Ex came back after no contact but giving me mixed signals

[Alfano]

This isn't healthy. It's like an eternal game of chess.

 

[Runninggirl]

4 hours ago, Alfano said:

This isn't healthy. It's like an eternal game of chess.

 

I know. Why keep reaching out every day or every other day, just to ignore me or be ice cold in responses. Like he sent me something now, and as a test I asked him a question so he couldn't blankly ignore me, and he replied in the shortest most careless way he could. Why reach out to begin with if you think so little of me, you know.. 

There's definitely someone else involved, which makes this even stranger. Would explain being so cold and avoidant, but not why he would keep in touch like this. 

[Donnas]

it was over for a reason .move on. 

[ExpatInItaly]

You're who he texts when he's bored. That's literally all there is to it. 

This has been over a long time. You just refuse to accept it, and keep trying to find deeper meaning where there just isn't any.