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laelithia there is a very simple solution to this (bolded).

 

When he reaches out, DON'T answer him.

 

I mean what's the point? You KNOW he will only ignore it, making you feel worse. So why respond at all?

 

He is only "on top" because YOU have put him there.

 

I definitely won't respond if he contacts me again, but now it seems like he has stopped completely. I just don't understand why he did that at all, why anyone would do that. I guess I'm upset with myself that I misjudged his character so greatly. I wondered about his interest from day one in me, but throughout I thought he was a very good, honest person. Now I'm feeling upset that this is not the case, or at least not the way he's treated me

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