Rejected Rosebud Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 It all good . Like I said why should i work hard to get an average looking white woman when I can hard just as hard and get a cute Asian , Mexican , non American black woman? You shouldn't!! But I am confused because I've read quite alot of what you write on here and as far as I can see you haven't been "getting" any cute Asian, Mexican or non American black women, or even plain old white women for that matter??? Maybe might it be that your dating issues are not based on the races of women?? Just maybe? :confused: 2
Rejected Rosebud Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 Why do people have a hatred towards Asian/White relationship? I've heard plenty of jokes about it. ??:confused: I have never heard of any of that hatred, otoh there are nasty jokes about anything you can think of. I don't think THAT many people are interested in the races of who everybody else is dating, you like what you like, this thread however seems to be trying to make white women feel undesirable and that is kind of funny imo!! I mean OP nobody really cares about who you want to date, we just care about who WE want to date!!!
Ruby Slippers Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 Everything I've read says white men and women are universally at the top of the dating "ladder". White/light skin is universally prized. I've never really understood why. I find all types attractive, and find darker skin particularly sexy. My boyfriend is Middle Eastern with medium-brown skin, gorgeous brown tiger eyes, and darker skin where he gets sun. I'm a light-skinned white girl with mostly Irish blood, blue eyes, and blonde hair. We both find the contrast between our skin tones very sexy, and have endless fun jokes and quips about coffee and cream, chocolate and vanilla cake, white sugar and brown sugar, etc. He likes to refer to my butt as his "vanilla cake," and my favorite parts of him are my "chocolate ice cream" 3
Author Krieger Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 You shouldn't!! But I am confused because I've read quite alot of what you write on here and as far as I can see you haven't been "getting" any cute Asian, Mexican or non American black women, or even plain old white women for that matter??? Maybe might it be that your dating issues are not based on the races of women?? Just maybe? :confused: Well right now I ma not really looking to date but if I meet a female I was interested in I make a move . It not that I don't want a GF but I rather have a college degree and a career than a GF and a dead end job with no upward mobility.
Phoe Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I imagine this will change from region to region. I know that white men and asian women are a BIG thing in my area. Asian women are the most coveted. For the men I know who prefer asian women, it's due to the femininity, petite stature, and how the women were raised. But in an area where the population doesn't have many asians, I can imagine the findings being different.
S_A Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 (edited) Los Angeles is very ethnically diverse and I am always out and always out in different parts of LA. From what I've observed, in my area interracial dating is on the decline (I'm aware this can't be statistically true tho). I actually cannot recall the last time I saw an Asian female with a non Asian male. With that said I would wager anything that by far the most common interracial arrangement is one between a white man and south/central American woman. What I've heard though is that interracial statistics regarding "hispanics" or "Latinos" is not accounted for the way it is for Asian, Blacks, and Whites. So I can't prove it by numbers (nobody can). Could be with how they classify themselves. My GF is Brazilian but she does not mark Latino or Hispanic on government forms, none of them do I think (though these forms are starting to include Brazilian as it's own option). Anyway, trust me, South and Central American girls love them some white boy I'd say the next two most common would be white man and Asian woman, and black man and white woman (in no particular order). Lastly, I think white men with black women is getting more common (though still quite uncommon overall). The only thing that gets me is this... And I've observed this without exception (almost), and that is that whenever a white man is with a black woman, the black woman is scorchingly hot. Like top 2% hot. I've never quite developed a taste for black women (or many other types of ethnically "different" women, so no offense black ladies), but damn I can't help but take notice of a lot of these black chicks! I personally cannot say I've ever seen a black man with a black woman that looks half as good as the ones I've seen with white guys (then again, I don't see a lot of black men out with women? They're usually a group of black guys together?). Anyway, I've been pointing out to my GF how a lot of the black women with white women look really good (she's usually color blind to stuff like this), and she too is starting to notice that the black women that are with white men are extremely good looking. I'm not crazy. And trust my taste when I refer to these women as top 2%. edit: I'd say hispanic men and white women is gaining momentum, too. Edited July 10, 2015 by S_A
jen1447 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Actually the w/f - b/m couples wouldn't show up on a dating site study or even a dating trends study in my area bc a lot of them aren't exactly "dating" if you catch my drift. Which might explain why you don't see them out and about together so much.
S_A Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Actually the w/f - b/m couples wouldn't show up on a dating site study or even a dating trends study in my area bc a lot of them aren't exactly "dating" if you catch my drift. Which might explain why you don't see them out and about together so much. Hmmm.... I think I catch your drift... If someone else said the above I'd assume "casual hook ups." Why do I get the feeling you're implying something else rofl?
seixal Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Los Angeles is very ethnically diverse and I am always out and always out in different parts of LA. From what I've observed, in my area interracial dating is on the decline (I'm aware this can't be statistically true tho). I actually cannot recall the last time I saw an Asian female with a non Asian male. With that said I would wager anything that by far the most common interracial arrangement is one between a white man and south/central American woman. What I've heard though is that interracial statistics regarding "hispanics" or "Latinos" is not accounted for the way it is for Asian, Blacks, and Whites. So I can't prove it by numbers (nobody can). Could be with how they classify themselves. My GF is Brazilian but she does not mark Latino or Hispanic on government forms, none of them do I think (though these forms are starting to include Brazilian as it's own option). Anyway, trust me, South and Central American girls love them some white boy edit: I'd say hispanic men and white women is gaining momentum, too. Being from Los Angeles too I agree interracial dating in this city is definitely not a mainstream practice. Each community is fairly segregated to each other for the most part, not only by race but by national origin. Brazilians do not mark Hispanic on demographic questionnaires because Brazil is a Portuguese-speaking country. Instinctively when hearing Hispanic in LA people picture an individual with Amerindian descent from a Spanish-speaking country, generally Mexico, El Salvador, Guatemala etc. The city being so diverse this is when interracial dating becomes a tricky as it depends if we refer to someone's race or ethnicity/culture. For instance there is a very large Japanese community in Brazil.
Author Krieger Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 Black People And Asian Men Have A Much Harder Time Dating On OKCupid Black People And Asian Men Have A Much Harder Time Dating On OKCupid
S_A Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Femininity and masculinity can be extremely subjective, which makes it impossible to talk averages when it comes to those things. You have opinions on what's feminine or masculine?
yxalitis Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I imagine this will change from region to region. I know that white men and asian women are a BIG thing in my area. Asian women are the most coveted. For the men I know who prefer asian women, it's due to the femininity, petite stature, and how the women were raised. But in an area where the population doesn't have many asians, I can imagine the findings being different. Woman often try and guess why western guys covet Asian girls. They are always wrong. Yes, some of the other things may play a factor, but... There is one REAL overriding reason. I’ll walk you there It’s anatomical… Think about clichés relating to black men…and now Asian men. These are in fact often true. Now realise the opposite sex are adapted to the typical male of their ethnicity… I’m sure you get my drift
Phoe Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Woman often try and guess why western guys covet Asian girls. They are always wrong. Yes, some of the other things may play a factor, but... There is one REAL overriding reason. I’ll walk you there It’s anatomical… Think about clichés relating to black men…and now asina men Now realise the opposite sex are adapted to the typical male of their ethnicity… I’m sure you get my drift I wasn't making up any guesses, I was just quoting what the men I know have told me.
yxalitis Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I wasn't making up any guesses, I was just quoting what the men I know have told me. They were being discrete..
Phoe Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Besides, while I'm sure some men are only interested in an asian vagina, I know plenty of men who are interested in their other qualities. Men have posted on this very thread about the qualities they like in an asian woman. The white man I know who pursued asians as a virgin, how could be possibly be making his choice based on a vagina? No, he simply liked asian women, he likes their look, he likes the conservative demeanor some have. I tend to think most men don't choose a woman based solely on her vagina... 3
jay1983 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 The primary reason is that they look good and they're interested. That's it.
Phoe Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 The primary reason is that they look good and they're interested. That's it. you're being discreet. 3
yxalitis Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Besides, while I'm sure some men are only interested in an asian vagina, I know plenty of men who are interested in their other qualities. Men have posted on this very thread about the qualities they like in an asian woman. The white man I know who pursued asians as a virgin, how could be possibly be making his choice based on a vagina? No, he simply liked asian women, he likes their look, he likes the conservative demeanor some have. I tend to think most men don't choose a woman based solely on her vagina... OMG I was joking...
Phoe Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 OMG I was joking... Oh. Literally NONE of that translated, haha. I thought you were being super duper serious...
yxalitis Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Oh. Literally NONE of that translated, haha. I thought you were being super duper serious... ME? pffft I'm almost never serious... Seriously! 1
Author Krieger Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 I think white men like Asian woman because less likely to become obese . My biggest fear is I get married we have a few kids and she get too fat and gains 50 to 100+ pounds and just gives up trying to look good. I am very active and take care of myself so if a woman is showing me she giving up on trying to look good . It will be hard to want to have sex with her and do romantic things when I am in shape and trying to look my best for her . BTW not saying she has to look the same as she did b4 we got married but can she at least try to look her best? I rather have her fail and still call her beautiful than her to say F it I do not care anymore.
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