d0nnivain Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 So gutted Why is this still going on? Just break up with him! Even though most of us don't see what you see, we all see that you & him don't belong together. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
soleilesquire Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 (edited) Not yet, but i think he sees the v day meal as an investment. I recommend you spend some time on yourself before dating anyone. Edited February 22, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Mentioned past thread without quotation ~T 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Rejected Rosebud Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 Well ... I think you have been on 2 dates with him. You might be surprised by HIM dumping you. I can't imagine that you're bringing much fun and interest to the dates since you are so busy focussing on what a lowlife you think he is. Since he's good looking and nice, I am sure he can find a lovely woman somewhere who actually LIKES him! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 You do that on purpose? TBH, I saw it and said "oh screw it, no one is going to notice another error in this thread." It's a real bitch to correct stuff on my phone. I hate this phone. I miss my iPhone. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ChickiePops Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 (edited) OP has he actually said or done anything that would point to him being a gold digger or could you be making this all up in your head because he doesn't meet YOUR standards? Edited February 22, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator rude~T 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chelsey22 Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 If you look at him and wanna kiss him and if you can see him with you forever and you with him Then go for it What have you got to lose if you like him it is not grooming if you had alot of money you would wanna buy the person you like anything like right. If you dont like more on if you see yourself with him and think of good time you may have Why not you only live once and you never know when you meet the one but you need to found out frist Link to post Share on other sites
Author so gutted Posted February 20, 2016 Author Share Posted February 20, 2016 No - why does he deserve anyone better? What if he is a con artist looking for a better life via me?? Link to post Share on other sites
soleilesquire Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 No - why does he deserve anyone better? What if he is a con artist looking for a better life via me?? He's not. Your deluded, and who he deserves is none of your business. Work on yourself. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 No - why does he deserve anyone better? What if he is a con artist looking for a better life via me?? If you feel he is a con artist (which I doubt) then you should have no problems letting him go. Why are you still thinking about it, just let him go. He deserves someone who isn't afraid to love him. Just let him go and find a man who has the finances you desire. I don't know why you are still even thinking about it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AverageJoe1986 Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 No - why does he deserve anyone better? What if he is a con artist looking for a better life via me?? I think what's annoying you is that he's a second-rate gold digger compared to your own high standards. He's not in your league. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
scorpiogirl Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 No - why does he deserve anyone better? What if he is a con artist looking for a better life via me?? Why is it your job to save the world from this man and your deluded ideas of him? I think you're extremely insulting in your assessment of him. You don't even know him. Have you read on here how many people complained that their dates/ partners, etc. didn't do anything for Valentine's Day? Didn't acknowledge the day even? I don't care about the day, but here this man took you out. Spent the day with you and you don't even know each other that well. Let's say he is a con man - What is it that you're planning to do? What's your plan? What is your line of thought? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
loveflower Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 How has he sponged off of you? He took you out to eat, altho not where you wanted. Did he ask you to pay? You didn't get OP's point...she considers that as 'grooming'. Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 No - why does he deserve anyone better? What if he is a con artist looking for a better life via me?? There's something wrong with you. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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