BB07 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 He did suffer for a while from ED with me too during the throws of guilt early on in our relationship. After that never a problem with me, but they continue with her. Seems to be more psychological than physical. Perhaps your mm is doing what I later found out mine was doing.........getting a little help from Viagra, not just with me but with the BS also. The Viagra prescription is what got him busted. Link to post Share on other sites
jennie-jennie Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 I'm confused, because in the past you have alluded to him not having sex with his wife due to his promise to be exclusive with you. Are you saying he does not have sex with her because of his promise to your or because he can't get it up for her? He has chosen himself to be sexually exclusive to me. We agreed on mutual exclusivity for as long as we want to. It's not a promise, it is an agreement. I don't believe in promises. This has not always been the case. It is only a year and a half since he became exclusive with me. And he didn't turn down her once-a-year pass at him this summer. Understand? Link to post Share on other sites
jennie-jennie Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 I find it pretty sad that his wife doesn't have a clue as to why he supposedly can't get it up. IF it's true.....then she probably wonders if there is something wrong with her as to why he no longer desires her. Obviously he must have had a pretty healthy appetite for her at one point in time since they had........what is it? 4 or 6 kids together? She lost her sex drive long before I came into the picture, so perhaps she is relieved? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 How sad that you are laughing at this couple's non-existent sex life. How sad that you are having sex with her husband. Link to post Share on other sites
jennie-jennie Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Perhaps your mm is doing what I later found out mine was doing.........getting a little help from Viagra, not just with me but with the BS also. The Viagra prescription is what got him busted. Well, you have said yourself your MM is a liar. Mine isn't. If he was taking Viagra, I would know. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 She lost her sex drive long before I came into the picture, so perhaps she is relieved? So he tells you.. You believe what you want to believe. Link to post Share on other sites
pureinheart Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 You know, you are really one to talk. I quoted you once and got a snarky a s s reply that was completely uncalled for. I would pull up the post but Tony must have agreed with me because it got deleted. I didn't even have to report it, which I was half tempted to do. Every time I see you going on about how others are mean, that people don't respect each other, it just makes me sick. Your hypocrisy is amazing. I think you should go back and re-read your Bible. I never claimed to be perfect...and FTR I feel the same about you...if you remember you quoted me and your reply was very uncalled for...I have to re-read my Bible all of the time. I will stick up for myself and will stand in there with other posters if they are being attacked, which I have seen you very much on the attacking end. BTW, it had to have been reported...what makes you think Tony has the time to read every thread:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 He has chosen himself to be sexually exclusive to me. We agreed on mutual exclusivity for as long as we want to. It's not a promise, it is an agreement. I don't believe in promises. This has not always been the case. It is only a year and a half since he became exclusive with me. And he didn't turn down her once-a-year pass at him this summer. Understand? You believe she hasn't made a pass at her own husband since the summer????? Not kissed him, not held his hand, not cuddled him in bed, given a massage, just had some intimacy? Again, swamp land... Link to post Share on other sites
BB07 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Well, you have said yourself your MM is a liar. Mine isn't. If he was taking Viagra, I would know. A year ago......I would have said mine wasn't a liar either, just goes to show how wrong I was uh. How would you know if he takes Viagra or not? I sure didn't have a clue. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 He has chosen himself to be sexually exclusive to me. We agreed on mutual exclusivity for as long as we want to. It's not a promise, it is an agreement. I don't believe in promises. This has not always been the case. It is only a year and a half since he became exclusive with me. And he didn't turn down her once-a-year pass at him this summer. Understand? So he was faithful to you until the first and only time she approached him for sex, at which point he disregarded your agreement and had sex with her (or attempted to) Link to post Share on other sites
pureinheart Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Thanks for your response, Pure. No problem JT:) Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 I can tell you it confirmed her belief that he suffers from erectile dysfunction, but there are other ways he could please her of course. But from what I remember, HE initiated sex with her. If he wants to be exclusive to you and suffers from ED when with her (which you have said elsewhere in this thread is the case & only with her) then why on earth would he initiate. If he doesn't want her and cannot perform with her then why bother? Oh hang on....... maybe he's lying about the ED...... Link to post Share on other sites
pureinheart Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 For the mostpart, isn't that all we have is a persons word? Anyone can deceive us at anytime....I feel like if I'm getting deceived/lied to, that's on them. Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 But from what I remember, HE initiated sex with her. If he wants to be exclusive to you and suffers from ED when with her (which you have said elsewhere in this thread is the case & only with her) then why on earth would he initiate. If he doesn't want her and cannot perform with her then why bother? Oh hang on....... maybe he's lying about the ED...... Too late to edit OK - she initiated. But even then why would he try of he doesn't want her and has ED? It just does not add up Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 And helping to deprive her of the joys of the MM MW relationship. And "once-a-year pass", I harldy think so. People believe what they want to believe, that is, until the 'truth' one day smacks them in the face and they wake up. Link to post Share on other sites
pureinheart Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 And helping to deprive her of the joys of the MM MW relationship. And "once-a-year pass", I harldy think so. After hearing Jennies story, it's hard for me to believe that his W isn't aware of something...she may not be into the M anymore either...some stay for convenience. Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 After hearing Jennies story, it's hard for me to believe that his W isn't aware of something...she may not be into the M anymore either...some stay for convenience. I agree - Unless what is really going on in the marital home is very different to what JJ has been told Link to post Share on other sites
BB07 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 People believe what they want to believe, that is, until the 'truth' one day smacks them in the face and they wake up. And that smack you get sometimes sends you reeling into what seems likes the depths of hell........this I know! Some would say I got what was coming to me and well maybe I did. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 After hearing Jennies story, it's hard for me to believe that his W isn't aware of something...she may not be into the M anymore either...some stay for convenience. Pure, his wife was suspicious and asked him if he was cheating on her. He said he wasn't and put her suspicions to rest by lying to her and telling her what she needed to hear so he could continue on with his affair with JJ. And for your second part, if that is the case, then why didn't he just come clean when she asked him? Maybe together they could have an open marriage? From what JJ has said, MM has a happy marriage with his wife, he does love her but isn't INLOVE with her anymore. Doesn't mean that he hates his wife, or that they have an awful marriage. JJ also has said he is happy in his marriage as well. Link to post Share on other sites
silktricks Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 He did suffer for a while from ED with me too during the throws of guilt early on in our relationship. After that never a problem with me, but they continue with her. Seems to be more psychological than physical. I'm confused. I thought you two live a long ways away from each other. How often do you get together? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 I'm confused. I thought you two live a long ways away from each other. How often do you get together? This is why I am having a really hard time understanding JJ's faith and trust in her MM and what he tells her. If the guy does take the magic pill at home with his wife, how would she know? Some things don't add up, but anyway.. Link to post Share on other sites
jennie-jennie Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 So he tells you.. You believe what you want to believe. Are you usually this distrustful? Do you question your husband all the time? Even after knowing him for years? Link to post Share on other sites
jennie-jennie Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 A year ago......I would have said mine wasn't a liar either, just goes to show how wrong I was uh. How would you know if he takes Viagra or not? I sure didn't have a clue. Really? I thought you caught him with a lie pretty early on the first time around. Link to post Share on other sites
jennie-jennie Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 I thought you said they were having sex before you came. This is getting ridiculous. I am done with discussing their sex life. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Are you usually this distrustful? Do you question your husband all the time? Even after knowing him for years? Nope. He's never cheated on me. JJ, you are having an affair with a MM and he LIES to his wife every single day. You say I'm distrustful, I am when it comes to what you say about your MM and your affair, that's all. All your eggs are in one basket and one day those eggs are going to break..When that day comes, I can promise you, MOST on here (if you choose to share) WILL support you, believe it or not. Your affair cannot last forever and one day there will be a D-Day. Anything can happen! Link to post Share on other sites
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