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Awww Gator u always seem to cheer me up :)

 

Don't u think I've blown it tho by what I just texted him yesterday? If I told him to leave me alone and that I hope I never see his face again then that's exactly what he will do, now he will disappear off the face of this earth. I'm afraid I've blown any future chance of reconcilliation

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Awww Gator u always seem to cheer me up :)

 

Don't u think I've blown it tho by what I just texted him yesterday? If I told him to leave me alone and that I hope I never see his face again then that's exactly what he will do, now he will disappear off the face of this earth. I'm afraid I've blown any future chance of reconcilliation

 

Totally missed that... looks like you're screwed... lol. No, I'm totally kidding.

 

No I don't think you did, something like that might set him back, but only if he's not fully committed to getting you back. If a guy really wants a girl back we will do anything to get her back, we almost phase out what they say, or justify it and say "ooo she was angry" etc. Real love will go through hell or high water.

 

But I don't have all of the answers, only time will tell, but I do have one fact I will give you. One guarantee. In the future you will be with a wonderful guy, who will appreciate you for who you are, and it will literally be the man of your dreams. How do I know this? Simple, you're a great girl, I can tell that just by reading your posts and any guy would be lucky to have you. And if your ex isn't a complete idiot he will realize he was one and will come running back.

 

Until then stay strong, don't bite any of his little crumbs and live your life.

 

-Gator

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Thankyou Gator, you are such a sweetheart.

 

I think it's time to put this thread to rest, thankyou everyone for all your help and advice, especially IfiKnewThen and Flow. It's time for me to move on with my life and try and forget the past as hard as it is. I have set myself some personal goals and want to achieve those first before I even think of another relationship.

 

I do not regret my time with him. I learnt more in the last year about myself than I have in my whole life time, and that is no understatement. So although I still feel incredibly hurt and upset by this breakup, I truly am grateful for the lessons I have learnt. I cannot love someone else until I learn to love myself first, and that is my number one goal right now.

 

You are all such beautiful ppl, and I wish everyone the best and true happiness :)

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That sounds wonderful shattered, I'm, glad you have taken so much from all of this. I wish you all of the best, the future is definitely bright for you.

 

Good Luck

-Gator

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shattered. i am sorry for everything youre going through. i wish i could have been more help :(

 

thank you for sharing your story. yours helps others out there too. for whatever its worth i still think you did all good things because you were yourself. you really didnt let him control you from the beginning. instead of just going merely n/c you did voice how you felt..tried to save your relationship. and you also have to be gentle yourself for texting him about what was said in the office. so many of us would have done the SAME thing. i hope he wakes some day..he seriously did lose a good thing..we all can tell. we all know no one is perfect...but you seem to love him a lot. this pain will pass for all of us someday. God bless you too and feel free to come back and post anytime. be well. hugs

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Thankyou Gator, you are such a sweetheart.

 

I think it's time to put this thread to rest, thankyou everyone for all your help and advice, especially IfiKnewThen and Flow. It's time for me to move on with my life and try and forget the past as hard as it is. I have set myself some personal goals and want to achieve those first before I even think of another relationship.

 

I do not regret my time with him. I learnt more in the last year about myself than I have in my whole life time, and that is no understatement. So although I still feel incredibly hurt and upset by this breakup, I truly am grateful for the lessons I have learnt. I cannot love someone else until I learn to love myself first, and that is my number one goal right now.

 

You are all such beautiful ppl, and I wish everyone the best and true happiness :)

 

Good luck shatter3d... I hope you get through the pain and hurt soon.

 

Thank you for your advice too :D Like ifiknewthen says, we did what we could to save the relationship, we loved them with all our hearts.. yet they still didnt want us. So it is now time to move on and forget about them, cos they don't even deserve our thoughts!!!

 

I hope you will meet someone who will treat u the way u deserve and love u the way u deserve, which im sure u will!!!

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