loveweary11 Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 And both of you continue to fail to form meaningful, long term relationships. Your version of "it works" is more accurately described as "it doesn't work". Uh... I've had meaningful relationships all my life. This is my first time being single in 12 years. Just got out of a 10 year marriage, thank you. PS: I have half a dozen women waiting for me to return to NY to do dating/romantic stuff. Yeah, I'd say it works.
jen1447 Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 btw LW, leigh's right about noses - guys can get away w/big ones, girls not so much.
loveweary11 Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 btw LW, leigh's right about noses - guys can get away w/big ones, girls not so much. Ah... one of the few advantages to being a guy. I'm curious to see the transition as she tries different makeup and hair. I think she's going to come out super hot.
jen1447 Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 Yeah she's already got the fundamentals. (Sorry to tall about you like a third party leigh, lol. )
craw Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 I couldn't even read the amount of utter nonsense that has been posted on this entire thread. CONFIDENCE - you can be the ugliest woman in the world, but if you have that confidence to walk in the room and OWN IT. None of your other features matters. Jebus - I have a deviated septum and OVERBITE - I still get hit on constantly. I intimidate women with their husbands, BECAUSE IN GENERAL - I AM POSITIVE, WARM, FRIENDLY AND HAVE GOOD MANNERS. Absolutely nothing to do with looks. You can have your beautiful nose job, but if you're still insecure about yourself. No one will approach you. LOVE YOURSELF. It sounds annoyingly cliche, but it's the obvious truth. Also I read that story about the Dubai Billionaire, never read such a crock of **** in my life!!! That doesn't happen in Dubai - Dubai is crawling with prostitutes and fast, easy women. 1
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 The thing is, I already do think I am attractive. I think due to my age and youth, and my full lips and nice teeth definately make me attractive. Am ya raging beauty? No. Do some men think I am? Yes. Some. Not " lots". It is about going for the right men. The men I bother with honestly view me as gorgeous looking. I am very very fortunate in that I have some very nice features to work with and already have my fans from the outset. Right now, I am interested in getting HONEST suggestions as to what colour palette would but compliment my features. I Love getting advice from real, honest people. Not my friends and family who all of course tell me that I am pretty. Men are the worst, they don't tend to have a clue about.... Colour schemes or make up :/
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 No one on here has told me that I am NOT attractive. I will just take that as a yes Leigh is attractive in general. Due to my age and the fact I have one or two striking features.
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 I couldn't even read the amount of utter nonsense that has been posted on this entire thread. CONFIDENCE - you can be the ugliest woman in the world, but if you have that confidence to walk in the room and OWN IT. None of your other features matters. Jebus - I have a deviated septum and OVERBITE - I still get hit on constantly. I intimidate women with their husbands, BECAUSE IN GENERAL - I AM POSITIVE, WARM, FRIENDLY AND HAVE GOOD MANNERS. Absolutely nothing to do with looks. You can have your beautiful nose job, but if you're still insecure about yourself. No one will approach you. LOVE YOURSELF. It sounds annoyingly cliche, but it's the obvious truth. Also I read that story about the Dubai Billionaire, never read such a crock of **** in my life!!! That doesn't happen in Dubai - Dubai is crawling with prostitutes and fast, easy women. I already get told I am gorgeous daily by men thanks. Although I am their cup of teasing and not most mens idea of beautiful I am sure. Lol I am also very warm and friends which has led to MANY.... Many women's boyfriends hitting on me. I stopped doing the right thing and telling the women either. I got suck of bullying and depth threats. What makes you see it fit to give me a lecture on being " kind " or " warm "? Classic.
craw Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 The worst place to get validation is from strangers on the internet. I'm sorry, you've completely missed the point of my post. You don't find yourself attractive - it's pretty obvious. Most people who are confident in their looks, don't go and get surgical procedures. The people who do are insecure about themselves. If you want advice about colour palette - go to a make up artist. 1
craw Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 I already get told I am gorgeous daily by men thanks. Although I am their cup of teasing and not most mens idea of beautiful I am sure. Lol I am also very warm and friends which has led to MANY.... Many women's boyfriends hitting on me. I stopped doing the right thing and telling the women either. I got suck of bullying and depth threats. What makes you see it fit to give me a lecture on being " kind " or " warm "? Classic. You've become so defensive that you've completely missed the point of my post yet again. Personality > Looks
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 You need to get some body pics up there hon. Do you actually want a serious makeup/style/presentation overview tho? Phoe illustrates what I think is the bigger point here - she has various individual attributes that she sees as imperfect and yet altogether, she's gorgeous. That's what you need to strive for - accepting and embracing yourself within the context of your identity, which when worn honestly and smartly will organically be attractive. But I have one bad feature only. My nose. My smile and eyes are striking and above average. Hence the nose job. You only live once and I would just prefer to look better. Believe me. A nice petite nose will make me beautiful to a lottttt more people. I already have a kind and warm personality so this is strictly about my looks. And Yeh I don't have odd or displeasing features; it is only my nose. The rest are attractive hands down. And yes I do want a very honest style and make up overview.
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 I have put up a body selfie. Bare in mind that I don't excercise. So yes I know I am un toned. But for nearly 30 and not exercising my body is deff pretty good lol. I have my boobs covered. They are big but I obviously don't want to show them.
craw Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 Your nose is fine - I hope the surgeon you go to is a pro. Otherwise, you will end up looking like a barbie. :/ There are far better things spending your money on instead of nose job, like travelling.
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 I have posted a profile shot. Of my nose.
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 Thanks - overview tomorrow. I really appreciate you talking the time, Jen. I have added new pics too. I have me with blonde, brown and chestnut mousy brown. Can't wait to hear your tips!
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 I have posted a profile shot. Can you see why I want one of those classically slightly upturned noses?? I am trying to think of an actress who has the nose I want! Those noses that look beautiful. Attractive. Feminine. I have the beautiful month and smile. Now with the new nose, I will be one confidence hot gal. I will KNOW I am attractive. Right now? I am just a cute gal a tad above average.
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 I am going on a date soon. Hes a PHD grad and lecturer at my college. All be it not MY lecturer. He is from Belgium and he is very hot. This is the only hot guy I've responded to. I prefer men at my own level. I am actually not usually attracted to " hot " type men for some reason. I already know my nose makes me not attractive enough for a man like him, so I am going into it wanting to make a new friend. No way a man like him could fall for a girl like me. I am cute but deff not the slender beautiful type of girl a man like him can land. He is just 27. And already an international lecturer in exercise science. I am really looking forward to forging a possible friendship! We connected really well over the phone. But yes. He is definately too out of my league!!!!
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 Guys. I have posted a pic of the lecturer. I am showing u all that despite thinking that I am attractive, I do know when a man is out of my league. Here is is pic. In my profile. I am soon talking it down. He seems to think I am gorgeous. He is into the Kate Winslet, full lip unique beauty type of look. But I am deff friend zoning him. No way would he be satisfied or even able to fall for a woman of my level of attractiveness. As you can all see I do know my place.
loveweary11 Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 There are now enough pics to really see what's going on. I can totally see the little upturned button nose making a difference that will add cuteness. I see what you're going for now and frankly, I agree. It'll look great. I'll still stand by the fact that you need hair/make up down as well, but I see exactly where you are going on the nose thing. Blonde! You look quite a bit more put together with bleached hair. It's a great look for you. I don't really go for blondes as a rule, but I find you much more attractive with the blonde hair. Much more. It goes with the rest of your natural coloring. Gives you a nice, bright, happy image. Seems to go with your personality better too. Go to a nice, bright, summery blonde. You'll get a lot of attention with that... Can't wait to see the makeup stuff. Because I have all female friends and my ex was very into beauty techniques, having been miss teen ny, I kind of enjoy this stuff a little while remaining staunchly heterosexual. 1
regine_phalange Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 Omg, I can't believe what I'm reading. This is nonsense! Go ahead and date the lecturer if you like him. Don't judge people by their appearances, that's superficial (yes, don't judge yourself either). I've personally had very good experience with the handsome guy I dated, he treated me really well. So give it a shot. If you allow me to say, I think the upturned nose wouldn't suit your face shape. I think a straight one (still strong, instead of petite) would be better. The one you have now is really nice too, if I were you I would only make it symmetric and nothing else. It makes your face memorable. You pull it off very well because your features and style are very girly. That's my opinion! (I'm just thinking of Jennifer Gray whose popularity faded after her nose job - she didn't look like her self anymore. And you can't deny that she was really beautiful before!) 3
loveweary11 Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 What a lot of people miss is that the superficial is just as important as the real stuff. The superficial is what gets you the opportunity to get into the real stuff. When meeting someone new, they decide if you are "acceptable mating material" rather than just a friend within moments. This has to do with looks and a very small glimpse of personality. A hot/cute person will have substantially more suitors to choose from than someone who does not put any effort into their outer shell, thus giving them a wider selection of people to get deep/personal/real with. It's about upping your prospects. Think of it like sales, because it is. You are selling yourself to the other person. Is it better to have a list of 10 potential leads when making a sale or 20? 1
Author Leigh 87 Posted July 5, 2015 Author Posted July 5, 2015 I'll be going to one of the best cosmetic surgeons. And THANKS for your tips regarding the nose job. It means a lot that yes, while it is trivial and pretty in the grand scheme of the world around us, if you got the cash why not invest in a life long better nose IF it happens to be something that makes you happier? I will decided with the expert and I will get to pick from computer images... I was thinking a symmetrical version of my nose. NOT a Denise Richards totally tiny upturned nose..she has a long face like myself and full lips and her nose looks too small for her features............. About to meet lecturer. Sorry but he is too hot to date I would rather be his friend. I am more myself with hot men as I don't see them as potential Love interest, ironically.
GemmaUK Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 I don't wear pink eye liners. Lol. I wear greens and blues over my top lashes. I have posted a nude eye pic of me.. With my lips done with red gloss and my eyes nude. I hope no one rewds the " nude " and has their brain immediately think " nude pic" haha Tell me what ya all think of the nude eyes versus the full lips look. Don't wear greens and blues over your top lashes - as I have been saying go for neutral shades only. I mean cream on your eyelids, taupe to define a higher crease and then a darker brown to highlight the outer corners of your eyes. Your eyes are where to place the focus, not your lips. Red gloss is much better than bright red lipstick on you though so if you can't not use a colour on your lips use red gloss or a rose coloured gloss. I'll be back in a sec as I want to reply to another post. You have slightly hooded eyes so any colour you put on your mobile lid will close your eyes up - this is why I suggested 2
GemmaUK Posted July 5, 2015 Posted July 5, 2015 Really? What about dark blue, just very minimally, to outline your eyes? Does the tattooing on hurt a lot? Seriously considering it...... Yes really. Midwest is right, only ever use black or brown liner. Don't go for tattooing Leigh. Midwest will only have gone for it as she has worn her eyeliner in her chosen shade of black or brown for years and she has tried and tested and knew exactly what she wanted. Looking at the profile picture the thing that sticks out to me the most in it is the fake lashes. They look like the stick on ones people use (?). Have you considered getting the single lashes added at a salon? They last longer and look much more natural. OK, your nose next and then I will go back to the bit I said above about hooded eyes. If you did want to get a nose job all you need is to lift the end (making the tip flat the base of your septum). A button nose wouldn't suit you and I would hope no good plastic surgeon would agree to it. I have another video for you here to explain hooded eyes (loads of us have them - I do too) and I use my mid shade of shadow slightly higher than the girl in the video to contour my upper lids (the space between the part where my mobile lid ends and where my eyebrow starts). Please please ignore the shade of lipstick the girl is wearing in this video - it's awful and far too bright and harsh. 2
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