Does breast size matter?

[InceptorsRule]

Be happy with who you are.

[alexlakeman]

Being one of those women with large breasts. Why are you "grossed out"?

 

LoL, b/c he doesn't know any better lol.

 

There's positives than negatives to big breasts. Again "big" is relative; what's big or small to 1 person might not b 4 d next, or if a guy is desperate he'll take either or, so he's got a woman with small breast those r d best; and when h's got one with bigger breast those r d best lol

[phineas]

Ditto. Overly large breasts can be lovely, and they have their uses in bed, but I don't generally prefer them. It's funny because some behavioral anthropologists claim that cleavage evolved as a secondary sexual characteristic because of the resemblance to the buttocks. But it seems a poor substitute to me.

 

 

A small breasted woman in a low cut dress that completly covers her boobs but shows her chest in-between is far sexier to me than a woman in a similar dress showing half her boobs.

 

I like looking at the cleavage, but it's the smaller chested woman I want to get the dress off.

 

Maybe because the cleavage showing woman isn't leaving any mystery?

[USMCHokie]

I like looking at the cleavage, but it's the smaller chested woman I want to get the dress off.

 

This.

[CaliGuy]

Nope.

 

That said... I prefer smaller than bigger. Just my taste and has nothing to do with what is perceived as right or wrong.

[LosingBattle]

I insist that bigger isn't necessarily better when it comes to penis size. Seriously. It sounds like some guys use that as a justification for liking big breasts. Like "Women are picky about penis size and they like big penises, so men can like bigger breasts over small, get over it".

 

Well, I don't care about size, honestly, because I'm one of those women that can't orgasm from penetration alone. So sue me.

[nddb]

Smaller (say C or below) and they stay perky for a long long time.

 

But larger is just eye-catching when appropriately dressed (and I don't mean letting it all hang out).

 

Ultimately, more than a handful is a waste--how much can one fit in one's mouth anyway?

[jamesum]

No, but usually they were too busy staring at her rear. Some men are boob men, some are leg men, some are fond of booty. The point was that my sis never suffered in the dating department that I ever knew of because of it. She's very beautiful and there are many other qualities in a woman's body than men like -- tits aren't everything.

When did I ever say women with small tits will never get a date in the first place?

 

Just because men tend to prefer bigger breasts, doesnt mean its a deal breaker.

 

I think you are disrespecting half of the world's population.

 

Most men are more than happy just to have a girlfriend.

 

I personally would love to have a woman with a C cup. But in reality breast size is not of much importance to me as opposed to her beauty and personality.

 

Eh, the people who have been attracted to me like them. But your post pretty much makes my point -- everyone has different taste in what they find attractive. Some people would love a guy with a 10 incher (not me), some people love my tits (not you).

There are some men who are sexually attracted to women's feet. But that is a fetish that is not shared by most men. Edited August 10, 2010 by jamesum

[mychoo1]

I'm flat, I mean barely an A. And im still pretty self concious about it. Even now that I'm married. But, I never had any problems getting dates with anyone I wanted. I also never had a guy say anything negative to me. Maybe I was just lucky. But at this point I wouldn't change being small because I like being able to wear pretty much whatever I want without being too reavealing.

[GorillaTheater]

34B seems about perfect to me.

[Sphere]

Breast size and shape is not a big deal to me.

 

"Beggars can't be choosers".

[Phateless]

I'm rather small chested. I've been single for a while. And while my ex still begs me to take him back, and he always showed attraction to my body, well, a couple times he made insensitive jokes about my meager cups and I noticed how he lusted after busty actresses or porn stars. I even lost some weight while we were still together, and he commented about my breasts shrinking. I asked him what would happen if I ended up being flat chested. He said we would've had to see, because if he lost his attraction to me we would've had to split, or maybe he would've paid for my implants. I'd never get implants, by the way.

 

Now that I'm single I've noticed how men favor women with large breasts a lot more. I have a good waist to hip ratio (it means my waist is significantly smaller than my hips). I usually wear tight clothes to emphasize this, and I get some attention. But nowhere as near as girls with perfect cleavage. I mean, many models are thin, like me, with small breasts, and they're beautiful, yes, but not hot. Yet glamour models, who're slim with big breasts are well, men can't stop drooling.

 

I even met a guy recently. He says I'd caught his attention from some time ago. However, he had this perception of me, as sort of an innocent, asexual, even religious girl. I'm none of that. Not innocent, very sexual and not religious at all. I asked him what was it. He said he didn't know, it was just the way I look, maybe the way I dress. But I don't wear conservative clothes. Once we talked about sex, he said his perception of me took a 180° turn.

 

No busty gal ever deals with that. And I mean, when I want guys to notice me, I don't want them to think that I'm asexual, or that I'm too innocent or a prude. I mean, I wear make up, tight clothes, etc. Yet I project that image.

 

I wonder why, if I'm not bad looking, I get less attention simply because of tissue that I have no control over. Weird, huh? Especially since I never do that to guys. I'm not too shallow when it comes to dating, to the point even other guys have told me to refine my taste.

 

I don't want to be simply the cute girl. I want to be more than that. I wonder if my small bust is just 'cute' rather than hot, and if I'll ever be enough for one man. I don't want love anyway for a long time... so right now, whatever I have with a guy, I want it to be casual, so I really don't care about getting a guy who "loves me for me". I want to have fun...

 

Quality guys don't care. Personally, I would rather play with a real A cup than a fake D cup. I love boobs, but if I like a girl and think she's cute, small breasts certainly won't stop me from dating her!

 

I say accentuate other assets. Do you have a nice ass? You probably have a great tummy, too. It's not all about the tits, you know.

[gopher]

A small breasted woman in a low cut dress that completly covers her boobs but shows her chest in-between is far sexier to me than a woman in a similar dress showing half her boobs.

 

I like looking at the cleavage, but it's the smaller chested woman I want to get the dress off.

 

Maybe because the cleavage showing woman isn't leaving any mystery?

 

That right there is a perfect statement for guys who are turned on by smaller breasts. There is something about that space that is very erotic.

[Sphere]

What is that supposed to mean?

 

Well given your current situation and the fact you cannot score in a brothel, I doubt you are in a position to be choosey.

[Serenitynow]

Hell No

 

 

 

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[somedude81]

34B seems about perfect to me.

What's perfect for me rhymes with B. It happens to be, 34 E!

[marsle85]

I'm rather small chested. I've been single for a while. And while my ex still begs me to take him back, and he always showed attraction to my body, well, a couple times he made insensitive jokes about my meager cups and I noticed how he lusted after busty actresses or porn stars. I even lost some weight while we were still together, and he commented about my breasts shrinking. I asked him what would happen if I ended up being flat chested. He said we would've had to see, because if he lost his attraction to me we would've had to split, or maybe he would've paid for my implants. I'd never get implants, by the way.

 

Firstly, why in the world are you dating a man who would EVER make comments like that? I'm asking you: why? How could you ever think that that's okay? No relationship like that should continue. Keep him an EX for good.

 

No busty gal ever deals with that. And I mean, when I want guys to notice me, I don't want them to think that I'm asexual, or that I'm too innocent or a prude. I mean, I wear make up, tight clothes, etc. Yet I project that image.

 

No, busty girls don't deal with that. But I will tell you (as a 34C/D) men always see you as hot... ALWAYS see you as sexual. They're two extremes, honestly. When I go into a job interview? Naturally, I wear a button up... but even button ups show cleavage. You're taken less seriously. You're trying to make a valid, intelligent point- but men are staring at your breasts, not your eyes. Honey, it's simply a matter of "the grass is greener..."

 

I don't want to be simply the cute girl. I want to be more than that. I wonder if my small bust is just 'cute' rather than hot, and if I'll ever be enough for one man. I don't want love anyway for a long time... so right now, whatever I have with a guy, I want it to be casual, so I really don't care about getting a guy who "loves me for me". I want to have fun...

 

Okay. My best friend has the breastsize 34B. They're not huge, or big by any standard. Maybe even smaller than medium... YET I IDOLIZE HER. Yes, me with the curves and the 34C's -- envy my friend with the small boobs. Why? Because she pulls off that lanky, athletic, natural appeal. I worry guys will think mine are fake, and suddenly- the fact that I'm blonde, curvy and smiley leaves me as a complete ditz. Yet my friend? She can wear shirts that dip low, and it's lax, sexy and classy. If I were to wear that? I'd look like a hooker. She can wear ANYTHING she wants. There are very few shirts that are "made" for women with big breasts. There are TONS of shirts/dresses whatever- I simply can't wear because they're too small, and make me look "too sexy."

 

Girl, you've got what you've got.

[brainygirl]

What's perfect for me rhymes with B. It happens to be, 34 E!

 

I'm DD and I hate it, can't imagine what a pia E would be. I have to buy shirts a size or two bigger than I need to otherwise and any that are bias cut or have "boob" places don't fit right.

 

And pretty bras? Forget about it, they all look like Gramma bras at those sizes, even from victorias secret.

[Lorelai]

When did I ever say women with small tits will never get a date in the first place?

 

Just because men tend to prefer bigger breasts, doesnt mean its a deal breaker.

 

I think you are disrespecting half of the world's population.

 

Most men are more than happy just to have a girlfriend.

 

The OP was saying she felt like she wasn't getting dates because of the size of her rack. I was saying that it never caused my sister any problems. Then you asked me if her boyfriends had said they preferred larger -- and again, I said that tits aren't everything. I don't see how that's disrespecting anybody, or why you seemed to disagree with what I said.

[somedude81]

I'm DD and I hate it, can't imagine what a pia E would be. I have to buy shirts a size or two bigger than I need to otherwise and any that are bias cut or have "boob" places don't fit right.

 

And pretty bras? Forget about it, they all look like Gramma bras at those sizes, even from victorias secret.

Such is the benefit of being a man. I can love the bigger breasts but I'm not the one who has to live with them.

 

Every now and then I hear stories of women who have gotten reductions and they sadden me hearing about the shrinking. But going with what you said not to mention the emotional and physical pain they can bring, it makes sense.

 

Right now, large breasts are just a fantasy of mine. I've never dated a busty gal so it's hard to empathize with them.

[Lorelai]

I'm DD and I hate it, can't imagine what a pia E would be. I have to buy shirts a size or two bigger than I need to otherwise and any that are bias cut or have "boob" places don't fit right.

 

And pretty bras? Forget about it, they all look like Gramma bras at those sizes, even from victorias secret.

 

Check out figleaves.com -- yes, they're expensive. But they do make underwear that doesn't make you feel like you're 80. Maybe when I'm 80 I'll feel like wearing granny bras, but until then I like pretty ones.

[impz]

They do matter a lot for me, but it is the reverse of what you are expecting. Anything bigger than a B is just way too big and a total turnoff for me. I also can't imagine the amount of weight burden a DD cup and above woman has to suffer from, and arghhh just not my type .

 

I have to be shallow and say that I once dated a girl with DD cup breasts...Suffered a "personal trauma" from the visual appearance. I just cannot like it

Edited August 11, 2010 by impz

[brainygirl]

Such is the benefit of being a man. I can love the bigger breasts but I'm not the one who has to live with them.

 

Every now and then I hear stories of women who have gotten reductions and they sadden me hearing about the shrinking. But going with what you said not to mention the emotional and physical pain they can bring, it makes sense.

 

Right now, large breasts are just a fantasy of mine. I've never dated a busty gal so it's hard to empathize with them.

 

I think we all have our fantasies, its reconsiling that with reality that some people seem to have issues with.

 

I wouldn't have a reduction, just because I generally like the way I look and the idea of risking surgery for no real reason is kinda scary. (of course I say that but I'd get a tummy tuck in a heart beat)

[brainygirl]

Check out figleaves.com -- yes, they're expensive. But they do make underwear that doesn't make you feel like you're 80. Maybe when I'm 80 I'll feel like wearing granny bras, but until then I like pretty ones.

 

If they had a store where I could try things one I might give them a shot, some are really pricey, but I saw some 25 dollar ones too, and I've found that bras are like athletic shoes, you have to pay for quality.

[aznvibe]

I don't mind small breasts, or medium... If they are too big then it doesnt look good to me. All the girls ive dated have either had small or medium breasts.