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Hey, what do implants feel like? I reckon they dont have the ''natural sag'' but are they soft?

 

Mine absolutely have the natural sag! They're not bolt-ons. ;) They are soft because I had a good amount of natural breast tissue to begin with, and they're placed under the muscle. I've never felt or seen the bag. They're just heavier than natural breasts.

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I'm laughing a bit to myself at the dudes who claim that there's no mistaking an implant when clearly, as pointed out by myself and the other ladies that, there IS with a great job.

 

Shall we offer them a group feelie?

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Mine absolutely have the natural sag! They're not bolt-ons. ;) They are soft because I had a good amount of natural breast tissue to begin with, and they're placed under the muscle. I've never felt or seen the bag. They're just heavier than natural breasts.

 

I'm laughing a bit to myself at the dudes who claim that there's no mistaking an implant when clearly, as pointed out by myself and the other ladies that, there IS with a great job.

 

I think I speak for the majority of men when I say that we'd be very happy to so much as see your boobs, let alone have the opportunity to poke them to see what they're made of.

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Here is a question....

 

Even though I do work out a ton, Im blessed with really big and impressive looking arms.

 

If I could just "buy" them, no way in hell would I be "happy" about that feature of my body..Its like "cheating" in some way(for me)..

 

That being said, is it tainted in any way that you had to "buy" the tits you wanted rather than just be blessed with them naturally?

 

Im not judging, btw, I am fine with it and like the way they look, just wondering...

 

TFY

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I have breast implants and I never tell a guy I have them. Most guys probably assume I have them. They are not super huge. Mine are soft and look and feel real...trust me. I've gotten compliments on how nice my boobs look for 40. I had a lift a few years ago. I do have some light scarring that you really can only see in the light. I had no internal scarring at all or the capsular contraction (internal scar lumps) that many women get. I had them my first boob job in my 20's. Had them re done after the birth of my kids. Silicone this time around. By far a much better job than the first.

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All boobs sag there is not much I can do to fight gravity but if I can get 10 more years or so out of my nice titties before they go way south, I'll take it.

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Believe it or not, there is stem cell research going on in Switzerland to help women grow bigger boobs naturally (not sure what the medical basis is)...

 

There is also fat transplants.

 

Check this out. No implants involved. These look pretty awesome. Natural Breast Augmentation & Enhancement with Fat Transfer - Miami FL

 

My sis and best from HS have implants and they seem to do all the things natural boobs are known for... and their SOs seem pretty happy with them.

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I'm laughing a bit to myself at the dudes who claim that there's no mistaking an implant when clearly, as pointed out by myself and the other ladies that, there IS with a great job.

 

I am laughing too...read the post I referenced in my from months ago...I really did not know. And when I knew, I did not care, I loved them!

 

To this day when I see her I just stare at her cleavage and love them!

 

That said, I have been with A cup woman and loved them just as much.

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Man I'm sorry but I think you came in contact with a really bad boob job. Mine dont ripple or slosh or look scarred at all. I look like ME, just bigger.

 

Nor did my ex gfs

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I enjoy copping a feel of myself. "Damn, I love these." (Said Star and every man who has ever felt them.)

 

My ex touched hers all the time...especially during sex, which I LOVED. Time to text her!

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They dont make noise:laugh:

 

Although I could pass a feel test blindfolded, unless the woman was 350 lbs...You can tell...

 

Here is another question...If you are a self confident person, why do it?

 

Im not referring to any of the posters here...My cousin Anthony is married to a stunner..She is a knockout in every respect, even after 3 kids...They are madly in love and are even religious..She gets a boob job and now at every function she is wearing skin tight shirts with mad cleavage..She already was the focus of any room now she has every swing dick with his tongue out every time she enters the room..

 

Why do it ??? Low self esteem? Attention whore?

 

I just dont get that part of it...Sure, if you have a "orange in a wet sock" going on, well, I suppose that would be a reason, but if you have a high self esteem and arent a total mess, why?

 

Again, please understand I have no issue with it...

 

TFY

 

Slightly related, my ex gf is gorgeous, tall blued eyed blonde head turner. She once told me she has always struggled with her looks and the attention she gets. I thought to myself "then why did you get implants, twice?"

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I don't need them, but if I got them I don't think it would even occur to me it was something that needs told unless they asked, and then I'd answer. Not a big deal.

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Slightly related, my ex gf is gorgeous, tall blued eyed blonde head turner. She once told me she has always struggled with her looks and the attention she gets. I thought to myself "then why did you get implants, twice?" She claims she always wore long pants and sweaters until about 6-7 years ago, which is about when I think she got them. She claims she is more comfortable with showing her body now. I always thought it was the breast implants and the attention she gets.

 

During our relationship and when I have seen her since it's tight t-shirts, halter tops, low cut dresses, tight fitting sweaters and rarely wore/wears a bra. Once while getting ready to go out to a club she put a very low cut string top dress on. She asked me how she looked, I said "OK if you want every man to look at your breasts" she replied "Men will always look at my breasts no matter what I wear". I thought "Only if you want them to". In her case I DO think she needed the attention, which is another story.

 

To the other implant posters on here who do NOT do this, kudos to you, that is very attractive

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I have small boobs (34b) and have been, at times, insecure about that. Kind of because boob jobs are INCREDIBLY common. Most slim women with large breasts, that I've met, have boob jobs. I could never go through with it. I would feel weird about having something put inside of me for purely aesthetic reasons, it's different then make up or cute clothes because it's a) expensive and b) painful. Honestly it kind of makes me sad how prevelant boob jobs are, like why is a 22 year old girl getting a boob job? Why is the a-cup or b-cup so awful that you need to "upgrade" to a d? tbh I've also never met a guy who thinks a slim girl with big boobs has natural ones....most also would NEVER be so uncouth as to tell her that. End of the day, boob jobs are very common. Personally, I think it's a sad trend. As much as many women preach self acceptance, a surgery to enhance a part of your natural body is far from that :(

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I have small boobs (34b) and have been, at times, insecure about that. :(

 

34B is small?

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I have small boobs (34b) and have been, at times, insecure about that. Kind of because boob jobs are INCREDIBLY common. Most slim women with large breasts, that I've met, have boob jobs. I could never go through with it. I would feel weird about having something put inside of me for purely aesthetic reasons, it's different then make up or cute clothes because it's a) expensive and b) painful. Honestly it kind of makes me sad how prevelant boob jobs are, like why is a 22 year old girl getting a boob job? Why is the a-cup or b-cup so awful that you need to "upgrade" to a d? tbh I've also never met a guy who thinks a slim girl with big boobs has natural ones....most also would NEVER be so uncouth as to tell her that. End of the day, boob jobs are very common. Personally, I think it's a sad trend. As much as many women preach self acceptance, a surgery to enhance a part of your natural body is far from that :(

 

 

I like your thinking.....A LOT...Good for you!

 

Around here, fake tits on a woman are about as common as feet..:rolleyes:...Kids are getting them for HS graduation presents..YES, I AM SERIOUS!

 

Dont change..

 

TFY

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I have small boobs (34b)

 

34B is not small. Small breast are attractive too. Proportion is sexy!

 

The girl I have hung out who has a bf has small breasts. I have not seen them of course, she tells me they are, and they do appear to be small. She tells me men love big breasts. I try to tell her it's not all about breasts. I think she found my FB page and saw me with my ex, and she tells me she pictures me with a tall busty blonde.

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34B is not small. Small breast are attractive too. Proportion is sexy!

 

The girl I have hung out who has a bf has small breasts. I have not seen them of course, she tells me they are, and they do appear to be small. She tells me men love big breasts. I try to tell her it's not all about breasts. I think she found my FB page and saw me with my ex, and she tells me she pictures me with a tall busty blonde.

34B is not small. I am a good B/borderline C with the girls. Not everyone who gets them goes overboard. The generalizations being made here are definitely based on the 1200cc over the muscle saline jobs. :eek:

 

Lo and behold, my husband is a leg man!

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Probably just seen a lot of bad 80's porn.

 

Drsuessgrrl...forget the breasts...those eyes...wow...melting me!

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34B is small?

 

I'm a small b. I could probably fit into an A or a B cup tbh. Yes, that is small compared to the average, which I believe is a 36C? Maybe i'm wrong on my size (don't they say most women wear incorrect bra sizes?) I'm a small palm-full. I fill my hand, when my bf cups me his fingers go a bit past. ANYWAY my exact cup size was NOT the point of my post but thanks for the many of you who latched onto that :rolleyes: I do NOT have big boobs and my point was that big boobs are very common because of boob jobs. Boob jobs aren't a rare thing, at all. It honestly makes me a little sad that a large chest is basically what is expected of women today. That is the product of boob jobs. And...I'm probably OT now :) so I'll make my way to the door :D

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I don't have breast implants, in fact I want a reduction, but if I did, I wouldn't want it to be so obvious that a man would ask me about them. :confused:

 

If I had them, it wouldn't be some announcement I'd make. I'd maybe bring it up after we've already had sex and I'm comfortable with him, but I can't imagine it would be something one MUST disclose. It would be more like a "fun fact."

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90% of women are wearing the wrong bra size, at least in North America. I know, because I fit bras for a very long time. Most women thinking they wear a 36C should be wearing a 32F. Girls that think they are a 34B are actually a 30D. The best was when women would come in for a fitting and think they were a 42DD and they were actually a 36H. The list goes on.

 

I wear a G cup- a 30G. By the sound of that size you'd think I have massive boobs- but the G cup is only relevant to my 30 back size.

 

In North America, mainstream bra stores lack proper sizing. I find it hilarious to hear stories of people saying they got a boob job and went from a 34B to a 36DD. That's impossible, unless their back also grew 4 inches in the process.:lmao:

 

A cup size is only relevant to the back size it is paired with. A woman that is a true 36C, and a woman that is a true 32C will not have the same breast size.

 

I can spot a boob job immediately. I don't think it's a deal breaker for a lot of men.

 

In North America, commercial stores fit bras like a nylon sizing chart- and it's always way off. Women don't have the option of being properly fit, so they settle for wearing the next best thing.

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