Woggle Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 My wife and I had a nice but simple wedding at my in law's place and had one hell of a honeymoon in Europe. That to me is the better way.
Ruby Slippers Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 My wife and I had a nice but simple wedding at my in law's place and had one hell of a honeymoon in Europe. That to me is the better way. Sounds great. The honeymoon is where I'd put all my energy -- I'd definitely wanna make that something to remember.
Woggle Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 We usually have our yearly vacations as well though we have skipped it this year. We are trying to get the money to start a business since my town is one of the few places the recession seems to have missed and neither one of us are very happy in our jobs.
callingyouuu Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 Would I get married? I don't see why not if the opportunity came up with the right person and at the right time. I understand the concerns about financial well-being post-hypothetical divorce. Prenups are a convenient workaround. Personally, though, if I'm not willing to trust someone with my assets, I should probably reconsider entrusting her with the rest of my life. Plus, I'm looking for someone with ambition, so there's a fair probability that she'll make more money than I will.
katerdony Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 The marriage will survive as long as there is a mutual understanding between the couples.
abeja_reina_1989 Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 A huge part of me says it's not worth it but the more in love I fall with my boyfriend, the more I want that full commitment. I personally don't think a piece of paper means anything but I love him so much and want to call him my husband. Boyfriend just seems so.... unofficial I guess; like we could break up any day. I dunno lol
SarahRose Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 Perhaps on average, but not so of 90% of my friends or women in my age group. My friends' husbands didn't want a pre-nup, wouldn't have helped them in the end. And until I took my very new job, which included a pay cut and a glass ceiling in terms of maxing out salary-wise, I'd have been hard pressed to find a guy who would have earned more than me. Yeah I don't know many average blokes that make more than I do. Some of my colleagues are pulling down about 1500 a day.
Woggle Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 whopee. that doesn't mean you make squat. some of my colleagues make millions and so make minimum wage. Me too. I know guys that could buy and sell pretty much anyone on here.
BeagleGal Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 I wish you would've told this to my ex when he married the OW he was cheating on me with, she got pregnant almost immediately after they hooked up and his own friends didnt even know she was pregnant till they got wedding invites, which in itself was a shock. Also, according to one of his friends, this new girl is "just a wallet to him". You don't get married if and only if you get someone pregnant. That is stupid. You get married after you have known the person enough to where you feel comfortable with them and you feel you know enough about them (the good and the bad) and you know for sure that you want to do it.
BeagleGal Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 That was me! I married at 22 and left him at the ripe old age of 25... Our D actually just went through last year only because for years he refused to one. I'm not against remarrying but because I've done it before, I know what its about and am in no hurry to do it again if and when the time comes. Yes, I absolutely want to some day... The problem is a lot of people get married too young in their life or too soon in their relationship.
WowReally Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 The 3 rings of marriage. The engagement ring The wedding ring. The suffering. LMAO - love it
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