Tired, so tired

[BrinnM]

10 hours ago, SideChick23 said:

Update: we are still a thing and now on year 7. We’ve been very happy and stronger than ever. He is no closer to even discussing divorce and while I feel stupid for continuing this affair, I’m happy. I’m holding out hope that we will beat the odds and end up together in the end. 

I know many will disagree with me, but I truly do love him. 

Well, if you’re happy, you’re happy. That’s all that matters. I would strongly recommend though that you stop hoping for him to divorce. The odds are not in your favor. And he even says that. What more can you ask for? That’s your evidence right there.

….. enjoy what you have and don’t hope for more. If you do, you’re gonna make yourself miserable.

The truth is that he has already told you what he will and will not do. So he will get what he wants. Are you going to help him get what he wants to get? It’s all in your hands.

[BaileyB]

On 6/12/2023 at 8:51 AM, SideChick23 said:

I have no intentions of reaching out to him at all. I’m staying on my path to healing. 

 

On 6/12/2023 at 5:14 PM, SideChick23 said:

Do you think he will try to reach out? I’m trying to prepare for the worst. 

I’m curious how you got from this six months ago… 

to this…

10 hours ago, SideChick23 said:

We’ve been very happy and stronger than ever.

Six months ago you said if he ever came back you would ask him to leave his wife - and then you walked back that statement… I don’t know what you are trying to prove or to whom… For what it’s worth, based on your previous posts I don’t believe for one moment that you are contented with your position in life - despite the fact that you have hung around for seven years now… 

[Lisa]

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