somedude81 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 If those 100 men were at a porn shoot, I would bin every one of them! Same if they were in a prison serving time! What if they were 100 male models with PhD's? See I can play too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Not seeing anything she likes in 100 random men is extremely picky. That's the very definition of picky. From what I understand of women, they are speaking from a position of power and their job is point out why men are not good enough. They are fault finders. Men don't do this. SD really need to speak for himself. I am sure I have seen over 100 women in the last 10 years I have been a legal adult in the United States. I have yet to get a date and it isn't because these women has the chance to reject me because that chance never was given to them. I wish my options is better but with the current pool available, I have no issue staying single. I am sure SD would be all over that though judging from his responses. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 SD really need to speak for himself. I am sure I have seen over 100 women in the last 10 years I have been a legal adult in the United States. I have yet to get a date and it isn't because these women has the chance to reject me because that chance never was given to them. I wish my options is better but with the current pool available, I have no issue staying single. I am sure SD would be all over that though judging from his responses. Yep. We're not that desperate. I'm pretty picky too. In fact, the whole reason why I don't date is because I do not currently reach my own requirements! Nothing wrong with being selective, it's better to be IMO. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Yep. We're not that desperate. I'm pretty picky too. In fact, the whole reason why I don't date is because I do not currently reach my own requirements! Nothing wrong with being selective, it's better to be IMO. It's weird you said the bolded part because I think the same way. I have high expectations of what I want from a woman, especially after all I have witnesses from the "American people" throughout my life. However, to ask of these expectations, I have to bring my share to the table......and I have yet to get even close to doing that. So until then, I am content staying single until I get to said point, if I ever get there. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 What if they were 100 male models with PhD's? See I can play too. What's their stance on relationships, religious tolerance, race tolerance and political viewpoints? And do they clean up after themselves? Eye colour. Yes eye colour is a bin factor for me. Sorry folks. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 SD really need to speak for himself. I am sure I have seen over 100 women in the last 10 years I have been a legal adult in the United States. I have yet to get a date and it isn't because these women has the chance to reject me because that chance never was given to them. I wish my options is better but with the current pool available, I have no issue staying single. I am sure SD would be all over that though judging from his responses. Then you are one of the few men who wish to stay single. That's cool. Less competition for me Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Then you are one of the few men who wish to stay single. That's cool. Less competition for me If you want a tattooed-up 21-year old with a child that has no problems ripping her BF's head off because he didn't spend $100+ on her at Walmart, then help yourself.....and I hope you like smoking. There is plenty of smokers out there dying for your attention. Oh, and there is this weird woman working in the medical field that may be easy for you as well. You can have her since she clearly looking for companionship and I have no interest in her. Please, come and get them. Maybe.......just maybe, I would get some better prospects in exchange or, at the worst, an easier shift at my work place. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 (edited) This topic has been discussed on here a gazillion times. It pops up all the time, kind of like a summer afternoon thunderstorm in Florida. Fellas who are griping, not sure what you want women to do. I mean, feelings are feelings. If you want the women you feel attracted for, to "give you a chance" because you're such Nice Guys, then you are going to have to deal with finding out that the women you're dating were never feeling it for you. I know a couple of you have had women whom you weren't into, interested in you. Why aren't you dating them? Lest anyone says I'm coming down on the side of women, if a woman came on here and kvetched about her bad luck and "why can't she meet a good guy" I would tell her to take responsibility and look at her choices. Edited December 15, 2014 by Imajerk17 8 Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 When I said 100 random, I was only thinking of age appropriate guys. Everything else aside from location is random. I know this is a switcheroo on the sexes, but when I'm doing OLD there are definitely times when I'll pass on 100+ women in a row before finding one I even want to write to (which of course doesn't necessarily mean I want a relationship... she might find ways of eliminating herself way before that). I know OLD isn't "random women", or even "random men" when the other way around, but OLD often seems to be cited as some sort of 'proof' of the options women have. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 This topic has been discussed on here a gazillion times. It pops up all the time, kind of like a summer afternoon thunderstorm in Florida. Fellas who are griping, not sure what you want women to do. I mean, feelings are feelings. If you want the women you feel attracted for, to "give you a chance" because you're such Nice Guys, then you are going to have to deal with finding out that the women you're dating were never feeling it for you. To me, a chance is one date. That's all I want. Yet it feels like trying to get one date with a girl I'm attracted to feels like I'm asking to win the lottery. I know a couple of you have had women whom you weren't into, interested in you. Why aren't you dating them? Because they were far below average in looks. All I want is a woman who is similar to me in terms of attractiveness, and personality. Lest anyone says I'm coming down on the side of women, if a woman came on here and kvetched about her bad luck and "why can't she meet a good guy" I would tell her to take responsibility and look at her choices. There have been a few women on this board who have posted about their bad luck. Did you tell them to take responsibility? Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Wait so you get to limit your pool to women you are attracted to but women need to be open to all men because they are attracted to them. Great, always wanted to be equated to a blow up doll 7 Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Because they were far below average in looks. All I want is a woman who is similar to me in terms of attractiveness, and personality. You may have to consider dating women your own age rather than a decade younger. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Wait so you get to limit your pool to women you are attracted to but women need to be open to all men because they are attracted to them. Great, always wanted to be equated to a blow up doll Please look through my previous posts in this thread for my opinion on what women consider attractive, and what I believe they are looking for compared to what guys want. Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Please look through my previous posts in this thread for my opinion on what women consider attractive, and what I believe they are looking for compared to what guys want. What you believe they are looking for? Really? What would we do if we didn't have you to tell us what we are looking for. Why it would hurt our widdle brains to think that hard! Clarification greatly helped. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 You may have to consider dating women your own age rather than a decade younger. No! He just needs to tell them what they are looking for and how that is not a reasonable qualifier. They would only be so lucky to date him. And show them his writings here. Now that would cause me to undate someone so fast their head would spin. HUGE red flags. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 You may have to consider dating women your own age rather than a decade younger. I wasn't aware that I was the only man on Earth who proffered younger women. Also, are you saying that younger women are inherently more valuable than older women? Link to post Share on other sites
Lernaean_Hydra Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 I wasn't aware that I was the only man on Earth who preferred younger women. Also, are you saying that younger women are inherently more valuable than older women? What? How did you draw that conclusion out of what was written? 5 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 What? How did you draw that conclusion out of what was written? Why else would he mention me preferring to date younger women? He must believe that younger women are better, and that I would have to "settle" for a woman my age. Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 I wasn't aware that I was the only man on Earth who proffered younger women. Indeed not! Also, are you saying that younger women are inherently more valuable than older women? I'm saying no such thing! (I'm unsure why you would suggest this.) I'm reflecting that you said that "All I want is a woman who is similar to me in terms of attractiveness, and personality." and I'm suggesting that you may have to consider dating women your own age rather than a decade younger in order to find that. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Indeed not! I'm saying no such thing! (I'm unsure why you would suggest this.) I'm reflecting that you said that "All I want is a woman who is similar to me in terms of attractiveness, and personality." and I'm suggesting that you may have to consider dating women your own age rather than a decade younger in order to find that. Ah that's what you mean. Well, I absolutely do not look my age and I don't act like my age either. So that means that even women who are ten years younger than I am are "similar to me in terms of attractiveness, and personality." Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 and I don't act like my age either. You got that one right. So that means that even women who are ten years younger than I am are "similar to me in terms of attractiveness, and personality." You cannot seriously believe you look 22? Anyway, I agree that you should pursue whomever you want. Please for the love of god don't try and 'settle' for older women - nobody needs a 'settler'. But you really do have to stop complaining about how the women you're pursuing aren't attracted to you. Just because YOU perceive you are similar to them or a good match doesn't mean that THEY perceive it the same way. And their perception is every bit as valid as yours. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 I don't act like my age either. This likely reduces attractiveness for most women, unless you're 70 and acting 40. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Ah that's what you mean. Well, I absolutely do not look my age and I don't act like my age either. So that means that even women who are ten years younger than I am are "similar to me in terms of attractiveness, and personality." No-one can really hide their age because you may look younger and you may even act younger but you are not of that generation and it usually stands out a mile to anyone of that generation. Why would a woman want to date 10 years older, when there are great guys available at her own age, who understand her and who are basically going through the same stuff as she is, young, free and single. Some women do want father figures, but often the guys wanting a decade younger women are those trying to hang onto their youth and guys who are not particularly responsible people to look up to anyway. Or they are control freaks, who are looking to dominate some young girl. I would never in a million years in my twenties considered dating someone 10 years older!!! Sorry! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillmind Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 I briefly dated a 30 year old man when I was 20. I wouldn't have considered it if he told me his age prior to our first date and while I gave him a shot the relationship did not last long. Tons of young women will rule out a man 10 years older, you're severely limiting yourself if you chase only much younger women. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Ugh, too many people talking to me about my preference for younger women. Link to post Share on other sites
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