Michelle ma Belle Posted May 9, 2019 Posted May 9, 2019 (edited) There's an obscene amount of men who want all the benefits of a relationship without the actual relationship. As women, we are partly to blame. Again, far too many are lowering their standards which allow these men to not only get away with it, but to think it's okay and 'normal'. Raise your head and your standards high and make the men you meet rise up to YOUR level rather than you stoop to theirs. And if that means you have fewer dates per week, then so be it. Quality over quantity is always the better option in my humble opinion. Edited May 9, 2019 by Michelle ma Belle 4
bathtub-row Posted May 9, 2019 Posted May 9, 2019 When someone invites me to an event and is gone for 95% of the time without introducing me to anyone, is that rally on me? I am not crazy, I am not asking for too much here. That's just disrespectful and has nothing to do with validation. I left him now because I found out he hooked up with someone after I left the event and also has been talking to a third girl for a few weeks. Guess my intuition was spot on, I was just in denial. Good! Next time, listen to those instincts before all hell breaks loose or you demean yourself.
dispatch3d Posted May 11, 2019 Posted May 11, 2019 There's an obscene amount of men who want all the benefits of a relationship without the actual relationship. As women, we are partly to blame. Again, far too many are lowering their standards which allow these men to not only get away with it, but to think it's okay and 'normal'. Raise your head and your standards high and make the men you meet rise up to YOUR level rather than you stoop to theirs. And if that means you have fewer dates per week, then so be it. Quality over quantity is always the better option in my humble opinion. To me this isn't a problem of standards, he's just kinda ****ty, ya know? Anyhow I'm glad she asked for a label, that cleared the air pretty quick...
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