She came back

[Tagalz]

3 hours ago, Gebidozo said:

I don’t think you’re looking at this right.

Nobody needs a reason for not being attracted. Not being attracted is the default state. It’s being attracted that is the exception needing reasons.

She wasn’t attracted because she wasn’t attracted. Instead of trying to find an answer to the nonexistent question “why?” you should have broken it off with her completely at the first chance.

You also appear to have some confusion with the terms “respectful” and “dominant”. These aren’t opposites. Broadly speaking, women like it when men are respectful and dominant.

No, but trying to understand. Nobody needs a reason to be attracted I agree. Usually it’s the person knows if they are attracted or not. It’s the default state? We both were attracted to each other looks. That’s how me and her met in the first place. It’s the chemistry/the spark seems to not be there from the beginning due to our different qualities. Not sure what you mean by: «it’s being attracted that is the exception needing reasons»? 

Right so I was respectful but not dominant enough. So the right questions to ask would be: Do you think If I was dominant and respectful that she would develop more romantic feelings?