I heard from Denver guy

[Ssheena]

Wow. Is that little dump of a blue hotel anywhere near Sante Fe?

 

I'll play referee if needed...

 

Dollgirlfriend, I bet I know exactly where your massage school is as well.

 

Men and women that are like DG are NEVER change because they can continue to behave like they do their entire lives. There is always someone waiting and thinking they are the greatest things since sliced bread. They are emotional vampires, parasites that can't be killed.

 

I'm glad you are getting away from him dollgirlfriend and wish that A out in LA could learn from yours and the rest of the harems experience but ... that's not going to happen.

[Ariadne]

There is always someone waiting and thinking they are the greatest things since sliced bread. They are emotional vampires, parasites that can't be killed.

 

Maybe Denver guy enjoys being loved. I think it's normal.

 

But he is an amazing human being, and far from what you guys are especulating here.

 

Of that I have no doubt.

[marlena]

Ariadne,

 

Think of your son if you will not think of yourself. Please,please, come to your senses and get out-just walk away from it - before it is too late, before something really bad happens. I beseech you. I have a very bad feeling about all this.

[Ariadne]

Ariadne,

 

Think of your son if you will not think of yourself. Please,please, come to your senses and get out-just walk away from it - before it is too late, before something really bad happens. I beseech you. I have a very bad feeling about all this.

 

Are you kidding? Now that he started writing?

 

I'd marry him tomorrow if I could.

 

I'd be his penpal forever if he'd let me.

[Kasan]

Maybe Denver guy enjoys being loved. I think it's normal.

 

But he is an amazing human being, and far from what you guys are especulating here.

 

Of that I have no doubt.

 

I am curious--if you did go out and see DG, would you be okay with being one of the many women that he has on a string?

 

How would/could this work for you?

[underpants]

Are you kidding? Now that he started writing?

 

I'd marry him tomorrow if I could.

 

I'd be his penpal forever if he'd let me.

 

Really?

 

Let me ask you this.

 

You have previously stated that your son does not want to move away from LA.

 

What if you had to choose between being with/living with Denver Guy and staying with your son?

 

Whom would you choose? What would you do?

[Art_Critic]

Are you kidding? Now that he started writing?

 

I'd marry him tomorrow if I could.

 

I'd be his penpal forever if he'd let me.

 

Even though he has NOT shown you that he loves you ?

 

I don't doubt your love for him..but I DO DOUBT his love for you...

 

He has hurt you and continues to do so...

[Ariadne]

I am curious--if you did go out and see DG, would you be okay with being one of the many women that he has on a string?

 

How would/could this work for you?

 

If I did go and see DG, I wouldn't care if he had a millon women living in his house.

 

He is the most faithful person one could ever ask for.

[Ariadne]

Even though he has NOT shown you that he loves you ?

 

I don't doubt your love for him..but I DO DOUBT his love for you...

 

He has hurt you and continues to do so...

 

Well, I don't expect anything from DG.

 

As far as I knew, he was engaged to the love of his life and living happily.

 

I didn't even expect that he'd write. That's why this thread.

[marlena]

Wendy,

 

Just one question which of course you needn't answer if you don't want to. Why did you post those private pictures of Ariadne on the Net? It wasn't a nice thing to do. You could have let the police deal with the matter.

[Ariadne]

Really?

 

Let me ask you this.

 

You have previously stated that your son does not want to move away from LA.

 

What if you had to choose between being with/living with Denver Guy and staying with your son?

 

Whom would you choose? What would you do?

 

Ok, here is the part where fantasyland comes to play.

 

I have good ones for that, like I said, my fantasy explains everything and everything is perfect here.

 

The Cosmos realized that I had a mission to do. To be with my son. He is an adult now and I still have some more mothering to do.

 

So the time was not right.

 

On the same token, DG had to resolve his issues with his gf. He had been waiting for her for 15 years and it was about time that they got engaged and lived together to figure that one out.

[Walking away]

You sound delusional.

 

Sorry, but you do.

[underpants]

So,

 

You feel like now is the time to leave your son to be an adult and run off to Denver?

[Trialbyfire]

You sound delusional.

 

Sorry, but you do.

She is delusional and has practically admitted to such, if you consider how many times she uses the word fantasy or fantasyland.

 

Only Ariadne can let go her fantasy. I give up.

[Ariadne]

She is delusional and has practically admitted to such, if you consider how many times she uses the word fantasy or fantasyland.

 

Only Ariadne can let go her fantasy. I give up.

 

Yes, in my fantasy, Denver guy loves me even "more" than I love him.

 

:love:

[Taramere]

Yes, in my fantasy, Denver guy loves me even "more" than I love him.

 

:love:

 

That's the fantasy. What do you think is now going to happen in reality?

[Walking away]

You chill me to the bone, honey.

 

You scare me.

 

And I am sorry, but you just do.

 

You need help. You lost your grip on reality.

[Ariadne]

So,

 

You feel like now is the time to leave your son to be an adult and run off to Denver?

 

No, but now is not time DG is asking me to either.

[tinktronik]

You chill me to the bone, honey.

 

You scare me.

 

And I am sorry, but you just do.

 

You need help. You lost your grip on reality.

 

A did not have a grip on reality, even when her posting here first began. She is clearly mentally ill and needs psychiatric help, and in refusing help will continue on as is.

[Ariadne]

That's the fantasy. What do you think is now going to happen in reality?

 

Either we'll get together and be true soulmates (slim chances of that, but nobody knows what's going to happen in the future) or I'll get over, eventually, or maybe I'll just long for him forever.

[Ariadne]

A did not have a grip on reality, even when her posting here first began. She is clearly mentally ill and needs psychiatric help, and in refusing help will continue on as is.

 

...............

[Walking away]

A did not have a grip on reality, even when her posting here first began. She is clearly mentally ill and needs psychiatric help, and in refusing help will continue on as is.

 

 

But where is her support system? Her son? Why isn't someone aware and helping her get treatment????

[tinktronik]

...............

You can take it however you want A, but mentally healthy people do not believe or behave in the way you have. I wish you could see this and get some help instead of blowing it off or avoiding that it is the truth.

[Taramere]

Either we'll get together and be true soulmates (slim chances of that, but nobody knows what's going to happen in the future) or I'll get over, eventually, or maybe I'll just long for him forever.

 

Would you like to get over him, if you could?

[tinktronik]

But where is her support system? Her son? Why isn't someone aware and helping her get treatment????

 

It is common for mentally unhealthy people to alienate others from themselves until they either have no true support system, or the people around them stop trying to help them in that way b/c they know the help will not be accepted.