17th September 2004, 1:34 PM   #160
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If you couldnt watch but your wife wanted someone else would that be okay?
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Old 17th September 2004, 1:58 PM   #161
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guys...and gals....just remember that if you decide to take the plunge make sure your relationship is strong (really really strong).....
My honey and I have some wild sex, it is fun.....but there have been a few fights over it.....
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Old 18th September 2004, 10:26 AM   #162
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Wonder why it turns you on?

I'm very surprised that this subject hasn't been brought up on this post, or that ShareHer doesn't know more about why this turns him on so.

Google the following words:
Candaulism
Cuckold
Sperm Competition Syndrome
Compersion

The reason it turns on virtually millions of men around the world is quite simple and biological. When a man sees his partner with another man, or simply suspects it, or even is just absent from her for some time, he will have an orgasm 3 times stronger than usual, his pelvic thrusts will be 3 times as hard. There's one simple reason for this: he wants to make sure the baby is his.

Free will? We're all just victims of our cells and what they want to do. Enjoy.

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Old 20th September 2004, 12:38 PM   #163
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If you couldnt watch but your wife wanted someone else would that be okay?
Oh absolutely! The only condition being that she had to tell me about it, preferably with all the graphic details. But if I had my choice, I'd want to watch her.
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Old 20th September 2004, 12:41 PM   #164
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Re: Wonder why it turns you on?

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I'm very surprised that this subject hasn't been brought up on this post, or that ShareHer doesn't know more about why this turns him on so.

Google the following words:
Candaulism
Cuckold
Sperm Competition Syndrome
Compersion

The reason it turns on virtually millions of men around the world is quite simple and biological. When a man sees his partner with another man, or simply suspects it, or even is just absent from her for some time, he will have an orgasm 3 times stronger than usual, his pelvic thrusts will be 3 times as hard. There's one simple reason for this: he wants to make sure the baby is his.

Free will? We're all just victims of our cells and what they want to do. Enjoy.

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Hi balths ... thanks for the keywords. I'll definitely look them up. I'm already familiar with "Cuckold" ... which involves humiliation of the husband by his wife and her partner. I wouldn't want that every time but it might be interesting to try once in awhile.
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Old 30th September 2004, 4:00 PM   #165
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I have the same desire and I have acted on it. My wife, before we got married was with only one other guy. I got her to do a couple other guys for me and she did exactly that. It was for me. After we were married we took a couple trips to exotic islands and would hookup there so nobody would know us. On occasion I would drop her off at a bar and wait outside to see how long it would take her to come out with a man. Once it took less than 3 minutes. She would go into his car and take care of business and on a couple occasions go back into the bar for another couple rounds. Sometimes she would stay in the car and the guy would go back in and another man would come out and go into the car. Three guys in one night was the most. We did this only for the first 18 months of our marriage. Then she wanted to stop after about 50 guys. She only did it for me. She said enough was enough and we can now live on the memories. I was fine with that and agreed because knowing she did it for me and that she wanted to stop it was only fair. Ten years later it never happened again.
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