Women with breast implants...how/when do you tell a new partner?

[Star Gazer]

My ex touched hers all the time...especially during sex, which I LOVED. Time to text her!

 

I wonder why my post was deleted.

[ChessPieceFace]

It would be good for a girl to bring it up naturally. I don't know if you could write a formula for that.

 

Where a guy is concerned, I would say again to only bring it up naturally; not outright ask, but at some point state a preference.

 

I would almost say to ignore it since if you can tell, you don't have to ask. And if you can't tell, why would it matter? But that's only considering enjoyment / sexual contact. I'd still definitely want to know for health reasons. AFAIK they're still using silicone implants, and haven't come up with anything better / 100% safe. Silicone can adversely affect health. Some women may not notice any health effects, others may notice them quickly. It may also depend on the quality of the implants.

 

Furthermore, I'd be quite concerned about health effects on any baby nursing from silicone-tainted breasts. The evidence shows pretty clearly that it's a real concern. And just like any other medical concern, the medical industry and FDA will lie, stonewall research, downplay and dismiss problems, and drag out any action or revelation about dangers of a product for decades in order to protect the people that really matter to them - CEOs, shareholders and themselves.

 

Bottom line - breast implants = bad idea. (for now.)

[Kizza]

Welll, I think it would be obvious just by touching them but instead of asking why not just compliment with a comment such as ooooo I love your breasts mmmmmm and see what she says.

[Kizza]

It would be good for a girl to bring it up naturally. I don't know if you could write a formula for that.

 

Where a guy is concerned, I would say again to only bring it up naturally; not outright ask, but at some point state a preference.

 

I would almost say to ignore it since if you can tell, you don't have to ask. And if you can't tell, why would it matter? But that's only considering enjoyment / sexual contact. I'd still definitely want to know for health reasons. AFAIK they're still using silicone implants, and haven't come up with anything better / 100% safe. Silicone can adversely affect health. Some women may not notice any health effects, others may notice them quickly. It may also depend on the quality of the implants.

 

Furthermore, I'd be quite concerned about health effects on any baby nursing from silicone-tainted breasts. The evidence shows pretty clearly that it's a real concern. And just like any other medical concern, the medical industry and FDA will lie, stonewall research, downplay and dismiss problems, and drag out any action or revelation about dangers of a product for decades in order to protect the people that really matter to them - CEOs, shareholders and themselves.

 

Bottom line - breast implants = bad idea. (for now.)

 

What about saline?

[lino]

I don't like fake boobs, so I'd appreciate the girl telling me early on to save both our time.

 

It's not that hard to tell fakies from real ones anyway and I've never been attracted to the personality type that normally accompanies fakies.

[leftfordead2]

I've only had a couple guys ask, post-sex, and only because they weren't sure if they were real are not because they're *that* good. If they don't ask, I typically don't bring it up. Well into a relationship, somehow it comes up on conversation.

 

Sorry, just curious, if it was that good, then the guys wouldn't have been prompted to ask whether they are real in the first place?

[007]

I can spot a boob job easily too.

 

Majority of them look extremely obvious.

 

So far there has only been one woman who i could not tell she had a boobjob but it's mainly because she is a little overweight (aprox 15lbs-20lbs overweight) and she was originally an A-cup even when she was a little overweight and she got a C cup and her breasts look extremely natural.

[Star Gazer]

Sorry, just curious, if it was that good, then the guys wouldn't have been prompted to ask whether they are real in the first place?

 

When they encounter an absolutely perfect, amazing pair of breasts with absolutely no signs of augmentation, they are confused. "They're too good to be true!"

 

The two guys who asked asked WELL into our relationship, and were nervous about asking because they didn't want to imply they thought I had been augmented if I hadn't been.

 

They were particularly confused because when I'm on my back, they fall to the side, which guys on the Internet try to claim fake boobs never do.

[Babolat]

90% of women are wearing the wrong bra size, at least in North America. I know, because I fit bras for a very long time. Most women thinking they wear a 36C should be wearing a 32F. Girls that think they are a 34B are actually a 30D. The best was when women would come in for a fitting and think they were a 42DD and they were actually a 36H. The list goes on.

 

I wear a G cup- a 30G. By the sound of that size you'd think I have massive boobs- but the G cup is only relevant to my 30 back size.

 

In North America, mainstream bra stores lack proper sizing. I find it hilarious to hear stories of people saying they got a boob job and went from a 34B to a 36DD. That's impossible, unless their back also grew 4 inches in the process.

 

A cup size is only relevant to the back size it is paired with. A woman that is a true 36C, and a woman that is a true 32C will not have the same breast size.

 

I can spot a boob job immediately. I don't think it's a deal breaker for a lot of men.

 

In North America, commercial stores fit bras like a nylon sizing chart- and it's always way off. Women don't have the option of being properly fit, so they settle for wearing the next best thing.

 

You are spot on here. I have heard other women talk about this.

 

G cup- a 30G? Are you single, and available?!

 

Man, looking at my last 48 hours of posts is telling a story...I AM hungry!

[Babolat]

They were particularly confused because when I'm on my back, they fall to the side, which guys on the Internet try to claim fake boobs never do.

 

This one confused me with the ex gf...they looked and felt incredible with her on her back. Hell, her side, on her stomach, standing, walking, talking.......

[Star Gazer]

So far there has only been one woman who i could not tell she had a boobjob but it's mainly because she is a little overweight (aprox 15lbs-20lbs overweight) and she was originally an A-cup even when she was a little overweight and she got a C cup and her breasts look extremely natural.

 

I am carrying about 8-10 extra pounds right now that comes and goes. Even when I'm not, I'm an apple shape and carry all of my weight in my midsection area, and do think that helps, as there is a good amount of natural breast tissue there. Even still, I was very thin and a natural B when augmented, a DD now.

 

I think most men associate boob jobs with the porn star-look, which are disproportionately large implants OVER the muscle on thin women. Most women don't look like that to begin with, making their results much more natural.

[paperboy48]

You've had enough feedback here and in your previous thread. You're starting to get obsessed about this breast implant thing.

You know they are fake without even asking, what else you want to do?

 

I think if yo get to an exclsuice point in a relationship, things like this should be discussed and disclosed.

[MidwestUSA]

Wow there sure seem to be a lot of boob job experts on LS.

Yea, and I'm really getting the urge to show n tell! (But only if Gorilla Theater signs a waiver and can prove his pacemaker battery is fresh)

[thefooloftheyear]

Yea, and I'm really getting the urge to show n tell! (But only if Gorilla Theater signs a waiver and can prove his pacemaker battery is fresh)

 

 

Dont tease!!!

 

TFY

[Babolat]

There is also fat transplants.QUOTE]

 

 

My ex gf said this would be her next step when needed. Never heard of it before her.

[ChessPieceFace]

What about saline?

 

I don't know, I guess it depends what the covering material is made out of. Seems a lot healthier though.

[MidwestUSA]

I don't know, I guess it depends what the covering material is made out of. Seems a lot healthier though.

 

The advantage to saline is that boobs of unequal sizes can be evened out. Silicone is prefilled, therefore the size you choose is what you get. With saline, the implants go in first, then are filled. Disadvantage: less natural feeling. Regardless of outer shell, the likelihood of leaks with either is minimal. As with anything, a lot of thought and research should go into it. I was absolutely enraged by seeing 17 year olds coming in for boob jobs, with their parents' blessings, when I was doing plastic surgery.

 

 

Funny story tho came to mind. A few years back, a man here in town sued a fairly famous local figure known for her 'impressive' saline implants. His claim was that she got in his face and boob-smacked him, breaking his nose. Yea, those giant balloons are the ones that influence men's opinions of boob jobs most!

[Babolat]

The advantage to saline is that boobs of unequal sizes can be evened out. Silicone is prefilled, therefore the size you choose is what you get. With saline, the implants go in first, then are filled. Disadvantage: less natural feeling. Regardless of outer shell, the likelihood of leaks with either is minimal. As with anything, a lot of thought and research should go into it. I was absolutely enraged by seeing 17 year olds coming in for boob jobs, with their parents' blessings, when I was doing plastic surgery.

 

 

Funny story tho came to mind. A few years back, a man here in town sued a fairly famous local figure known for her 'impressive' saline implants. His claim was that she got in his face and boob-smacked him, breaking his nose. Yea, those giant balloons are the ones that influence men's opinions of boob jobs most!

 

Ahhh, light goes off..ex gf was a DD on one side and an F on the other, silocone. Now it makes sense.

[GorillaTheater]

Yea, and I'm really getting the urge to show n tell! (But only if Gorilla Theater signs a waiver and can prove his pacemaker battery is fresh)

 

I've always been a risk-taker, so you're on.

[The Way I Am]

I don't like fake boobs, so I'd appreciate the girl telling me early on to save both our time.

 

It's not that hard to tell fakies from real ones anyway and I've never been attracted to the personality type that normally accompanies fakies.

 

If it's not hard to spot them, why do you need the girl to tell you?

 

About the "personality type that normally accompanies fakies". Funniest conversation I've ever had was with a guy friend who was talking about another girl who got implants and was acting all skanky about them. He didn't know I have implants and started making blanket statements about women who get them. I disagreed with him. He asked me if I would ever consider them. When I said I would, he told me he didn't believe me, because I don't have the personality type to get them. I almost wanted to let him know how wrong he was, but I resisted, because my boobs aren't any of his business.

 

As to the original question. I don't feel any need to tell. I've had 3 boyfriends since getting them. None asked if I had implants. With 2 the topic came up about plastic surgery or surgeries in general. In one case, we were talking about face lifts, and my bf asked if I'd ever consider any type of plastic surgery. We'd been dating a couple months and he seemed pretty surprised when I told him I already had implants. With my current boyfriend, he wasn't totally surprised when I told him, but that's because when we started dating they were not as soft as normal because they had a bit of capsular contracture starting. Since, I've been more thorough with massaging properly so they stay soft. With the 3rd bf, we dated for 8 months or so but it never came up.

 

In general, I'm not going to bring it up, but if the topic comes up, I'm not going to lie. I don't consider it a big deal. If it is a deal breaker for a guy, he needs to grow a pair and just ask.

Edited August 14, 2013 by The Way I Am

[runningfar]

Yeah I caught that "personality" comment, too. I have so many girlfriends with falsies. One of my best friends is a mom of 3 who homeschools and runs marathons. Happily married for 15 years.!

 

Oh my goodness, I know a woman like this. I do not know her breast status. But not if she's in DC like you; I don't suppose shy lives in Louisiana?

[Babolat]

Yeah I caught that "personality" comment, too. I have so many girlfriends with falsies. One of my best friends is a mom of 3 who homeschools and runs marathons. Happily married for 15 years.

 

Another gf of mine is pretty conservative, married and has a 2 year old. She got hers when she was pretty young, however. They still look great.

 

I can really only think of one gf who has them and makes sure the world knows. She's pretty hot, and a Redskins cheerleader. I guess this is the "personality" that most men assume are the type who get them done.

 

Sorry men but I'm betting if you were to meet the majority of my girlfriends who have them you would just think, "Yeah she's got a cute figure."

 

We don't all get huge Pamela Anderson tits!

 

One of my buddies will only date girls with implants, or as he puts it "$5000 will take care of that" if he meets someone he wants to daye who does not have them. A couple of his exes loved to show them, and I did my best to not look when they did, but sometimes I was too late or too soon in covering my eyes/looking away. It felt like I was ooking at my sister, and it bothered me.

 

This was my issue with implants until I met my last gf. The personality associated with them.

 

She does not "show" hers as far as lifting her shirt up or flashing. She looks to wear form fitting clothes and show cleavage though.

 

I do believe she got them because of needing more attention/validation from men, at least that was one reason. She told me the first time was because of her pregnancy and how they got smaller afterwords. The 2nd time, to go bigger, was because her fiance at the time paid for them. She told me this after earlier telling me she would never get implants for a man...I think she forgot she told me that as i was like "Really" when she said the 2nd set was because he wanted them and paid for them.

 

I say to this day, the irony is, he created his perfect little barbie doll..got her the 2nd set of bigger boobs. Then guess what? He cheated on her!

[Star Gazer]

I've had mine for 8 years without any problems from Day 1 (knock on wood!).

100% single here too when I got mine. I just didn't like the shape of my boobs and wanted them filled out more, as full breasts are sexier and more womanly TO ME. I'm a successful attorney/prosecutor, heavily involved in charity work with children, run marathons. There isn't some sort of "personality type" of women who augment themselves.

[Sunshine87]

Interesting comments. It appears that people sometimes want what they don't have. I am naturally busty but I don't have HUGE, GINOMOUS breasts. While I love the size of my bust because of the way they fill in my clothes and the extra surge of confidence/sexiness they exude, I sometimes worry because they are not perky.

 

For example, women with small boobs can wear dinner dresses without wearing a bra. I can't. Women with small boobs don't have problems with the fitting of clothes. Often times, blouses or some dresses are too tight at the bust area, because I have a small frame (I.e I am petite) and most of the clothes for bigger busted women are created with the assumption that big busted women are always bigger framed.

 

When I wear strapless things, I need to get a VERY firm bra.

Edited August 14, 2013 by Sunshine87

[Babolat]

Interesting comments. It appears that people sometimes want what they don't have. I am naturally busty but I don't have HUGE, GINOMOUS breasts. While I love the size of my bust because of the way they fill in my clothes and the extra surge of confidence/sexiness they exude, I sometimes worry because they are not perky.

 

For example, women with small boobs can wear dinner dresses without wearing a bra. I can't. Women with small boobs don't have problems with the fitting of clothes. Often times, blouses or some dresses are too tight at the bust area, because I have a small frame (I.e I am petite) and most of the clothes for bigger busted women are created with the assumption that big busted women are always bigger framed.

 

When I wear strapless things, I need to get a VERY firm bra.

 

Petite, busty, gives great advise, speaks intelligently...I am still listening and curious...go on.....

 

Next you will tell me you have a bf, yet you can't stop thinking about sex with me!