Breasts

[notsoleet]

Wow, and here I am thinking I wish I could be that skinny. I'm sure you look great with small boobs because they're in proportion to the rest of you. Slender women have small boobs, that's just the way it is. Boobs don't have to be big to be sexy. At least yours will never sag!

 

 

 

No, she's not a man. I'm sure she was exaggerating when she said flat as a pancake. Otherwise she wouldn't be wearing a bra at all.

 

For a frame of reference, this is Amanda Schull. She's a ballet dancer who's 5'5" and 110 pounds. I understand that different women have different body types, even if they're the same height and weight, so I'm not saying she's the same as the OP boob-wise. But even as thin as she is, she still has boobs:

 

http://collider.com/wp-content/uploads/Amanda-Schull-image-2.jpg

http://www.listal.com/viewimage/1029305

 

Yeah, my body is very similar to hers. Actually, a lot of people think I'm a ballet dancer.

 

I realize everyone has preferences. I, for example, tend to be attracted to tall and thin men.

 

I've had no problems in the dating scene, but I tend to be attracted to thin men who are probably into girls even thinner than them. It would just feel nice to feel more feminine sometimes. Also, I can't wear some dresses, etc. without feeling self conscious. Most of the time I just wear baggier clothes to give the impression that I have bigger breasts.

Edited October 29, 2011 by notsoleet

[notsoleet]

You said you already tried using hormonal birth control... mind if I ask if you tried Yaz or Yasmin? I tried many over the years trying to find one that didn't do bad things to my hormones, and those have a different progestin than any I'd tried before. I've always been blessed/cursed with the opposite problem, but that is the *only* one that I ever noticed an increase on. The progestin is also a potassium-sparing diuretic, so I'd recommend getting an electrolyte panel done as part of a routine physical before even considering it, and again if you start having any problems related to taking it. I didn't have problems with my potassium levels on it, but some women have, and knowing your baseline levels would be good if you did have problems.

 

But hormones aren't natural.

 

My older sister was shorter than you but about your same BMI in high school, and an A cup. I never saw her without a bevy of men around her, or lack a date when she wanted one, and she has brains to go with it too. When she got married for the second time in her mid-20s she was able to fit into the same wedding dress she wore when she was 18 (first time didn't stick, but wasn't her fault), so she wore it. She's been happily married ever since. She never had any complaints.

 

No, I haven't. I've tried lower dosage birth control. (By the way, I didn't get on birth control just for breast size, but predominantly for contraceptive reasons.) I'll ask my doctor about those.

[notsoleet]

How often do you hear about men getting height extensions?

 

If they were anywhere as simple and expensive as breast implants, no man in Hollywood would be under 6'. I would have had it performed on me years ago. You have no idea how much I wish I were taller.

 

I never said that I would require a woman to be at least a C. Though it is a strong preference. I would not turn down a woman for being small chested. Although I'd probably try to convince her to get implants then. Yes, I expect that comment to garner some hate.

 

The fact of the matter is, breast size is more easily changed than height. I don't even know if it would be possible to make me 5'10. Unless I get chosen for the Super Soldier program

 

Also, male height means a lot more to women than breast size does to men. As said many times in this thread, there are men out there who prefer smaller breasts or don't care about them at all. Rare is the woman who prefers shorter guys or simply doesn't care about height.

 

BTW, it's not like the OP hasn't dated at all. Which I haven't. So I have a right to be angry and bitter, thank you very much.

 

Damn it. Now I'm going to have a hard time falling asleep. It's impossible to sleep when I'm pissed

 

Personality matters far, far more for a relationship. A sense of humor is a must for me. I may prefer tall and thin men, but I have seriously dated/been in love with guys below average height and who were not exactly my "thin" ideal body type. You should reexamine how your project your bitterness on others. People want to associate with those they enjoy being with and who make them laugh. Trust me when I say your height (I don't even know your height) isn't the thing holding you back. It's probably how you project your own insecurities onto others. If people aren't happy around you, they won't want to be around you.

 

Also, I'm perplexed as to why you would tell your future girlfriend to get surgery. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who tells them to change their body for them. You accept someone's flaws when you enter into a relationship. You love them for who they are, or else why even date them in the first place. Never ever bring up their physical flaws, especially ones that they are insecure about. A relationship is supposed to make you feel good. If not, why even date that person?

 

If it's any consolation, I used to post on a sports message board predominantly inhabited by men (I'm a sports fanatic), and I once read on there a post from a guy that was a real ladies' man, that he loved all breasts, big and small, as long as there was more than just nipples, and most men agreed with him. One said something similar to the post quoted above, that as long as there is a handful, anything more is just a waste. Most men agreed with that. There were a couple who preferred bigger breasts, but most agreed that all breasts are beautiful and they are attracted to all sizes, so I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you. I'm sure you have other attractive qualities as well, or your bf wouldn't be attracted to you. However, if you're absolutely sure you want to increase your size, you may want to consider two things instead before going down that implant road. Breasts are made up of mostly fat, with some muscle and some breast tissue. The difference you see in the size of women, assuming they haven't gotten implants, is the amount of fat they have there. If you increase your body fat and eat more, you will most likely increase your breast size somewhat as well. When you see women who have more body fat, they also have bigger breasts. When they lose weight, they also lose breast size. It's rare to find a slender woman who has bigger than a B cup. Those that are slender and larger than a B are likely those who had implants. So you may want to increase your calorie intake if you are underweight. You may also want to consider doing some exercises to increase the muscle size. Implants should be the last resort, since there are often health consequences for those, they need to be replaced after a while, they sometimes harden, leak and become displaced or rupture, and most men prefer real breasts, rather than fake ones. So I would suggest going the natural route and not be too quick to resort to implants.

I do think I need to exercise, but mainly because I think I'm really out of shape even though I'm thin. Although I have thought about implants (maybe to a B), I haven't seriously considered it because I'm not that wrapped up about my breast size. I also make jokes about them IRL, so I'm comfortable enough about them in that respect. It's just, when I'm intimate with someone, I oftentimes don't even want them to touch my chest because I'm self-conscious. Edited October 29, 2011 by notsoleet

[Art_Critic]

*sigh*

 

Boobs.....ahhhhhhh..

 

 

To the OP... have a kid .. my wife's grew a whole cup size...... boobs...life is good...

[notsoleet]

*sigh*

 

Boobs.....ahhhhhhh..

 

 

To the OP... have a kid .. my wife's grew a whole cup size...... boobs...life is good...

 

Not sure I want to touch kids with a 10-foot pole.

 

But you are right. My mom was as thin as me at my age. After she had me in her 30s, I think she gained 2 cup sizes.

[Art_Critic]

But you are right. My mom was as thin as me at my age. After she had me in her 30s, I think she gained 2 cup sizes.

 

Like Mother Like Daughter...

 

So.. maybe you should just sit back and let life happen and no worry about it...

 

 

I was thin as a rail when I was younger .. 114 lbs just out of HS..

I wished at the time I could be heavier like everybody else... but life happened instead.

 

My Dad was thin when he was younger and got heavier as he aged..

I weigh about 150lbs now 30 years later....

 

Thank goodness I didn't do something drastic and put on weight when I was younger...

 

Just some food for thought..

 

 

As far as men finding you sexy.. they will and I'm sure do.. smaller boobs and all...

Boobs are Boobs to men.

 

Good Luck

[alphamale]

once i went over to my neighbours who had very large breasts and asked her if she could spare a cup size. then i laughed and corrected myself and asked for a cup of sugar....

[Art_Critic]

once i went over to my neighbours who had very large breasts and asked her if she could spare a cup size. then i laughed and corrected myself and asked for a cup of sugar....

 

At least you didn't ask for 2 eggs sunny side up

[somedude81]

Personality matters far, far more for a relationship. A sense of humor is a must for me. I may prefer tall and thin men, but I have seriously dated/been in love with guys below average height and who were not exactly my "thin" ideal body type. You should reexamine how your project your bitterness on others. People want to associate with those they enjoy being with and who make them laugh. Trust me when I say your height (I don't even know your height) isn't the thing holding you back. It's probably how you project your own insecurities onto others. If people aren't happy around you, they won't want to be around you.

I'm not bitter at all in person. Online is the only place I let myself go.

 

In person I'm a really nice guy with a decent sense of humor.

 

As for my height, I'm white and 5'6.

 

I've never been in a relationship and been turned down by every girl I've ever liked for reasons I have no idea why. That's why I'm bitter. And I wasn't always this way. One needs a reason to become angry.

 

 

Also, I'm perplexed as to why you would tell your future girlfriend to get surgery. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who tells them to change their body for them. You accept someone's flaws when you enter into a relationship. You love them for who they are, or else why even date them in the first place. Never ever bring up their physical flaws, especially ones that they are insecure about. A relationship is supposed to make you feel good. If not, why even date that person?

Why would I date a woman with small breasts even though it's not my ideal?

 

For the same reason that you dated shorter than average men who were not your ideal.

 

But the problem is, every time I'd look at her, I'd be wishing she had larger breasts and that's just not fair for her. How would she feel if she caught me looking at porn that featured large breasted women? In the end, all I can do is hope that the woman I get together with is buxom, so I can be happy with who she is.

 

BTW, I've had this fascination with large breasts since I was 12, maybe younger. And I'm 30 now. It's always been a part of me.

[alphamale]

As for my height, I'm white and 5'6.

what's the length of your penis? give or take a quarter inch

[somedude81]

That's a random question.

 

Why do you ask?

[alphamale]

That's a random question.

 

Why do you ask?

because, in general (but not always) the larger the penis the larger the gf's breasts

[somedude81]

because, in general (but not always) the larger the penis the larger the gf's breasts

ROFL!

 

And how the hell do we get matched up?

 

Many men and women gather in a room and get naked? The men get hard and they are partnered with a woman ranked by breast size?

 

As for my size, I posted that data in a thread in Sexual & Reproductive Health and Practices.

[123321]

I'm guessing there isn't anything out there, but is there a natural way to make your breasts bigger? I am 5'5", 110 pounds and have always been naturally skinny. I have thin bones and my BMI has fluctuated between 18 and 18.5 my entire life.

 

That said, I am as flat as a pancake.

 

Mmmmm pancakes.

 

Just play to your strengths, make sure you are physically fit and you will have that athlete thing going for you. Just don't be thin AND flabby, and you will be hot. Also, girls who are going that route - pretty face is a big deal, it's a bigger plus if you're pretty and a bigger minus if you're not but that's mostly luck, nothing you can really work on.

[Els]

It's interesting how many women are taking issue with my words in this thread.

 

My view on breasts should have been obvious with the women I've named in this thread.

 

I have a fetish for large breasts. That's just the way it is. It's nothing that anybody should be offended over.

 

Somedude, as I have repeatedly said, it's not so much your preference for large breasts, as the fact that you immediately suggested to the OP to have surgery and would do so to a gf. I don't think you would be happy with a gf who keeps suggesting to you to get height extensions/go on steroids to increase your muscles/etc. And you have stated that you wished women cared about the superficial less and loved you for who you are.

 

Well, my experience is that people who do get loved for who they are, are usually the people who love others for who they are. That is not to say that they cannot have preferences, but 'having preferences', and 'trying to convince a girl whom you are not even married to to have permanent major surgery done to her body to satisfy your preferences' are two pretty different things.

 

At any rate, I think you're entitled to your preferences, but I do wish you would not suggest breast implants like you would a trip to the gym or a walk in the park, and I can certainly assure you that if or when you do get your first LTR with a girl who appreciates you for who you are, it is going to crash and burn when you keep 'trying to convince her to get implants', and you'll be back where you started.

[somedude81]

Somedude, as I have repeatedly said, it's not so much your preference for large breasts, as the fact that you immediately suggested to the OP to have surgery and would do so to a gf. I don't think you would be happy with a gf who keeps suggesting to you to get height extensions/go on steroids to increase your muscles/etc. And you have stated that you wished women cared about the superficial less and loved you for who you are.

As I have stated before, I would get height surgery if it was less expensive and far less complicated. Getting implants is nothing compared to the other.

 

Steroids are another matter. The side effects are too numerous and I don't think a woman would be happy living with them.

 

Either way, I do work out and have some muscle on me. I'm certainly much bigger than I'd be if I didn't work out.

 

Well, my experience is that people who do get loved for who they are, are usually the people who love others for who they are. That is not to say that they cannot have preferences, but 'having preferences', and 'trying to convince a girl whom you are not even married to to have permanent major surgery done to her body to satisfy your preferences' are two pretty different things.

 

At any rate, I think you're entitled to your preferences, but I do wish you would not suggest breast implants like you would a trip to the gym or a walk in the park, and I can certainly assure you that if or when you do get your first LTR with a girl who appreciates you for who you are, it is going to crash and burn when you keep 'trying to convince her to get implants', and you'll be back where you started.

Please read post number 59

 

BTW, if I ever do get together with the woman I'm always writing about. I'd be perfectly happy with her breasts. I don't know how big she is, but she's definitely enough.

Edited October 29, 2011 by somedude81

[chrissylee]

I have always been a butt man but my GF has 36D's and I must say I really, really like them.:bunny:

 

Having small breasts doesn't make you less of a woman though. Men love them (no matter the shape or size).

 

 

I gotta disagree. I have small boobs and I always feel like an inadequate piece of crap whenever I am by some chick with big boobs. Big boobs are better in most cases. I plan to get breast implants one day when I have money, but for now I guess there is nothing I can do.

[Els]

Your post encapsulates the true meaning of my first question, you just did not see it.

 

It's not about height extensions being more expensive or more complicated than implants, or about steroids having more side effects (implants do too, btw). It's about the fact that you know, based on her convincing, that she:

 

1. Wishes you were taller or more ripped than you are

2. Wants you to change your body in a huge way for her

 

How would that make you feel?

[somedude81]

Since I'm tired of repeating myself. Maybe I wasn't clear enough?

 

If height or my muscle mass was really that important to a girl and she would constantly think about it in a negative way because she feels that strongly about it. Then she shouldn't date me.

[notsoleet]

I'm not bitter at all in person. Online is the only place I let myself go.

 

In person I'm a really nice guy with a decent sense of humor.

 

As for my height, I'm white and 5'6.

 

I've never been in a relationship and been turned down by every girl I've ever liked for reasons I have no idea why. That's why I'm bitter. And I wasn't always this way. One needs a reason to become angry.

 

It's your personality. I've turned down "objectively" more attractive men and gone out with comparatively less "objectively" attractive men based on personality and charm.

 

Why would I date a woman with small breasts even though it's not my ideal?

 

For the same reason that you dated shorter than average men who were not your ideal.

 

But the problem is, every time I'd look at her, I'd be wishing she had larger breasts and that's just not fair for her. How would she feel if she caught me looking at porn that featured large breasted women? In the end, all I can do is hope that the woman I get together with is buxom, so I can be happy with who she is.

Just because I prefer tall and thin men doesn't mean that I want to change people I have dated. (I have dated guys ranging from 5'8" to 6'4".) Nor would I ever tell them I wish they were taller or ask them to diet to be my thin ideal. I never sat there and thought "I wish you were as tall as someone else I dated." That's just weird. Edited October 29, 2011 by notsoleet

[somedude81]

It's your personality. I've turned down "objectively" physically more attractive men and gone out with less objectively attractive men based on personality and charm.

My personality is fine. I make friends with girls no problem. Though I don't know how charm works.

 

 

Just because I prefer tall and thin men doesn't mean that I want to change people I have dated. (I have dated guys ranging from 5'8" to 6'4".) Nor would I ever tell them I wish they were taller or ask them to diet to be my thin ideal.

Wonderful. You've dated men ranging from average to tall. Excuse me while I hold my applause.

[alphamale]

My personality is fine. I make friends with girls no problem.

dude, you don't get to suck on a set of 38Ds by becoming "friends" with chicks....

[somedude81]

dude, you don't get to suck on a set of 38Ds by becoming "friends" with chicks....

For a woman to have 38D's, she must be about 8 feet all. Or really, really fat.

 

And of course I know I don't get sh*t from being friends with women.

 

But that at least shows that my personality isn't that screwed up if I'm able to make friends.

[notsoleet]

My personality is fine. I make friends with girls no problem. Though I don't know how charm works.

 

Right. Based on your posts, I totally believe you.

 

Wonderful. You've dated men ranging from average to tall. Excuse me while I hold my applause.

 

You sound like such a sweetheart. I can't imagine why girls have turned you down.

[somedude81]

Right. Based on your posts, I totally believe you.

 

 

 

You sound like such a sweetheart. I can't imagine why girls have turned you down.

Yes, I'm always this snarky in person....

 

You must be new to the internet to not know that people act differently when they are anonymous.