Gold Pile Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Women respond to high social status and value. You can convey this MUCH better with bodylanguage, vocal projection, social proof, etc, rather than by having a Ferrari or a Yacht, or expensive clothes, etc. You are going about this all wrong bro, and you don't convey to women that you have money by TELLING them verbally. It's much more powerful if you showed them some pictures of you, in (your porsche) conveys wealth, pictures of you with your friends and beautiful women (pre-selection is more powerful than money, if women see that other girls want you, they will want you.. its the boyband effect), and also the fact that you are safe. Stories are probably the best way though to convey value and everything you want to convey. There's a story I use all the time, it involves me rescueing my girlfriend with my buddies, who happens to be an exotic dancer, she calls me while im with my buddy who is the owner of some club, and she calls me, says she is being stalked by some guys and is feeling scared and i roll up with my buddies and "rescue" her. It's a story that conveys many valuable things such as value, I know the owner of a club, he is MY FRIEND, pre-selection.. im dating an exotic dancer, it shows strength and compassion, she calls says she is in trouble and I "rescue" her, i protect her.. The most important thing when doing this stuff is to not sound AT ALL like you're bragging, you have to be completely congruent with what you speak. Hi T, 1st, it's only a BMW. I went the the story route and made a couple of good scores. After counseling with a nun, I've to regret that I had been speaking falsehoods. So the stories of wealth are out, but maybe I can recall true stories of character as you suggest. Dancers may be something to brag to the guys about, but I think most women are turned off by the idea that a guy dated one. Some women would feel that you are lumping them in with strippers. Link to post Share on other sites
Hot Coco Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Mr Pile, Have you ever spent more than $40 bucks? I think you should invest at least $100 on the shoes. And 2000 on some pinky rings Pinky rings? Ewwww! Link to post Share on other sites
Hot Coco Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Oh and yeah..if I guy told me whe was dating an exotic dancer (which is the same thing as a stripper in most people's eyes) I would not be impressed. In fact, it would make me question his choices in women. I'd probably never go out with him again just based on that one fact. Of course, I guess in certain circles (not mine) an exotic dancer is someone with a certain kind of status. Link to post Share on other sites
933KJL Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Oh and yeah..if I guy told me whe was dating an exotic dancer (which is the same thing as a stripper in most people's eyes) I would not be impressed. In fact, it would make me question his choices in women. I'd probably never go out with him again just based on that one fact. Of course, I guess in certain circles (not mine) an exotic dancer is someone with a certain kind of status. Yeah she probably might even like anal sex and the taste of semen! :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Hot Coco Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Very funny, KJ! Yeah, I bet those girls DO! Link to post Share on other sites
933KJL Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Very funny, KJ! Yeah, I bet those girls DO! AHA! So you ADMIT that some girls do actually indeed like the taste of semen and anal sex. Your honor--I rest my case! Link to post Share on other sites
Hot Coco Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Well, I think I have said that maybe porno stars and the like do. But they've probably convinced themselves they like it. I mean sometimes people can convince themselves they like something that they really don't. Does that make sense? It's in their interest to do that. Nope, sorry the jury is still out on this one! Link to post Share on other sites
Panhandler Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 I think you're really going about this the wrong way. Girls looking for rich boys are doing so cause their family and friends expect it of them most of the time, or some of them are just very shallow and think they deserve to be pampered with materialism. Others are just brainwashed by television, and think that money is the answer to everything, and the bling bling lifestyle is where it's at. I'd stay away from those kind of girls....and try and find girls who appreciate you for who you are. You can class up your character a little bit, but don't be deceptive. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 Boy, it's always amusing to watch people try mightily to deny something they don't want to believe might be true Well, except when it's a government. Link to post Share on other sites
d'Arthez Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 Boy, it's always amusing to watch people try mightily to deny something they don't want to believe might be true Yes. And people wonder why Balzac named his "project" La Comédie humaine. Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 I'd stay away from those kind of girls....and try and find girls who appreciate you for who you are. You can class up your character a little bit, but don't be deceptive Those are exactly the "girls" I'm looking for. It's just for short term fun, not long relationship. I don't care what they appreciate me for, I just want free sex fun. Link to post Share on other sites
Walk Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 Well, I think I have said that maybe porno stars and the like do. But they've probably convinced themselves they like it. I mean sometimes people can convince themselves they like something that they really don't. Does that make sense? It's in their interest to do that. So, only porn stars and strippers like anal and semen? Guess I'm a porn star. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 I didn't post that. Link to post Share on other sites
Panhandler Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 Well if you wanna play the rich bad boy stud, you have to be in real good shape too. Money doesn't pull all the weight on girls, you gotta be good looking, and working out a lot. But the truth is that people can see bull when they hear it, I hear bull all the time from people that really blow things out of proportion and they bring things up like they are big shots. Being vaguely honest and implying wealth is far better than bragging about specific riches and events. You must be doing okay if you are rolling in the BMW, they are expensive cars to maintain. But then again I know a guy who works for chump change with richy parents that puts his whole paycheck to his beemer, and he is fat, but he still hooks up with the occassional ghetto whore. I think honestly it's more that you are building your esteem and effectiveness of line delivery in your head by saying I'm rich. When in truth, it's just your more confident talking that is getting you anywhere at all. The rich stuff gets old and wears thin after awhile. Gold digger whores want to be impressed by your big house and heavy spending on them. So you won't convince them, cause they don't have much faith in your words, I'm sure someone else has played the same con on them a million times to try and win them over. Link to post Share on other sites
Gilbert222 Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 Greetings Pan, I'm no stranger to riches, although I'm not one to flaunt it, people do know I've got it. You refer to gold diggers as whores. Certainly many whores would be gold diggers if they could. A few women have been after me with heavy concern for the great times and good life we could have on my dime. I guess you call them gold diggers. A gold digger sells more than sex, she "sells" you a life style. Sex is only part of it. It's about the life the two of you could have. They have no interest in poor men or even rich men willing to pay for a session of sex. They want to convince you to finance a life style for the two of you. Are you a teenager Pan? I detect the wisdom of youth in your posts. Link to post Share on other sites
Basic Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Are you a teenager Pan? I detect the wisdom of youth in your posts Gilbert! Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 I spoke with a co worker who's daughter is dating a man for the last 2 years and little did she know ( as he did not make it known ) that he and his father own a very profitable nationwide company. He and his father are worth millions but he did not show this to her in his fashion style, dress , in his car or belongings. ect . She fell in love with him. Only later did he reveal who he was . Sadly he has terminal cancer and is leaving the bulk of his estate to my co workers daughter. I think thats amazing and that most men with money should definately not reveal their wealth to ward off the potential gold diggers. Men hide your cash She fell in love with him. Not his money. Now a big part of the company will be left to her. Nice ending to two well deserving people in love.... Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Nice ending to two well deserving people in love.... Nice ending? He's dying! You're terrible. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 No ,I meant the outcome of someone who did not know the other person had money and did not base their relationship on that fact , only to discover later that person did have money. Long before he was terminal ( or knew he had cancer ) he decided to leave his wealth to her. Sorry for the confusion,. I should have left that part out because it was misunderstood. The real point was gold diggers exist and men should not tell the girl of their wealth in the beggining . Its the only real way to know if she loves you for YOU and not your money. Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 The real point was gold diggers exist and men should not tell the girl of their wealth in the beggining . Its the only real way to know if she loves you for YOU and not your money. True enough. I have used my real and imagined wealth as a tool to attract. It pretty much rules out ever falling for/trusting anyone attracted at that time. Even if it's very possible she wasn't after the wealth...I couldn't be certain,ever. All men want to score, and they will pretend to be into whatever the target lady is into. Act like a hippie to attract a hippie chick. Act like a Gold Pile to score with a Gold digger. Watch your heart around a GD, but they are fair game for scoring. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Its funny because most of my friends are gold diggers. I like the man for his heart and his personality. He does not need to make a bundle of money. Just a steady job and a good heart is all I need Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Its funny because most of my friends are gold diggers. I like the man for his heart and his personality. He does not need to make a bundle of money. Just a steady job and a good heart is all I need You then are a fine lady. I would never seek try the GP routine on you. Would not attempt a score-n-dump with you, for fear of hurting a very nice person. I hope most gentlemen treat you like a lady and save the heart breaking for your friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 I have had many routines pulled on me. I know all the games , the lines and everything else ...to get into my pants. But many are frustrated because I am holding out for someone special. Keep you money. Give me your heart 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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