Babolat Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 I have met someone I am digging. We've been a little bit intimate, enough where I am wondering if she has breast implants. I don't think I care, though I always told myself I did not like the way they looked (having never seen them other then on video, photos, etc). One of my buddies girlfriends had them, loved to show them, and I did not like it. My opinion of them changed as the last girl I went out with had them, or at least I think she did, I never asked. I was never 100% into her, which is probably why I never asked, plus I did not want her to feel uncomfortable. So, I am curious about the girl I am currently seeing, though I kind of do not want to know. I like her and I do not want her to feel uncomfortable; it's more curiosity. It's not a deal breaker either way; though I have to admit, if they are natural, wow! I will admit I am a breast guy and I am very turned on by her breasts. It feels superficial to ask and there is a part of me that does not want to know. I also do not want her to feel uncomfortable with me asking. Just curious, what has your experience been, men and women? Men, do you ask? Women, do you volunteer? Thanks 1 Link to post Share on other sites
callmegee Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Quicksand.... watch your step. Better don't ask. Compliment her if you want just don't ask. Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 I would suggest not asking. Just be careful how you handle them--they might leak or get out of position, and it's quite possible that the normal sensation that breasts have are a bit desensitized because of the procedure. Ignorance is bliss in your case. If you know they're fake, it might alter your enjoyment, so don't ask. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Try more real ones, you'll know how to tell them apart. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Professor X Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Check for the scars, son. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 i agree with callmegee i am a woman big up top and get asked if mine are real now and again ppl want the implant story jus how it feels to be big up top nobody thinks big tits are real these days 1 Link to post Share on other sites
M2155 Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 The title of this thread made me chuckle. I doubt there is no good way to ask that. It's a few steps above a hair weave lol. How do you ask a woman you like about her breasts anyway? "God gave you a great rack" "Your boobs are so great, I can't believe they're real." She'll think she has you fooled or will feel guilty if you guys get serious and will eventually confess. IME people with fake anything these days usually aren't ashamed to admit to it at all. It's just tacky as crap to ask Link to post Share on other sites
Author Babolat Posted April 20, 2012 Author Share Posted April 20, 2012 No scars, no signs of surgery, she, and they, look fantastic, she is sensitive to touch; they look great to me. I have complimented her. I should add, the last girl I dated, yes, they looked and felt fake. Not proportional to her body type either. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 "You know how when you grab a woman's breast and it feels like a bag of sand?" "A bag of sand?" Link to post Share on other sites
callmegee Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Babolat, please don't ask. We don't want to see you coming back in here with a new thread titled "She dumped me for asking about her b**bs" :rolleyes: Why play with matches if you don't wanna get burned. :laugh: 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Babolat Posted April 20, 2012 Author Share Posted April 20, 2012 Thanks for the feedback. I was not planning to ask, it feels immature to me to ask. I was more curious to know how others have handled this and, will she volunteer at some point. She is beautiful, "they" are beautiful, life is good! Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Why play with matches if you don't wanna get burned. :laugh: Exactly! Play with those puppies instead:) Link to post Share on other sites
the_endlessriver Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 While admiring / touching the object of confusion, ask - "those are amazing. sorry to be blunt, no way they are real?" Depending on your way of playing this and on her personality this could be all it takes. I for one would not be offended. Link to post Share on other sites
callmegee Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Sorry to be pessimistic (for a change), but what if they were fake to begin with and she slaps you.... Post Topic: "I got slapped for questioning if they were real" :D:D I'll come and offer words of comfort after ..... muahahaha 1 Link to post Share on other sites
waiting4u Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 The scars are either in her armpits, around the nipples, or in the creases below the breast. If you MUST know, look for them. If they are fake and you can't tell, then it's a great boob job, but I agree with other posters that you shouldn't bring it up or ask her. Does it really matter? Link to post Share on other sites
firehawk_1 Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 (edited) I dont think a woman should mind if being asked. after all, it is all superficial and more and more women seem to want them to "get noticed".... and they do it for men, not for themselves so please cut the crap about boosting self confidence. besides you are going to have sex eventually... so why not? you have the right to ask if you are close and are together. if she minds then she wasnt for you and just shows what some women are like...hypocritical and damned if you do, damned if you dont. ive been with a woman who has had breast implements. sure, looked great BUT it was a bit of a turn off for me to be honest. I prefer real ones, as long as they are big though Edited April 20, 2012 by firehawk_1 Link to post Share on other sites
Andy_K Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Just ask. "Hey, are your boobs real?" "Why?" "I'm curious" You will be able to get away with this just fine without causing offence if you're coming from a place of genuine curiosity, and you know you won't judge her either way for it. If not though, she'll pick up on your tone & hesitation, see that it's a big deal to you, and start questioning your motive for asking. Girls are perceptive like that. Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 If you have strong feelings about it one way or another, you should ask. Waiting until after you become intimate on potential dealbreakers for you is much less considerate than just asking up front. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 I have implants and I've only been asked once, shortly after I got them done and after being intimate enough where he was curious. The guy that did ask, I actually took as a compliment...because it was obvious he couldn't tell - which was my goal. A few guys since then have had no idea until I told them. One guy in particular was always talking about how he lovvvvvved my boobs and talked so much sh*t about girls with implants and "fake tits," and how he hates them and whatnot. I'll never forget the look on his face when I said, "You've been playing with mine for months without complaint." A good boob job doesn't look like what you see in porn. If a gal had a great doctor and has had them long enough, tons of people just won't know. I kinda get a kick out of the reaction on people's faces when I tell them. I have no visible scars, and they look and feel natural. My chest looks basically like Halle Berry's. *shrug* Link to post Share on other sites
Author Babolat Posted April 20, 2012 Author Share Posted April 20, 2012 If you have strong feelings about it one way or another, you should ask. Waiting until after you become intimate on potential dealbreakers for you is much less considerate than just asking up front. My thought after reading your reply is "Why did she get them?". The last girl said her last boyfriend made her get her tatoos (on her back and breasts), so I assume he made her get the breast implants too, which was a huge turn off. Prior to dating the last girl I did not like implants though I had never been with a woman who had them. However, I found myself liking them on her. So I do not think I have strong feelings at this point having "experienced" them with the last girl I dated. She is a beautiful woman...they look great either way. I think I am more curious as to why. Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 My thought after reading your reply is "Why did she get them?". The last girl said her last boyfriend made her get her tatoos (on her back and breasts), so I assume he made her get the breast implants too, which was a huge turn off. Prior to dating the last girl I did not like implants though I had never been with a woman who had them. However, I found myself liking them on her. So I do not think I have strong feelings at this point having "experienced" them with the last girl I dated. She is a beautiful woman...they look great either way. I think I am more curious as to why. My sister and my best friend from high school both got implants. One was married when she got them, the other wasn't. Both of them were completely flat-chested and didn't feel feminine. Neither did it because of pressure from their SO. In my friend's case, she never had much to begin with...then after children, she was a little saggy so she was self-conscious. She and her H have been happily married over 20 years... implants for 15 of those years, with no issues at all. Now, I realize that many men are very happy with their wife's bodies...both pre and post baby. Not every woman does it just to show off or get huge porn boobs though. Neither my sis or my friend are out showing them off and being gross about it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 My chest looks basically like Halle Berry's. *shrug* ... I'm picturing all the gents googling Halle Berry right about now. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Andy_K Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 ... I'm picturing all the gents googling Halle Berry right about now. It's funny because I did exactly that. Curse of a one track mind! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Babolat Posted April 20, 2012 Author Share Posted April 20, 2012 My sister and my best friend from high school both got implants. One was married when she got them, the other wasn't. Both of them were completely flat-chested and didn't feel feminine. Neither did it because of pressure from their SO. In my friend's case, she never had much to begin with...then after children, she was a little saggy so she was self-conscious. She and her H have been happily married over 20 years... implants for 15 of those years, with no issues at all. Now, I realize that many men are very happy with their wife's bodies...both pre and post baby. Not every woman does it just to show off or get huge porn boobs though. Neither my sis or my friend are out showing them off and being gross about it. Makes sense. She does not show them with the clothes she wears. She is modest actually from what I can tell with how she dresses. I could tell she was bigger than average though and honestly, they look great on her, real or implants. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 I don't really think it's your business unless she decides to tell you. Although, I wonder by not knowing, how many men get unrealistic ideals of what real breasts look like by thinking someone has real ones when they are really fake. I in general wish women accepted their bodies as God gave them too them. Even if they aren't perfect. This is part of the problem with how women feel about their bodies in general. Not that they have smaller breasts or misshapped ones. It's the idea that something about their bodies need to be fixed if they aren't perfect. And it makes me a little sad that breast implants are so common in our world today with both women and men feeling like they make a woman more "feminine". But, I do think it would be wrong to pry around and ask her outright if they were real or fake. However, maybe someone that got breasts implants doesn't mind being asked. I don't know. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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