Engadget Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Yeah the cats thing isn't always true, for sure. I think how you raise them, much like dogs plays a huge part. My cats are not those ones that shun human contact, they love people and are awesome. They cuddle with me when I sleep and are extremely friendly. One of them was abandoned in a parking lot and I took her in, she was so comfortable being picked up by me and was a very happy cat. The second cat I got was from a friend and they became best friends, I've never actually seen two animals get along better than they do. So the stereotype about people with cats isn't always true. Link to post Share on other sites
SilentVoice Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 One of these days when I get my financial situation in order I'm going to get myself a serval or savannah cat. I'd take if for walks on a leash just to show that cats can be cool. They're also pretty big too. No that is a different story. That it like walking with a mini tiger on your arm. That is hot and dangerous lol! Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 I guess the world is flat to some... Apparently and according to this thread, men should avoid ALL WOMEN. Odds are that every women will have one or many of the "flaws" listed here and much more that are missing. On the single mother topic- If a women is capable of managing what was intended to be done by 2 "parents" alone with grace, she is a double blessing. Maybe, she was a bit of an idiot to actually believe the man she went half on a baby with??! So now she becomes undatable by your standards? Nice. I am a single parent, a daughter, sister, friend, career woman, attractive, and self-sustained. If a man doesn't find me "dateable", then maybe you're not so much of a man... go find some puppet to have on your strings or beat Steve Jobs at submitting a patent for an iChick. Bag of skittles... A man can still be a man and prefer not to date single mothers. I don't prefer them either, and I don't think it makes me a bad person at all. I feel like I deserve to be with a woman who has no kids, as I don't either. Just find someone who is open to dating single mothers. No need to bash men for their preferences. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Also, there is a delineation between 'preferring not' and 'avoiding'. Based on negative past experiences, I prefer not to date single mothers, especially at my age. I don't 'avoid' them. I enjoy children. I enjoy less that children are injected into every aspect of the dating process. That's my boundary. The kids are job number one. Absent emergencies, the date is (fun) job number one when we're on it. I'm not going to sense any mutual interest if the children are the topic of conversation. Experience has taught me that supporting that perspective is a one-way ticket to the friend-zone. No thanks. Next Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Also, there is a delineation between 'preferring not' and 'avoiding'. Based on negative past experiences, I prefer not to date single mothers, especially at my age. I don't 'avoid' them. I enjoy children. I enjoy less that children are injected into every aspect of the dating process. That's my boundary. The kids are job number one. Absent emergencies, the date is (fun) job number one when we're on it. I'm not going to sense any mutual interest if the children are the topic of conversation. Experience has taught me that supporting that perspective is a one-way ticket to the friend-zone. No thanks. Next Definitely. I don't believe they should be avoided either, but I doubt they'd be highly preferred by single, childless males. I personally feel that I should be able to be the number one priority to my gf, instead of fighting for time over children, no matter how well she budgets her time. Again, that's because I'm childless as well, so I feel I'm entitled to that. There are however lots of men out there who never want to have kids, or those who have kids, and I feel those guys fit the bill perfectly for single mothers. That way, no one is left out in the end. Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 I agree, guy who would very much prefer a woman without kids to be the last kind of guy a woman with a kid(s) needs to be dating. I was all about not introducing my son to anyone unless the relationship became serious and I could see a future. Now if only the guys who say they don't want single mothers had enough integrity to not pursue them for sexual purposes only. These are the same guys who won't say their intent till after they've gotten their aim. If she just wants sex, let her tell you that. But if that's not what she is about - you're Rapist Jr. in my book. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 #12 or what ever... I'm suprised no one said this sooner ... Avoid Women who are not capable of regular sex in a long term relationship. Basicaly the women who don't like sex... or only need it a few times a year... AVOID them Link to post Share on other sites
legallyblonde289 Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 #12 or what ever... I'm suprised no one said this sooner ... Avoid Women who are not capable of regular sex in a long term relationship. Basicaly the women who don't like sex... or only need it a few times a year... AVOID them do women that actually exist? this is a serious question...i always assumed that women who stop having sex with their partner regularly do so because they are basically over the relationship Link to post Share on other sites
Engadget Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 do women that actually exist? this is a serious question...i always assumed that women who stop having sex with their partner regularly do so because they are basically over the relationship They do exist, and yes many times it is because of that. However for some women, once a week is a lot, and that's crap. Link to post Share on other sites
annxxdisaster Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Manic Pixie Dream Girl-very similar to Ms. flaky flake, is a stock girl stereotype in movies but exists in real life too. Like a muse. Elusive, mysterious, deep, detached, full of life. Yet is a contradiction to what has been said. Mostly liberal arts/hipster types. Like someone here mentioned: Bat **** crazy. On a good note, they're usually attractive and sensual. There are attractive hipster girls?! All the ones I see look like 12 year old boys who need to shower and stop shopping at American Apparel. :\ Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 do women that actually exist? this is a serious question...i always assumed that women who stop having sex with their partner regularly do so because they are basically over the relationship Or the guy sucks at it and/or has poor basic hygiene. No, no - its all about her being frigid. Link to post Share on other sites
janie423 Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Or the guy sucks at it and/or has poor basic hygiene. No, no - its all about her being frigid. . . . but of course, the woman is always blamed . . . Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 JamesM is the poster 'man' I think of wrt #12. I couldn't imagine having (or developing) true intimacy and love without regular physical intimacy and bonding. Evidently, there are men out there who can and do. Good on 'em. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 do women that actually exist? this is a serious question...i always assumed that women who stop having sex with their partner regularly do so because they are basically over the relationship They do exist, and yes many times it is because of that. However for some women, once a week is a lot, and that's crap. For some women any amount of sex is a chore... They usualy put up a good act and maybe even enjoy the sex for the first few months to a year but eventualy a woman like this shows her true colors. Many women like this probably exist. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 JamesM is the poster 'man' I think of wrt #12. I couldn't imagine having (or developing) true intimacy and love without regular physical intimacy and bonding. Evidently, there are men out there who can and do. Good on 'em. If you can do it fine, but I couldn't ... I would leave a wife even if we had children over #12 Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 For some women any amount of sex is a chore... They usualy put up a good act and maybe even enjoy the sex for the first few months to a year but eventualy a woman like this shows her true colors. Many women like this probably exist. Riiiighhht. She loved sex once upon a time and wanted it damn near twice a day - now hates it. More like: "remember when you use to shower regularly and put your back in to the sexin? Get a clue, get a clue, get a mother effing clue." Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 If you can do it fine, but I couldn't ... I would leave a wife even if we had children over #12 Right, and if I sensed the dynamic early on, there would be no 'wife and children' with her. If after, serious proactive counseling or divorce. Also, in my M, I was the PTA (clean between the sheets) person.... Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 For some women any amount of sex is a chore... They usualy put up a good act and maybe even enjoy the sex for the first few months to a year but eventualy a woman like this shows her true colors. Many women like this probably exist. You know what, I have to agree with you on that. Last week I was out for dinner with some married friends of mine and these women have been marries since their 20'ws and are now in their 40's and one of them told me "sex is a chore, I just avoid it as much as I can I even encourage him to use porn...gets him off my back" She followed that with I love him more than ever and my life would be lost without him but I just want companionship i don't need all this sex. The other followed closely in comments. I sat there thinking "poor guys" There are lot of women who just give up sex, just because. They no longer feel they need to try and "they know" their men won't cheat so they don't. And yes they started off as little minxes in their relationships and over the years lost interest in sex, not their partners. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr White Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 You know what, I have to agree with you on that. Last week I was out for dinner with some married friends of mine and these women have been marries since their 20'ws and are now in their 40's and one of them told me "sex is a chore, I just avoid it as much as I can I even encourage him to use porn...gets him off my back" She followed that with I love him more than ever and my life would be lost without him but I just want companionship i don't need all this sex. The other followed closely in comments. I sat there thinking "poor guys" There are lot of women who just give up sex, just because. They no longer feel they need to try and "they know" their men won't cheat so they don't. And yes they started off as little minxes in their relationships and over the years lost interest in sex, not their partners. The biggest problem i see here is not their lack of "need" for sex, but their attitude (a chore). A loving wife will be intimate with her husband, even if she isn't "feeling it" in a pure physical sense. So these marriages seem to have a lot more problems than they let on. I'll take a woman who loves me over a woman who loves sex any day of the week. the simple truth is that women do have lower sex drives, so that's not the question. it is how they handle it. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 #13 AVOID women with no sense of humor This is obviously very subjective but for me its a real turn on that my gf giggles at a fart joke Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Most, if not all, young women these days describe themselves as independent. I'm starting to wonder if they know what the word actually means. It also means you don't need mommy and daddy either. So if I only meant independent, I'd be single forever. What I'm talking about is a girl that describes herself as, "An independent women who doesn't need a man". These women are a walking disaster for men. And yes, they are all feminists, so you don't sound like you fall in that category. I don't need a man. I choose to be with one and choose to share my life with him because he's wonderful. I guess that makes me a ball-busting psycho feminazi. I don't need a man to have a fulfilling life. I don't need a man to take care of me, pay my bills, or do things for me. I don't need a man to feel like I'm a complete human being. I'm perfectly capable of living as a single woman and doing things I enjoy. Being with my SO makes everything more enjoyable, and I love having him in my life, but I wouldn't be a total wreck if I didn't have him. There are people out there who don't feel whole without a partner, and if you're after needy women who can't function without a man and who feel like their life is incomplete and meaningless unless they have a man, more power to you. 'Cause you're on my list of men to avoid. Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Right, and if I sensed the dynamic early on, there would be no 'wife and children' with her. If after, serious proactive counseling or divorce. Also, in my M, I was the PTA (clean between the sheets) person.... Yeah, I'm not saying there are no women who fake the funk initially in a relationship as though they like sex, only to pull some crap later like they're Master/Blaster. "Who runs Bartertown?" Embargo ON! But as a female, I hear way more complaining about their partners declining hygiene, effort, and their over use of porn (by their standard anyway) killing their desire more than anything else. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 For some women any amount of sex is a chore... They usualy put up a good act and maybe even enjoy the sex for the first few months to a year but eventualy a woman like this shows her true colors. Many women like this probably exist. Some women like sex straight up. They'll jump on you in a heartbeat. Some like it but can't get off without a ton of pre-stimulation Some women don't like it at all, because its an emotional thing for them and they've lost that emotional thing, whatever it was. Go for the first type, but don't settle! lol Link to post Share on other sites
St. Nick Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Avoid Miss Romance: this chick has to go out to glamorous or expensive places to eat; she expects you constantly dress your best; and she expects the utmost chivalry from men. She's been reading way too many romance novels and is out of touch with reality. She can't loosen up: she doesn't believe in having a quick burger, hanging out with boisterous people, or doing anything that seems out of touch with her romance fantasy. She should be avoided at all times. Link to post Share on other sites
janie423 Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 #13 AVOID women with no sense of humor This is obviously very subjective but for me its a real turn on that my gf giggles at a fart joke 100% agreement with you on this . . . Link to post Share on other sites
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