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Old 8th February 2018, 5:56 PM   #121
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Originally Posted by road View Post
I never said or implied that people must, should, have to, need to,
wait to be married to have sex.

An adult should be worried about getting an STD and having
an unwanted pregnancy.
Road, one thing you will have to accept as a fact, is that not everyone agrees with your stance on this subject. The vast majority of Europe does not agree with your views, nor does 76% of California voters.

Now - here is the important part. This SHOULD be an adult discussion that occurs before sex. As a female who DOES NOT WANT CHILDREN EVER I have made sure to have this talk. Because I would never want to have sex with someone like you, who has strong opinions opposite of mine. It is a woman's body, but I also think the man's opinion counts as well.

This is why I prefer to use two forms of contraceptive, and it is imperative that he is on the same page as me when it comes to pro-choice matters.

So, someone like you should never have sex with someone who is pro-choice. That is the adult discussion.

In my marriage, we have agreed to not having children, period. And that doesn't mean we abstain from sex.

For the OP - These are the things that need to be very very carefully considered, which is why I recommend a vasectomy.
Sorry for all of the typos! On a cell phone that thinks it is smarter than me
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Old 8th February 2018, 6:33 PM   #122
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Originally Posted by RecentChange View Post
For the OP - These are the things that need to be very very carefully considered, which is why I recommend a vasectomy.
Thanks for the advice. Way ahead of you. ;-)
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Old 11th February 2018, 10:26 AM   #123
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Hi Rambunctious, that's a double edged sword if you know what I mean! And no, no innuendoes! Warm wishes.
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