Does breast size matter?

[alexlakeman]

Quality guys don't care. Personally, I would rather play with a real A cup than a fake D cup. I love boobs, but if I like a girl and think she's cute, small breasts certainly won't stop me from dating her!

 

I say accentuate other assets. Do you have a nice ass? You probably have a great tummy, too. It's not all about the tits, you know.

 

 

That's b/c you haven't had enough of C's or D's, lol.. Some guys will take anything.. Don't get me wrong, if it's not a long term potential, I'll still sleep with even with a or b's, lol... At that moment I am not too picky.. But when you go out they try to get dressed sexy, they just don't fill in their dresses or blouses sexy enough...

[LosingBattle]

That's b/c you haven't had enough of C's or D's, lol.. Some guys will take anything.. Don't get me wrong, if it's not a long term potential, I'll still sleep with even with a or b's, lol... At that moment I am not too picky.. But when you go out they try to get dressed sexy, they just don't fill in their dresses or blouses sexy enough...

 

see it's stuff like this that leaves me feeling like maybe I will always look asexual. Apparently, I can't ever be 'sexy' enough to fit a freakin' top!

 

Why the hell didn't I want to become a nun and not care about men? Would've been easier! No way to please you guys... =/

[Cracker Jack]

^What he said. A few men in a topic does not equal men in general.

 

I love big breasts, tho. Would it be a deciding factor for me? Hell naw. Not even close.

[USMCHokie]

Many people posted in the thread, yet you seem to focus almost only on the men who prefer larger breasts. Why not spend more time thinking about thre rest of the men out there?

 

Because people will often focus only on that which supports their position and more or less ignore that which differs from their position. In this case, OP only sees the opinions of men that prefer large breasts, because it supports her belief that all men like large breasts and small breasts are not sexy. If she realizes that there are men who would find her body extremely sexy and attractive, she would not be able to ride the woe-is-me train any longer...

[LosingBattle]

I just read the entire thread. Just about as many prefer small to large and half of us don't care one way or the other.

 

Many people posted in the thread, yet you seem to focus almost only on the men who prefer larger breasts. Why not spend more time thinking about thre rest of the men out there?

 

I guess it's a mix of human nature and social conditioning.

 

I firmly believe it's human nature to focus on the negative more often. I mean, if a lot of people compliment you, but then someone insults you, it's hard to ignore. For most people anyway.

 

And social conditioning, because, well, look at most porn, most men's mags, most TV shows, billboards, Victoria's Secrets catalogs, and what do you see? Ideal women: C cups and above.

 

I've also never met a man who likes small breasts in real life, so I'm skeptical about that.

[jamesum]

I guess it's a mix of human nature and social conditioning.

 

I firmly believe it's human nature to focus on the negative more often. I mean, if a lot of people compliment you, but then someone insults you, it's hard to ignore. For most people anyway.

 

And social conditioning, because, well, look at most porn, most men's mags, most TV shows, billboards, Victoria's Secrets catalogs, and what do you see? Ideal women: C cups and above.

 

I've also never met a man who likes small breasts in real life, so I'm skeptical about that.

So what if most men dont like small breasts?

 

A lot of women wish their boyfriends or husbands had a bit bigger penis, were taller, were more handsome, were more romantic or were richer. But that doesnt necessarily mean they want to find someone else.

 

The fact is people want many things and nobody is perfect. Like I said, most men do prefer bigger breasts, but average men are happy enough just to have a partner.

[djhall]

After giving this topic a great deal of consideration, I have decided that breast size does not matter... as long as I am allowed to motorboat!

[LosingBattle]

So what if most men dont like small breasts?

 

A lot of women wish their boyfriends or husbands had a bit bigger penis, were taller, were more handsome, were more romantic or were richer. But that doesnt necessarily mean they want to find someone else.

 

The fact is people want many things and nobody is perfect. Like I said, most men do prefer bigger breasts, but average men are happy enough just to have a partner.

 

When I was with my ex, I never wished any of those things, I was perfectly happy with how he looked, and I still think he's perfect in that regard.

 

I did wish he had been less abusive and less jealous. But that was something he could've easily changed.

[jamesum]

When I was with my ex, I never wished any of those things, I was perfectly happy with how he looked, and I still think he's perfect in that regard.

 

I did wish he had been less abusive and less jealous. But that was something he could've easily changed.

So its not like your small breast prevents you from getting boyfriends right?

 

Whats the problem then?

[LosingBattle]

So its not like your small breast prevents you from getting boyfriends right?

 

Whats the problem then?

 

I first started feeling like I wanted a boyfriend when I was like 13. I liked many guys, and I was heartbroken throughout high school. Guys just didn't like me.

 

It wasn't until I was 18 that I got my first and only boyfriend. He still preferred bigger breasts though, and made some jerkish remarks about it a couple times. His celebrity crushes were all busty. He used to say he "liked me for other things" which didn't make me feel sexy, exactly...

[jamesum]

I first started feeling like I wanted a boyfriend when I was like 13. I liked many guys, and I was heartbroken throughout high school. Guys just didn't like me.

 

It wasn't until I was 18 that I got my first and only boyfriend. He still preferred bigger breasts though, and made some jerkish remarks about it a couple times. His celebrity crushes were all busty. He used to say he "liked me for other things" which didn't make me feel sexy, exactly...

Your boyfriend was a jerk. There are things you should not be honest about toward your partners.

 

For example, never tell your boyfriend he has a small penis.

[USMCHokie]

It wasn't until I was 18 that I got my first and only boyfriend. He still preferred bigger breasts though, and made some jerkish remarks about it a couple times. His celebrity crushes were all busty. He used to say he "liked me for other things" which didn't make me feel sexy, exactly...

 

How about you find a guy that loves you the way you are and thinks you're hot and sexy...? You make it seem like you don't have a choice in ther matter...

[BubbleFreak]

I think breast size does matter to a lot of people. I just rated some people on hotornot and I noticed that girls with just pictures of their faces seem to get lower ratings than if they slip into the picture a bit of boob. Ofcourse it might not just be the size of the boob, but simply the fact they showed more skin.

[Tayla]

So guys...you know of bra sizes ...did you also know that even droopy ones can fill well into a different cup size and fool the average guy staring, yet let au naturale happen and most men will find it unappealing. Be they an A or a D...Neither is pleasant when sagging. Most Doctors even have a medical name for it...

 

To the poster- People are being asked opinions here and none are right or wrong...THey are though deserving of being taken with a grain of salt. When it comes to the persons body..its very personal and up to the individual to decide if its OKAY with them. So what if the partner "prefers" a particular feature....Take the good with the great I say!

 

Not to bring a shadow to this generalized question asked...but I would follow it to the guys that say size doesn't matter....tell that to your significant other when they have a mastectomy and really do have to live without...On some level I think you would have to dare to be honest..and say it matters.... Food for thought when looking at the robust,perky, small, or petite...

[LosingBattle]

What I see it he had it good in looks and not in personality and it's less than once in a blue moon when a man corrects these types of personality flaws.

 

Look for the (close to) perfect personality and don't be as picky on looks next time. You will almost certainly be happier.

 

I didn't choose him because of looks either. He chose me actually. But the thing is, as most abusers, his true colors didn't come out until much time later.

 

He was a really nice guy in the beginning. And what really made me fall for him was the fact that we were so alike, we had so much in common it was crazy. He was good looking, but that was just a plus. I've met many good looking guys who mad me feel nothing. No connection, not even attraction.

 

He was different. Too bad he got caught up in his own jealousy and ended up abusing me. Otherwise, he'd be the perfect man for me.

[djhall]

How about you find a guy that loves you the way you are and thinks you're hot and sexy...?

You know, I have to agree. There isn't any body type that "everyone" is going to be into.

 

There are lots of us out here that think small is sexy.

[djhall]

So guys...you know of bra sizes ...did you also know that even droopy ones can fill well into a different cup size and fool the average guy staring, yet let au naturale happen and most men will find it unappealing. Be they an A or a D...Neither is pleasant when sagging. Most Doctors even have a medical name for it...

I believe the medical term for that is "tennis balls in tube socks syndrome".

[ConflictedGuy27]

Hi Losing Battle,

 

As a boob guy, I had to chime in here. Yes, size does matter, but that doesn't mean bigger is always better - as many guys have mentioned here. No use in repeating what's been said, but I will say this.

 

Braless = effing hot.

 

If you're cute chick with less than 36b's (hell a 36b'll do too, I suppose), you WILL turn head's if you're not wearing a bra and just a whatever shirt.

 

The euro chicks down where I live do this all day long and it's pure gold. You don't have own C+'s to turn heads, my dear.

[Katie29]

Hi Losing Battle,

 

As a boob guy, I had to chime in here. Yes, size does matter, but that doesn't mean bigger is always better - as many guys have mentioned here. No use in repeating what's been said, but I will say this.

 

Braless = effing hot.

 

If you're cute chick with less than 36b's (hell a 36b'll do too, I suppose), you WILL turn head's if you're not wearing a bra and just a whatever shirt.

 

The euro chicks down where I live do this all day long and it's pure gold. You don't have own C+'s to turn heads, my dear.

 

not wearing a bra is hot? I think that SCREAMS "skanky"..just my opinion

[ConflictedGuy27]

not wearing a bra is hot? I think that SCREAMS "skanky"..just my opinion

 

It can be done in a classy manner. ;p

[yume]

I have so much more confidence in my A cup after reading this thread.

[jamesum]

I think breast size does matter to a lot of people. I just rated some people on hotornot and I noticed that girls with just pictures of their faces seem to get lower ratings than if they slip into the picture a bit of boob. Ofcourse it might not just be the size of the boob, but simply the fact they showed more skin.

The guys with muscles in that site also get high rating.

[ConfusedAsUsual]

It can be done in a classy manner. ;p

 

 

I think when you can tell that a woman isn't wearing a bra, that is skanky. I personally wouldn't go without a bra. When nipples are popping through, that looks distastful and classless.

[jamesum]

Hi Losing Battle,

 

As a boob guy, I had to chime in here. Yes, size does matter, but that doesn't mean bigger is always better - as many guys have mentioned here. No use in repeating what's been said, but I will say this.

 

Braless = effing hot.

 

If you're cute chick with less than 36b's (hell a 36b'll do too, I suppose), you WILL turn head's if you're not wearing a bra and just a whatever shirt.

 

The euro chicks down where I live do this all day long and it's pure gold. You don't have own C+'s to turn heads, my dear.

Europe is not America.

 

Its way more conservative here.

[ConflictedGuy27]

Personally, I think the braless thing is hot because it says to me this is a girl who's comfortable with her body. Most of the girls I've seen do this have that "I don't care" kinda attitude that I just love.

 

Its usually "small" chested woman that can do this and make it look good. You can't have C's and make this happen, obviously. High B's are pushing it, IMO.

 

And yes, I realize we're more conservative here in the states but we're on the subject of attraction and what men find sexy, so I figured what the hell.