loveweary11 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I don't turn men on for a living. I do it as a hobby. (It's a joke:o..sort of..) Some info. for everyone: Lipstick is suppose to represent the female sexual organ. When a man looks at your lips he's suppose to think about..your lips. This is why a nude pink with a bit of gloss comes across as very sexy. Exactly! We men are, point blank, turned on by images that elicit a response in our crotch. Literally. So, the nude/gloss is better. That deep red trend does zero for the junk, as did those maternity shirts. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Brigit_1 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Exactly! We men are, point blank, turned on by images that elicit a response in our crotch. Literally. So, the nude/gloss is better. That deep red trend does zero for the junk, as did those maternity shirts. I hear ya. I'm not much into trends or clothes/shoe shopping anyway. Malls and chain restaurants literally make me ill. I like shopping at cute boutique stores that sell incense, soap and candles and grab something from Whole Foods if I'm out and I get hungry. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I still don't know what maternity shirts LW is talking about, but I suddenly remembered THIS old trend... http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_2Aa67YwGrc/UFP1HKATofI/AAAAAAAACYQ/jOgJVsFNLhQ/s640/popcorn-shirt.jpeg As far as the red lip trend, I still think that Leigh can pull it off if she keeps her eyes light, and chooses a tone that compliments her skin tone, probably a red with a cooler blue kind of undertone. More towards the pink side than the orange side. Keeping it sheer with a red tinted gloss is also a great idea But for most days, I'd say a pinky nude is perfect. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Lip colour can be changed according to mood, time of day, season of the year, what clothes are being worn, and what is on trend. Hot Lips: Spring Summer 2015 Lipstick Trend (Vogue.co.uk) Some colours suit some people and on others they look dreadful. Some can rock the deep red lip and look fantastic, some look completely washed out with nude shades. Different strokes for different folks. It is all about good colour management. As can be seen in the above slideshow "red" can encompass many different shades - it is finding the best one that suits you personally is the trick here. Leigh needs to experiment with varying different make up looks, especially as she has changed her hair colour. She needs to find the one she likes and one that gives her the best feedback. She will need a different colour palette for her clothes too, now she is blonde. Red is revealed as the sexiest lipstick colour | Daily Mail Online Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 MoreAmore made a good point about consulting professionals, both in makeup and hair. They're professionals for a reason, so make use of them as resources. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 These are the maternity tops I'm talking about. All the rage a few years back. This girl in the pic could have perfect, good size boobs and a washboard stomach, but we'd never know. She might as well be pregnant. lol http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_BbPVrRElco/VNtnh3KOqBI/AAAAAAAAThU/6EzHtHlWcAU/s1600/floral%2Btop%2B(1).jpg Tthank God the crop tops are in now. Link to post Share on other sites
Brigit_1 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Wayne Goss is a Makeup guru. Tutorials are easy to follow. Here's his link: https://www.youtube.com/user/gossmakeupartist 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 These are the maternity tops I'm talking about. All the rage a few years back. This girl in the pic could have perfect, good size boobs and a washboard stomach, but we'd never know. She might as well be pregnant. lol http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_BbPVrRElco/VNtnh3KOqBI/AAAAAAAAThU/6EzHtHlWcAU/s1600/floral%2Btop%2B(1).jpg Tthank God the crop tops are in now. Some people should not wear crop tops. Or leggins. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Some people should not wear crop tops. Or leggins. Hehe, indeed, I look ridiculous in a crop top. Full length shirts only! Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Big boobs can overwhelm a croptop, so good call Phoe. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 These are the maternity tops I'm talking about. All the rage a few years back. This girl in the pic could have perfect, good size boobs and a washboard stomach, but we'd never know. She might as well be pregnant. lol http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_BbPVrRElco/VNtnh3KOqBI/AAAAAAAAThU/6EzHtHlWcAU/s1600/floral%2Btop%2B(1).jpg Tthank God the crop tops are in now. We don't always want to or have to display our boobs and stomach, thank goodness! And we don't even need to do so to be attractive. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 7, 2015 Author Share Posted July 7, 2015 I have a second date with hot lecturer in an hour. I will take pics and shares. Will wear nude lip with a touch of volume enhancing nude balm and a teens bit of liner which is also nude ish. And I will really use as little as possible.. Eyes: a high of black liner over top lashes. Mascara. An do always wear lumanescent light YSL designer brand highlighter on the inner rims of eyes to make them appear wider and larger. So nude lip, not over the top eyes and my hair is looking nice. Light waves. Still not sure what this guy sees in me LOL. He is a total andonis. NOT the type I ever go for. He knows my views on sex. He has shades very few sexual partners and he thrives on meaningful connections as opposed to senseless fcking. He has been too busy in finishing his PHD, being a lecturer and conducting research papers to have the time for sex from any hot girl who come his way. I don't think he will want more that's lovely dates and sex ; I doubt it'll turn into anything vround breaking. Men like him would prefer to find the fireworks with a younger hotter girl who knocks his socks off. And I don't need a " Hot" man that young girls openly go gaga over as a partner. No thanks. I am definately not ruling anything out of course! I just know the reality of being a very hot, 6"3 PHD grad who has much younger hot chicks going crazy over him in a daily basis. He is very sweet. He is the one who Initiates all the texts. He flirts and he has told me that my 28 year old figure puts the 20 yr olds students he lecturers to shame. But that is one of the few compliments, he isnt over the top or fake. This should be interesting though. About time a decent man has taken me out on dates unlike my looked exes. Oh that's right, my ex didnt take me out on any date in nearly three years. Have never dated a decent guy before. I have kind of settled for real losers. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Rejected Rosebud Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 Exactly! So, the nude/gloss is better. That deep red trend does zero for the junk, as did those maternity shirts. I get that you like pale lips but I assure you really that alot of guys REALLY go for the full pinup, retro (Ava Gardner, Rita Hayworth, Betty Paige) looks, there are entire porn sites even devoted to this look, so just cause you don't like it doesn't mean it's a turn off to guys. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 Really, you like porn? Cool, we've got something in common. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 7, 2015 Author Share Posted July 7, 2015 What do you think of my later. I used a lot less make up. Just pink lips ever so slightly. Mascara. I didn't use eyeliner. It is my album cover for reference. Link to post Share on other sites
Brigit_1 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 I have a second date with hot lecturer in an hour. I will take pics and shares. Will wear nude lip with a touch of volume enhancing nude balm and a teens bit of liner which is also nude ish. And I will really use as little as possible.. Eyes: a high of black liner over top lashes. Mascara. An do always wear lumanescent light YSL designer brand highlighter on the inner rims of eyes to make them appear wider and larger. So nude lip, not over the top eyes and my hair is looking nice. Light waves. Still not sure what this guy sees in me LOL. He is a total andonis. NOT the type I ever go for. He knows my views on sex. He has shades very few sexual partners and he thrives on meaningful connections as opposed to senseless fcking. He has been too busy in finishing his PHD, being a lecturer and conducting research papers to have the time for sex from any hot girl who come his way. I don't think he will want more that's lovely dates and sex ; I doubt it'll turn into anything vround breaking. Men like him would prefer to find the fireworks with a younger hotter girl who knocks his socks off. And I don't need a " Hot" man that young girls openly go gaga over as a partner. No thanks. I am definately not ruling anything out of course! I just know the reality of being a very hot, 6"3 PHD grad who has much younger hot chicks going crazy over him in a daily basis. He is very sweet. He is the one who Initiates all the texts. He flirts and he has told me that my 28 year old figure puts the 20 yr olds students he lecturers to shame. But that is one of the few compliments, he isnt over the top or fake. This should be interesting though. About time a decent man has taken me out on dates unlike my looked exes. Oh that's right, my ex didnt take me out on any date in nearly three years. Have never dated a decent guy before. I have kind of settled for real losers. Please post a pic of him. Link to post Share on other sites
Brigit_1 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 Really, you like porn? Cool, we've got something in common. Who knew that would be a good pick-up line? Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 What do you think of my later. I used a lot less make up. Just pink lips ever so slightly. Mascara. I didn't use eyeliner. It is my album cover for reference. New pic is hot. Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 We don't always want to or have to display our boobs and stomach, thank goodness! And we don't even need to do so to be attractive. Possibly, but proper fitting clothes are better than these maternity shirts were. They made the best looking girls look like the Stay Puff Marshmallow Man Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 It's amazing what a little chane in makeup can do! Now, I feel your hair color is good. Before, it just wasn't clicking with your face coloring. Now, it looks great. The lighter eye makeup actually seems to make blue eyes stand out more, which is surprising because heavy eye makeup makes dark eyes pop. Now the focal point is your eyes, as it should be. As a guy, I see those first, then my eyes wander down to your lips next. Honestly, I don't really see/notice your nose at all now and would not give it a second thought in this pic. To me (remember, I'm using my man sexual feelings to feel this out, not theory), you just changed from "she's OK looking" to "she's hot." That new pic is excellent. Tweak little things here and there as the women suggest, but you've definitely fixed whatever it was that was holding you back from being in the "hot" category. Good job!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 The picture you are smiling in....... That works. Good luck. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 I get that you like pale lips but I assure you really that alot of guys REALLY go for the full pinup, retro (Ava Gardner, Rita Hayworth, Betty Paige) looks, there are entire porn sites even devoted to this look, so just cause you don't like it doesn't mean it's a turn off to guys. Ok, I'll accept what you're saying, but take a good look at who liked your post. Only women. Guys, by and large, do not find that image attractive at all. Womnen do. It's a niche look, like suicide girls, foot fetish people, etc... Covers a tiny slice of the male population. The vast majority of men don't find those looks attractive. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Brigit_1 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 It's a niche look, like suicide girls, foot fetish people, etc... LOL!!!! I wonder if there's guy who can only get it up for suicide girls with nice feet? Leigh you new pic DSC 1100 looks GORGEOUS! ....so...do we get to see a picture of your date?? Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 Ok, I'll accept what you're saying, but take a good look at who liked your post. Only women. Guys, by and large, do not find that image attractive at all. Womnen do. It's a niche look, like suicide girls, foot fetish people, etc... Covers a tiny slice of the male population. The vast majority of men don't find those looks attractive. YOU are translating what YOU like onto what ALL men like. You are acting like the self proclaimed spokesmen for ALL men, how do you know what ALL or the majority of men like? Studies do not back up your claims re red lipstick and men. I think red lipstick attracts men, it is like the peacock flash for men, it signals "Here I am and I am available." Men notice the woman with the red lips, walking by, in the cafe, in the club... BUT men then hate THEIR woman to be wearing red lipstick as that makes her stand out, they then want THEIR woman to wear nude and light pink... RED is then seen by them as too sexually suggestive to other men, so they hate that. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted July 7, 2015 Share Posted July 7, 2015 Leigh You look great. Much better. Your nose has actually faded into insignificance with that look. Good luck!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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