Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 If you worked a job where people disrespected you or made you feel like crap... why in the world would you ever want to impose that heartache on anyone else. You didn't get paid to get **** on... why do you think others deserve that fate. My job was to provide a service to customers and that is what I did, there is no (whatever you said) on anyone. I am thankful I even had the job that didn't involve being out in the cold digging holes or laying bricks. I am grateful I even had a job that was hours friendly enough to allow me to go to college at the same time. There is no 'fate' they're providing me with a service and if i want to be rude it is my right as that is what I am paying them for. As a business owner I am surprised you do not understand that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 Maxmanwell, you remind me a lot of another poster who was banned. He had bdd and blamed the world, basically taking the victim attitude, hating himself, hating his body and uncontrollably lashing out when he was angry or hurt. Btw, he wasn't ugly but had the belief he was, therefore he was, due to pushing people away from self-hatred. I believe he got therapy and worked on himself because the last time he was on LS, he had improved quite a bit. Have you considered therapy? More than once, but what good could it possibly do ? Convince me that I am happy being a loser ? Then go about my crappy life ? What could a therapist possibly change ? Link to post Share on other sites
Wonderlandless Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 You're right, Max. You know what would help? A really high bridge. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 You're right, Max. You know what would help? A really high bridge. You mean because construction projects funded by the government would help raise employment ? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Yes, unless it was a deliberate act of vanadlism I would expect that the waitress clean it up. That's just so wrong. You knocked the coffee over, yet you expect her to come clean it up. If anything, ask for a rag to clean it up yourself or use napkins, and chances are, when she brings the rag over, she'll wipe it up anyway but to expect her to just do it isn't right. It just blows me away that you think everyone owes you like you've paid your dues in life and now it's payback time. Continue down this path you WILL be lonely and alone because noone likes to be around someone who's just plain cruel and bitter. Counselling could help but I doubt you'd even consider that. Link to post Share on other sites
Wonderlandless Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Or put you out of your misery (making) life. Either or. Take it whichever way. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 More than once, but what good could it possibly do ? Convince me that I am happy being a loser ? Then go about my crappy life ? No, you work on you, learn to let go of that anger and bitterness and be someone who is happy and alot nicer. Your life is crappy because you've made it that way. Noone held a gun to your head and made you decide to be this way. What could a therapist possibly change ? YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 More than once, but what good could it possibly do ? Convince me that I am happy being a loser ? Then go about my crappy life ? What could a therapist possibly change ? A therapist, if you're willing to learn something, can help you learn to reroute from continuously negative thought patterns to a more healthy approach to life. It's not a miracle cure. You have to willing to work hard, harder than anything you've ever done before. You're not a stupid man, why act like one? Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 My job was to provide a service to customers and that is what I did, there is no (whatever you said) on anyone. I am thankful I even had the job that didn't involve being out in the cold digging holes or laying bricks. I am grateful I even had a job that was hours friendly enough to allow me to go to college at the same time. There is no 'fate' they're providing me with a service and if i want to be rude it is my right as that is what I am paying them for. As a business owner I am surprised you do not understand that. Oh, I understand it- I just refuse to put up with it. No angry little **** is going to walk into my OWN business establishment and treat me like a piece of garbage. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 I am thankful I even had the job that didn't involve being out in the cold digging holes or laying bricks. What's wrong about working in the cold or laying bricks? Talk about hard working people with work ethic. I respect anyone who works hard at their job, no matter what that is. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 You knocked the coffee over, yet you expect her to come clean it up. If anything, ask for a rag to clean it up yourself or use napkins, and chances are, when she brings the rag over, she'll wipe it up anyway but to expect her to just do it isn't right. Well if she doesn't like it she can always work in the kitchen, or wash some dishes or take any other number of jobs that I am sure would be better suited. Yeah, well, whenever anyone spilled coffee at the gas station I had to clean it up, I cleaned up every single spill in the place. Link to post Share on other sites
Wonderlandless Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 . Yeah, well, whenever anyone spilled coffee at the gas station I had to clean it up, I cleaned up every single spill in the place. Oh poooooor baby! Because I'm sure they happened to see that you were working that day and decided 'Hey, there is that Max dude. Lets spill coffee all over the place and walk out of here like we didn't do it!' And I'm sure they all left huge puddles every time, because, you know, they were ALL able to control the human reaction to stop scalding liquid from dripping over a counter onto themselves. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Yeah, well You sound like a child.. There's no point in discussing this with you because you're not seeing anything from anyone else's point of view. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 You sound like a child.. There's no point in discussing this with you because you're not seeing anything from anyone else's point of view. Why can't you see it from mine ? It is a valid point.. I had to clean up every spill. At the grocery store someone drops a jar of jam... I was the man to come clean it. I am right on this one atleast and you know it. Link to post Share on other sites
Wonderlandless Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Why can't you see it from mine ? Why can't you see it from ours? Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 I suggest seeing a therapist. At the rate you are hating the world and think the world is out to get you. Well in the grand scheme of things, it does not really matter. Years from now, who will remember. Your behavior at a business establishment is to be desired. If you pulled that, don't be surprised if you were politely escorted out before being forced out. Also, if you keep on doing this, you'll find out that there who IS and WILL be bigger than you forcing something on to you that you will not like. I foresee a role for you as an ward of the state. So what you paid money? You "pay" them for a service not to abuse them. Link to post Share on other sites
Wonderlandless Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 So what you paid money? You "pay" them for a service not to abuse them. Max will come back with an asinine comment about its his money, he's paying them so he can treat them how he wishes and he's 'been there, done that' in 3... 2... 1... Link to post Share on other sites
Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 A therapist, if you're willing to learn something, can help you learn to reroute from continuously negative thought patterns to a more healthy approach to life. It's not a miracle cure. You have to willing to work hard, harder than anything you've ever done before. You're not a stupid man, why act like one? I don't like the world because I know I get the short end of the stick in a very big way. I do not want to go to someone who is going to convince me that it is right or worse yet, be happy that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Why can't you see it from mine ? It is a valid point.. I had to clean up every spill. At the grocery store someone drops a jar of jam... I was the man to come clean it. I am right on this one atleast and you know it. I wish I had so little in my life that I could cry over spilt milk...or jam in this case. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 I suggest seeing a therapist. At the rate you are hating the world and think the world is out to get you. Well in the grand scheme of things, it does not really matter. Years from now, who will remember. Your behavior at a business establishment is to be desired. If you pulled that, don't be surprised if you were politely escorted out before being forced out. Also, if you keep on doing this, you'll find out that there who IS and WILL be bigger than you forcing something on to you that you will not like. I foresee a role for you as an ward of the state. So what you paid money? You "pay" them for a service not to abuse them. Well so long as I do not break any laws, speaking rudely to a person is not going to get me thrown out of any establishment I know of. The owners won't want to lose my business and they'll try to turn it around. I know what I can and cannot get away with. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 I wish I had so little in my life that I could cry over spilt milk...or jam in this case. Well I wasn't the one who brought any of that up. I didn't care that I had to clean up spills or that people were rude to me, it just wasn't a big deal. Link to post Share on other sites
Wonderlandless Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 I don't like the world because I know I get the short end of the stick in a very big way Short end of the stick, huh? I guess those starving kids in Africa, war victims in the Middle East and those who were born with serious birth defects got it pretty good compared to this poor, poor little man who had to clean up spills, lives somewhere with a roof over his head and has the security and time to whine about it on the internet. It sucks to be you. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 I don't like the world because I know I get the short end of the stick in a very big way. I do not want to go to someone who is going to convince me that it is right or worse yet, be happy that way. With that attitude you WILL continue to get the short end of the stick. What you put out there is what comes back at ya later...I think you know this and deep down you're too scared to do anything to change that, let alone get help and work on you so you can be a happy man one day. Well so long as I do not break any laws, speaking rudely to a person is not going to get me thrown out of any establishment I know of. The owners won't want to lose my business and they'll try to turn it around. I know what I can and cannot get away with. Actually it will. And, if the owners lose your business, so what? I'm sure they can find someone else. Dime a dozen as they say.. You know what you can and can't get away with. I've never heard any adult say that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MaxManwell Posted July 17, 2008 Author Share Posted July 17, 2008 I don't like the world because I know I get the short end of the stick in a very big way Short end of the stick, huh? I guess those starving kids in Africa, war victims in the Middle East and those who were born with serious birth defects got it pretty good compared to this poor, poor little man who had to clean up spills, lives somewhere with a roof over his head and has the security and time to whine about it on the internet. It sucks to be you. That is very illogical. Everything is relative, by that logic a homeless man should be happy he is homeless in slightly richer country than another homeless man, its just a pointless statement its far to broad a comparison. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Well I wasn't the one who brought any of that up. I didn't care that I had to clean up spills or that people were rude to me, it just wasn't a big deal. So why is it a big deal now? Like we popped that into your head and you're reacting to it? You certainly seemed bugged about in responding to me with that Yeah well.. Link to post Share on other sites
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